The slightly older man said, "Severance is severance, having a child is a matter for the two of us, it has nothing to do with anyone."
The man's last name was Huang, and the woman was his oldest daughter, and the two sides parted ways.
Uncle Huang
And the reason for their quarrel is that Uncle Huang's wife, Auntie Tian, is pregnant, which is supposed to be a good thing for everyone, but Auntie Tian is 67 years old, belonging to the ultra-high-age maternity, and the couple is still insisting on giving birth to the child, the reason for which is intriguing.
An elderly woman gives birth to a daughter safely, the media has reported
When Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian decided to give birth to their child, they were well aware of the hardships and frustrations they would encounter in the future, but they didn't realize that the first chasm that would be difficult to cross would be that of their own biological children.
They have a son and a daughter, and both children are in their forties and have started their own families.
This is a blessing that many people can't even hope for, so when the Huangs learned that their parents had decided to have a child, the reasons for their opposition were very simple and clear.
Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian
The son and daughter-in-law are both working people, and when they are too busy to take time off, their granddaughter is left in the care of Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian. If there is another small child, the son is worried that the two old men's bodies can not withstand the overload, affecting their health.
The son also felt that his own children were already in high school, and that if his parents gave birth to a child who was a teenager younger than his nephew, it would be too much of a shame, and would be difficult to spread the word.
The eldest daughter, like her brother, is most concerned about the health of her parents. She knows that Auntie Tian's health is not good, and she is worried that her mother's body will be even weaker after giving birth.
In addition, the eldest daughter has to work, and there are still in-laws at home who need to be taken care of. If the parents don't have the energy to raise a child in the future, it will be a burden on their children to take care of them.
Uncle Huang's family
Uncle Huang is well aware of his children's concerns, and he immediately made his point, "We both have more than 10,000 yuan of retirement pay per month, enough to support the three of us, and I'll do my best to take care of my wife and children, so don't worry about it."
The eldest daughter persuaded the half day, see Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian still insisted on giving birth to the child in his old age, she had no choice but to take out the "severance" threat to her parents, hoping that they would consider for their children.
Uncle Huang was not willing to give in, and rushed to his eldest daughter to say "cruel words". After that day, the eldest daughter really did not go to the hospital to see them.
Uncle Huang comforted Auntie Tian and told her to relax and give birth to a child, and that he would be with her no matter what setbacks she encountered. It was only gradually that Auntie Tian's mood changed for the better. After all, for those who are pregnant, the good or bad mood directly affects the health of the fetus.
Uncle Huang
Time flew by, and before you knew it, it was time for Auntie Tian to go into labor. Everyone in the hospital was nervous and busy with this senior woman, and an expert group was set up especially for Auntie Tian.
The doctor asked the nurses to keep an eye on Tian's status 24 hours a day, and to report anything that happened, even if it's a small thing like a mosquito bite, after all, anything can be related to the safety of the mother's life and that of the fetus.
For the general public, the optimal age for a woman to give birth is 25 to 30 years old, and any woman who gives birth beyond this age is known as an advanced maternal age.
Mothers have a high chance of developing hyperemesis, heart disease and diabetes during pregnancy, and it's more difficult for older women to give birth naturally, and they may even give birth to deformed babies.
Uncle Huang
So it's not easy for 67-year-old Auntie Tian to give birth to a child, and besides, her body has already suffered from a variety of illnesses before she got pregnant, and when she did the pregnancy risk assessment, Auntie Tian was almost entirely red and high-risk.
One day in October, doctors performed a cesarean section on Tian, who was 36 weeks pregnant, and Uncle Huang anxiously hovered at the door of the delivery room, hoping his wife would have a safe delivery.
As time passed, the long-awaited door to the operating room slowly opened, and the doctor, holding the baby, told Uncle Huang, "It's not Huang Shikai, it's Huang Tianchi."
Uncle Huang
It turned out that before Auntie Tian gave birth, Uncle Huang often talked to people around him about the child's name, and if it was a boy, it would be Huang Shikai, and if it was a girl, it would be Huang Tianci.
Eventually Auntie Tian managed to deliver a 6-pound baby girl. Doctors took into account the mother's age and past medical history, as well as the fact that the newborn was not full-term, and admitted Auntie Tian to the guardianship ward, and sent the baby girl to the neonatal care unit for further observation.
Young people have to recuperate from minor surgeries, let alone a 67-year-old who has to go through a major event like giving birth to a child. Despite the tough challenges, Tian was lucky enough to give birth to her baby.
The mother and daughter are safe, and Uncle Huang is so happy that he's busy as a gyroscope every day, taking care of his wife, who is recovering from surgery, and his newborn child, as well as his granddaughter, who is in school, and a pet dog.
Uncle Huang has to go home early every day and walk his dog downstairs on time. Then he wakes up his granddaughter and sends her to school after dinner, and then he rushes to the hospital to take care of Auntie Tian and her daughter.
Uncle Huang
Uncle Huang has been driving a car for years, the seats are a little yellowed, the trunk is now full of maternity and baby supplies, and he is fully committed to his wife and daughter.
Once upon a time, he would read leisurely with Auntie Tian, then walk his dog in the park, play chess and chat, and finally pick up his granddaughter from school, and occasionally take on a case in his previous job as a lawyer.
Nowadays, although Uncle Huang sometimes feels overwhelmed, he is still very happy in his heart, and it's worth all the hard work.
Whenever he enters or leaves the hospital, the doorman greets him warmly and congratulates him on his new baby, and news of his new baby has spread throughout the town, with the media also clamoring for coverage.
Waves of people came to Auntie Tian's hospital room every day to see what was going on, and some journalists asked questions about her post-partum recovery.
Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian
Uncle Huang said, "She's recovering quite well, only the incision still hurts." They also chatted about their parenting experience, and Uncle Huang opened up at once.
But the steady stream of people visiting every day has disturbed Auntie Tian's normal rest, and she said she didn't want too many people to pay attention to her affairs, Uncle Huang reassured her, "They're just here to join in the fun, and they won't pay attention to it in a short while."
While Uncle Huang said he didn't care, he quickly told the hospital about his wife's concerns and hoped the hospital would step up its measures to give her a good night's rest.
The hospital immediately screened and questioned the visitors: if they were people watching, they were not allowed to enter, so that the patient could get enough rest.
Huang and Tian
But online talk of Huang and his wife having a son in their old age didn't end there, and became more and more heated.
Some people think the couple is too selfish, and that although they are not old, they are already old. If the couple gets sick in the future, or if the children grow up with all the problems and expenses, the children will end up being a burden to their children.
But there are others who hold a different view, that every family has its own problems, and that it's someone else's business, and that it's not easy to give birth to a healthy child, so it's just a matter of giving your blessing as a bystander.
For the storm of public opinion on the Internet, Uncle Huang said: "The most important thing for us as husband and wife is to take care of our daughter, and other people let them how to say it!"
While the netizens have different opinions, they all care about the reason why Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian gave birth to their child, after all, they are already a son and daughter, and when it comes to enjoying the heavenly happiness, why do they still want to take the risk of giving birth to a daughter?
Auntie Tian's sudden illness turned out to be an unexpected blessing
A previous 59-year-old mother was so devastated by the untimely death of her eldest son that she spent a lot of money to have a test-tube baby. But Auntie Tian's daughter came by complete accident.
Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian
Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian were in a free love relationship, which was a big deal in those days, and the two met when they were less than 20 years old, so it was clear that their courage wasn't comparable to that of ordinary people.
At the time, Auntie Tian was attending a nursing school, and Uncle Huang was already working, so he rode his bicycle to pick up and drop off Auntie Tian every day.
Then Uncle Huang asked Auntie Tian to marry him, and Auntie Tian thought about it for a long time before saying yes. The two were very much in love after their marriage, and before long, they had a son and a daughter and lived a happy life.
After their children started their families, Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian retired and began to learn how to maintain their health in order not to give their children any trouble.
The two men grew some vegetables in their own yard, and even the canola oil used for stir-frying was hand-pressed by Uncle Huang, and all the food and drinks in the house were made or cooked using the most primitive ingredients.
Uncle Huang
The two men's health effects are also particularly obvious, compared to their peers around them, they look more youthful. The quality of life of the "rich and idle" is reflected in their bodies, and this is also their happiest moment.
One day, Auntie Tian suffered a sudden attack of high blood pressure, followed by breathlessness and weakness. Uncle Huang was so anxious that he hurriedly took his wife to a Chinese medicine clinic for a checkup. After taking her pulse, the doctor said that Auntie Tian had symptoms of blood stasis.
The doctor prescribed some Chinese medicines to regulate the body and instructed how to take them. After the two of them went home, Auntie Tian drank the medicine on time every day, expecting her body to get better sooner.
Auntie Tian
After taking a few consecutive courses of treatment, Auntie Tian's mental state is getting better and better, her face is also rosy, and she also feels full of strength. The square dance friends who haven't seen her for a long time said she "looked a few years younger."
A few years later, the doctor gave her other blood vessel softening Chinese medicine. After drinking the herbal medicine that day, Tian, who had stopped menstruating for a long time, had her period at night.
Auntie Tian was a little worried and asked the doctor why, but the doctor said it was a normal phenomenon of taking medication, so she let go. The company's newest product is a new product that will be available in the marketplace in the near future," he said.
What's strange is that after a few months, Auntie Tian's period suddenly disappeared. She thought the side effects had disappeared and didn't pay much attention to it at first, but when she went to the hospital to do a routine checkup of her body, she learned of a new surprise - that she was pregnant.
Auntie Tian thought it was a hospital misdiagnosis and went to the city hospital with Uncle Huang for a checkup, and the doctor told them that she was indeed pregnant.
After learning the news, the old couple was so shocked that they didn't know what to do for a while. The doctor then asked them if they wanted the baby or not.
Uncle Huang's family
The old couple was in a bit of a dilemma, because on the one hand, Auntie Tian suffers from high blood pressure and diabetes, and on the other hand, it's a big question whether a 67-year-old woman can give birth to a child successfully.
In this regard, a number of doctors have taken to social media platforms to say that at Tian's age, no matter how much she tries to regulate, her ovaries have atrophied and she no longer has the ability to give birth. If she did not receive other reproductive technologies to assist her, after more than a decade of menopause, it is really surprising that she got pregnant again.
This child's appearance can be called a miracle in the history of medicine, but "to be or not to be", let the old couple in a dilemma.
Doctors checked Tian's pregnancy test report and found that her health condition may not be able to withstand the pain of carrying a baby, and may even have some effect on the fetus!
Uncle Huang didn't want to jump to conclusions too soon, he wanted to observe whether his wife's health could withstand the pain first, and would take it off at any time if there was the slightest problem with her health or if he checked for any unhealthy condition in the fetus.
In the various screening reports of the fetus, the doctor said the child was very healthy and no diseases were found.
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Auntie Tian, who was a pediatrician at the Maternal and Child Health Hospital before she retired, is well aware of the dangers of abortion and induced abortion, so she will not just decide whether this child stays or goes, she said, "I can't kill my child that way!"
The old couple's monthly pension can amount to more than 10,000 yuan, which may be average in big cities up north, but in Zaozhuang, which is located in a second- or third-tier city, it's a source of income that many people can't reach.
The favorable family conditions, coupled with Tian's adequate knowledge of obstetrics and gynecology, strengthened the determination of the two old men to take the risk of giving birth. After Uncle Huang's meticulous care, Auntie Tian finally got her wish and successfully gave birth to a healthy daughter.
Uncle Huang
But it's worth mentioning that neither of their daughters appeared during Auntie Tian's birth, but they couldn't cut the ties of kinship and blood, and their relationship took a turn for the worse after the birth of their youngest daughter.
The eldest daughter changed her attitude, and the whole family did their best to raise
From the pregnancy to the birth, Tian Auntie's health condition, on the contrary, is getting better and better, and can run and jump, and the blood pressure is not high, and the heart is not difficult.
But when she learned that the news of her daughter's birth was being hotly debated by netizens, a very unhappy look spread across Tian's face. She didn't like people pointing fingers at her, especially about her husband and daughter.
After all, in some cases, words can be a form of "violence" to the people involved. But after being touched by her little daughter's innocent smile and cute little face, Auntie Tian gradually looked away.
More than anything else, her eldest daughter, who was opposed to the idea of her parents having a child, took the initiative to visit her in the hospital after seeing the news on the Internet.
Perhaps because blood is thicker than water, the eldest daughter fell in love with her little sister Huang Tianzhi at first sight, even though they are more than 40 years apart. The family finally breaks the ice and decides to make a concerted effort to raise their youngest daughter properly.
The eldest daughter
The eldest daughter became a spoiled brat, visiting her younger sister Huang Tianzhi whenever she could, and buying lots of pretty little clothes and cute toys. The appearance of the youngest daughter not only eases the relationship with the eldest daughter, but also adds a lot of fun to the old couple.
When Huang Tianci was 130 days old, he suddenly opened his mouth and called Uncle Huang "Dad", which made him very happy. In order to make the family get along better, Uncle Huang also recognized several godfathers.
Today, the old couple has four godchildren and two goddaughters, and sometimes when goddaughter Yang takes care of Tianci, she will also open a live broadcast to let everyone see how happy little Tianci is.
Uncle Huang said they don't accept any gifts and just want to make friends with everyone, and these live videos are also considered to be a witness to the growth of Xiao Tianci.
Uncle Huang's family of three and his eldest daughter
After Uncle Huang became an Internet celebrity, every time he took Little Tianci out on the street, people would gather around to say hello, and Uncle Huang would respond to them warmly, as he hoped to pass on more happy energy without interfering with his life.
Now that little Tianci is two years old, Uncle Huang and Auntie Tian still try to find time to take their little girl out for a trip in addition to their daily work, in the hope of giving her enough companionship and good childhood memories.
As for their afterlife, the elderly couple have already made plans, including buying insurance and making savings. And the old couple's children are willing to take on the obligation of taking care of their little sister.
After being asked whether little Tianci would later regret coming into this world, Auntie Tian gave her answer, "She should be grateful, after all, there was once such a person who brought her to this world in spite of everything."
Perhaps Xiao Tianci will experience all kinds of difficulties in the future, but I still wish her a wonderful and happy life
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