If mother and son can calm down and talk about it, these connections will not be so bad. Aunt Li, in particular, should not always stand in the perspective of an experienced person and pour all her work experience on her children. There is no doubt that when people are old, past experiences make us look more stable in front of the younger generation. But the society is developing, and the successful experience of the past few decades may not be fully applicable. Besides, everyone's life is different, and the work experience that suits their own life path may not be suitable for others. As parents, why not give their children more initiative? If they want to choose what kind of pavement, there is really no need to stop it desperately without breaking the law. When you are old, don't talk casually, and your family will be more harmonious.
02: Don't give up saving money Wilde once said, "When I was young, I used to think that money was the most important thing in the world, but now I'm old, only to find that it is so." No matter what age we are, money is so important to us. When I was young, I struggled for money to make myself live a better life, to take care of a family and to shoulder the responsibility. When I get older, my ability to make money gradually disappears, but I still can't give up my ability to save money. As your physical function slowly declines, various diseases will follow.
Some people want to say that they should pay more attention to themselves and live a warmer life when they are old. Indeed, when people are old, they should understand that they should live for themselves and do something that makes them happy, but this does not mean that they should spend all their savings like water. It is essential for everyone to take appropriate preventive measures. Don't give up saving money. Saving money plays an important role in creating a harmonious family atmosphere. When people are old, although children have to bear the responsibility and obligation of raising, they can only rely on their children to support themselves, and the quality of life will definitely be reduced to a certain extent, and even family disputes may be caused by money disputes. Writer Yu Hua once said: "It is deceptive to like in front of human nature." This statement is true, even in the face of kinship, the extremes of human nature will still be revealed.
03: Don't quit the division of family responsibilities. My friend Sister Liang often complains about her in-laws' personal behavior that they don't do at home. Sister Liang and her husband have been married for more than ten years and have two children, both of whom have already gone to kindergarten. She and her husband take turns to take care of the children. Two years ago, I took my in-laws to live with me. Sister Liang thought her burden would be lighter. Conclusion: Soon after her in-laws came, she got along well with people in the community. She didn't play cards all day and didn't come out to dance in the square dance, not even four or five times. In the past, all the teachers at school told her to pick up the children.
On weekdays, when I come back at night, my in-laws can't cook early. Even on Sunday, Sister Liang cooked dinner and waited for my in-laws to come home for dinner. In response to this matter, Sister Liang told her husband four or five times. After the first few times, her husband could still coax her. The last few times, her husband gradually complained that she was too stingy. It's not that the elderly are aunts who cook at home. The problem is that as family members, they have to take care of their families, and so do the elderly. Although it is something to celebrate that the elderly can find interest in life, why can't they do their family responsibilities well when they try their best? Not everyone is blind and deaf. Your dedication to your family will be understood and respected. When you are old, don't quit the division of family responsibilities, and the family will be more harmonious.