In real life or work and study, everyone has written essays, and you must be familiar with all kinds of essays. Good prose generally has the characteristics of literary talent. Do you know how to write an article? The following is a model essay (6 selected model essays) that I have carefully compiled, hoping to help everyone.
The essay 1, which inherits a good family style, has nurtured countless excellent traditional virtues in the 5,000-year history of the Chinese nation, many of which have been passed down from generation to generation in the form of "family style" and continue to this day. For example, respecting the old and loving the young, being diligent and thrifty, being humble and filial, being kind and humble, kindness is the most important virtue. In modern society, through the accumulation, inheritance and development of examples handed down from generation to generation, a family's value consciousness and a nation's consciousness have been formed.
As the old saying goes, "All virtues and filial piety come first." It is said that filial piety to parents is the most important and primary virtue among all kinds of beautiful virtues of human beings, and it is also the family style that every family should inherit first.
In ancient times, the story of burying a child as a mother and abandoning an official to find a mother was enough to make people cry. Today, the story of donating a kidney to save a mother and dropping out of school as a mother is even more touching. Different times have the same theme, that is, filial piety and rewarding parents.
When I was a child, I always spoiled in my parents' arms, and then I watched my white hair increase, but there was nothing I could do. I have always said that I want to make my parents live better in the future. But I'm old, and many people have forgotten their childhood promises. It is said that children are a knife in their parents' hearts. Naughty childhood, rebellious teenagers, young people running around, when can parents worry? Only when people reach middle age and have children can they feel the kindness of their parents. At this time, my parents are over 60 years old and my health is not as good as before. How many years can they accompany us? Therefore, filial piety is the last thing to wait for.
However, in many families, we can often see such a scene: after dinner, children turn their heads to watch TV or go out to play, but parents are busy cleaning up; There is delicious food at home, and parents always let their children taste it first, but children rarely ask their parents to eat it first; Once a child is ill, his parents are very busy and take care of him in every possible way, while his parents are unwell and his children seldom greet him. This phenomenon makes children unconsciously develop bad habits of pampering, willfulness, laziness and selfishness. These are all worrying.
And we often see such advertisements: a young mother who just got off work finished her housework and brought water to wash her feet. The old man said to her, "have a rest, son!" " Don't wear yourself out. "She smiled and said," mom, not tired. "The young mother's words and deeds were seen by her son who was only 3 or 4 years old. The son silently brought a basin of water. The youngest son walked towards his mother with a basin of water. The water in the basin spilled all over the child, but the child still had a bright face. Put water at mother's feet and wash her feet.
Parents' example is the best education for their children. Filial piety requires every parent to set an example for their children, and a good family style can be passed down from generation to generation. In fact, parents really don't want too much. If they can't meet every day, just a phone call every day will be enough for them to sleep well. Reduce unnecessary entertainment on weekends, and have time to go home to see parents and talk to the elderly. Try to take your parents to feel the beauty of nature when traveling. Sometimes, I often think: I hope my children can treat me like this in the future. Now, do I treat my parents like this?
In this world, the people closest to you, the people who tolerate you the most, and the people who are most willing to spend time with you must be parents. Filial piety and gratitude are the most basic virtues of human beings. Gratitude and kindness to parents reflect the innate quality of people. The most important thing for children is to repay their parents who raised them.
Nowadays, family style is one of the hot topics. In fact, family style is an ancient topic. For family members, what kind of family style, there will be what kind of attitude towards life. Filial piety and caring for parents are one of the most important family styles. Good family style plays an irreplaceable role in people's growth and is the source of some kind of character and strength. In other words, under the influence of good family style, children will use good family style content to shape their own behavior, thus achieving their own lives.
Sketch 2 inherits the good family style of "respecting ancestors, filial piety, brothers, husband and wife, virtue, diligence, law-abiding, careful friendship, training children, grandchildren, friendly neighbors and patriotism". The 282-word Xiong family training covers all aspects of life and nourishes the descendants of Xiong for more than 300 years.
Green Woods surround the village and green hills are located outside the city. On June 5438+05, I walked into Xiongjiaao Bay, Shizikou Village, Taihe Town, Liangzihu District, Ezhou City, and the Xiongshi family instructions posted in front of every household and hall attracted attention. In front of Xiong's ancestral hall, the old people are looking through the genealogy and teaching young people who return home during the Spring Festival to learn family training.
Xiong Liangsheng, the 53-year-old chairman of Xiongjiaaowan Rural Civilization Council, said that since the 18th year of Kangxi, Xiong Shitai, the ancestor, moved from Xiongsiqin Bay near liangzi lake to the flat land between the two lion mountains. Seven generations lived together, and more than 100 people shared wealth, which gave birth to the Xiongshi family motto with the essence of "honesty, kindness, diligence and simplicity".
Xiong's family precepts are recorded in the genealogy and passed down from generation to generation. Every family educates their children with family precepts. Xiong Liangsheng said that he was quite naughty when he was young. He once went to the bay next door to steal watermelons. When his father knew this, he not only punished him with a stick, but also ordered him to kneel at the ancestral hall until he knew all the contents of "Duanxing" in Xiong's family instructions.
Nowadays, the descendants of the Xiong family will no longer be punished and kneel down at any time, but the inheritance of family precepts and the words and deeds of the elders have been subtly integrated into the blood. Xiong Gaoqiang, who teaches at a university in Nanjing, said that a wanderer always remembers "don't lose face to his family", and the family motto "Be careful in making friends" has the greatest influence on him, reminding him to be correct and be cautious and sincere in making friends.
One of Xiong's family precepts is "be kind to your neighbors". All 25 families in Aowan follow this precept and still love each other. On New Year's Eve, people spontaneously bought fireworks, candy and melon seeds, set up a bonfire, sat around the TV, watched CDs engraved with family instructions together, and communicated with each other after watching them. On the first day of New Year's Day, the younger generation's daughter-in-law will pour tea to the elders in the bay from door to door and offer them brown sugar water, which means sweetness and beauty.
On weekdays, if something happens in the bay, or if someone is in trouble, the people will fight for it and pay for it. In the construction of beautiful countryside, which began last year, many villagers voluntarily built village roads, cleaned ditches and abandoned land for free ... In order to repair the parking lot, villager Xiong Xuanhua took the initiative to dismantle the kitchen; In order to place fitness equipment in the central square, it is necessary to dismantle the cowshed and utility room of the villager bear. He gave up without saying anything, and he also volunteered to help the bay manage ponds, water flowers and plants, and maintain mountain landscape roads. Xiong Dabin, who has been doing construction business in Yinchuan all the year round, rushed back to his hometown last year to give full play to his strengths and lead the construction team to build beautiful countryside. When asked why he should put aside his business due diligence, he said frankly that "it is necessary to do his bit for Wanzi!"
Under the nourishment of family precepts, the villagers' kindness, kindness and simplicity are not only for the people, but have already penetrated into the bone marrow. Last September, Ezhou Federation of Literary and Art Circles and Writers Association organized a gathering, and a group of people camped in Xiongjiaao Bay. At the scene of the cultural activities that night, the villagers brought tea to the collectors, worried that the collectors would be cold when camping, and sent air-conditioned quilts. Seeing that there were not enough quilts, they sent people to the street late at night and bought more than ten new quilts. Xu Liling, a female writer, couldn't help singing "Old Villagers" to express her gratitude.
In order to better inherit the excellent traditional culture, the Bay combines ancestral temple culture with socialist core values and beautiful countryside construction, and selects "ten-star civilized households", "ten-star mother-in-law", "ten-star daughter-in-law" and "virtuous teenagers", and sorts out historical legends and celebrity stories such as "holding hands with camphor", "three sticks of incense" and "lion spitting fountain", making it the most beautiful homesick place in Liangzi Lake.
Inheritance of Good Family Style 3 Excellent family style tutoring can enable individuals to acquire the basic quality of stepping into society and exercise self-discipline in moral concepts, especially for carrying forward and practicing socialist core values, promoting social harmony and stability, establishing moral self-confidence and realizing the Chinese dream of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. To put it simply, family style is the fashion of dealing with people formed by a family for many years, or it is called family rules, family style, spirit, personality and so on. , including the attitude and code of conduct of family members. To establish a good family style, the most important thing is to understand and embody the thoughts, concepts, attitudes and actions of parents or family members; Secondly, it is family rules. Although most family rules have no written records and requirements, it is very important to teach by example the traditional beauty. Finally, for families with good traditional family style, the most important thing in China since ancient times is the education of children, good education, good literacy, good way of thinking, living principles and norms of action, which will be passed down from generation to generation, improved from generation to generation, family culture and good family style.
Doing a good job in family education is an important starting point for carrying forward socialist core values. In the new historical period, this work is also faced with the spread and infiltration of utilitarianism in society, the loss of traditional family education resources caused by changes in family structure, the lack of adult education tradition in China, and the squeeze of electronic products on family daily communication time. Therefore, advocating and cultivating a good family style to make the lives of thousands of families in Qian Qian better and better is the deepest livelihood project.
A family or clan can live without a prominent family background and rich wealth, but it can't live without a good family style. A good family style cannot be built by one person at a time. It must rely on the joint efforts of all family members, and everyone can build it and pass it on from generation to generation. Among them, parents and elders in the family play an important role. In ancient China, many people formulated a series of moral standards and codes of conduct for family members in order to make their descendants behave well and prevent them from going astray, which became an insurmountable red line in the family. This is a family rule. The family rules of many families carry forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, exhort and explain thoroughly, which not only has sacred authority, but also has strong persuasion and deterrence. Although it has gone through many vicissitudes, it can still make people feel and alert.
The formation of family style has nothing to do with the wealth of the family or the educational level of parents, but with the moral quality of the family. The formation of a good family style has nothing to do with the wealth of the family or the educational level of parents, but with the moral quality of the family. Nowadays, many people are too busy with work and career to take care of their children. This kind of education method deserves our deep thought, not because of the barrier of time and distance, but because we ignore the power of family style. A good family style can make a child's life; And this kind of edification, it is best to start from an early age. You instill in him the concept of "a porridge and a meal, which is hard-won", and he may develop the thinking of "half-silk and half-thread, constantly thinking about material difficulties". Parents should calm down and think about how to make a good family style accompany their children to grow up all their lives.
Today, how to better cultivate a good family style tutor should pay special attention to the following aspects: pay attention to the excavation and transformation of excellent traditional ideological and cultural resources. Family style tutoring should be protected and explored as an important cultural heritage, and a cultural research system of family style tutoring should be gradually established throughout the country; Give play to the typical leading and exemplary role of various advanced families. Carry out activities to create civilized families, harmonious families and learning families, and promote family style construction in combination with urban and rural civilization construction; Do a good job in cultivating citizens' virtues and educating adults and parents. To carry forward the socialist core values through family education, the key point should be to cultivate civic morality adapted to modern society; Establish a long-term and linkage mechanism for family style tutoring publicity. It is necessary to use various methods and cooperate in many ways to establish corresponding practical and effective systems.
Establishing a good family style should be combined with improving the quality of women. Good family style is the starting point of people's growth and progress. Establishing a good family style should be combined with family education. Excellent family education breeds excellent children and grandchildren. Looking back at the once glorious families in history, the family styles are different: the mother-in-law tattooed "loyalty to the country" for her children, and "loyalty" is the family style of Yue family; Lin Zexu is diligent in managing the family, and "frugality" is the family style of the Lin family; Zeng Guofan believes that "diligence" is the first meaning of life, and "diligence" is the family style of the Zeng family. The formation of a good family style is often formed through the establishment of the founder and the unremitting efforts and practice of several generations or even generations. Through the atmosphere of family education, from father to son, from son to grandson, and from son to grandson to grandson, we continue to practice in dribs and drabs of life, forming a silent, silent teaching, the most intuitive, direct, basic and frequent family education, in the process of practice from generation to generation. Family style is the most important and irreplaceable spiritual wealth of a family or family; It pervades the whole family or family, affecting every family member, and Hui Ze is a member of the family; Family style is also the soul of a family, supporting the progress and development of the family.
Only by integrating good atmosphere into the blood of every family and constantly standardizing the ideas and methods of doing things can good family atmosphere be strong and passed down through storms. Only by making this good atmosphere and the same value pursuit of thousands of families in Qian Qian integrate with each other, rely on each other and grow together can we stimulate the positive energy of respecting morality and doing good in the whole society.
Recently, a program held on TV was well done and worthy of praise. The program content is the role of "family style" education in social development. This content is really important in today's society, carrying forward Chinese spiritual civilization and the glorious tradition of "respecting the old and loving the young". We should start from the inside of the family, start from the reality of grassroots life, open the window of the soul and inherit the great national spirit, which is very necessary for the future development of society.
Family is the smallest combination unit of society and the most basic social element. Without a small family, there would be no big social family. Harmonious family relationship is the cornerstone of social stability. China is an ancient civilization with a glorious history of thousands of years. In the history of traditional ideological education, there is a brilliant spectacle-Confucianism, Buddhism, Taoism and family style education have gathered into the core of China's spiritual civilization. There are many representatives in this garden full of flowers. People describe Guan Gong, Yue Fei and other figures as the embodiment of "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and filial piety". Loyalty and filial piety are the principles that must be followed in life, and the glorious tradition has been passed down from generation to generation. Family education plays an active and inestimable role in traditional education. Today, most families in society continue to inherit the teachings of their ancestors, carry forward the glorious tradition, scrimp and save, and build a harmonious family relationship with respect for the elderly and love for the young as the starting point. This harmonious and stable family relationship plays a positive role in promoting the healthy development of society. It is commendable and worthy of rendering, promoting social stability and rapid development and progress.
In the past few decades, because everything is centered on economic benefits, everyone is on an equal footing with "money", a deformed concept: money is supreme. Under the influence of this extremely unhealthy thought, it has a great impact on China's traditional spiritual civilization, and has a negative effect on the harmonious, stable and healthy development of society, with extremely bad influence. Someone publicly declared at social activities: How much is conscience worth? It can be asserted that "conscience" is priceless. Conscience is the basis of measuring a person's moral cultivation.
Money is an indispensable substance in life and an indispensable foundation for maintaining human survival. But conscience is the standard to measure life, the core of new soul, and the public moral rule to follow when participating in social activities. People who lose their conscience will have chaotic behavior rules, which is also one of the factors of social instability.
Harmonious, harmonious and harmonious family relations are directly related to good "family style" and ideological education of inheriting civilization. Family style education for children is indispensable. Family education, instilling civilized thoughts, and enlightenment education affect people's life. Under the great wave of economic development, the material living standard is constantly improving, and the spiritual and cultural life should also keep pace with the times. Traditional civilization cannot be abandoned, and the essence of Chinese civilization cannot be lost. We must persist in carrying forward and inheriting it. The ancient oriental civilization can't live without it. The great Chinese nation should strut on the world stage with grace and charm, and show the essence of Chinese civilization thought. Excellent "family style" education will play a positive role here.
In a word, a good family tradition is the premise of the healthy development of social fashion. Every family should establish its own family style and tutor. As the core of the family, it is duty-bound to shoulder this important task, form the cohesion of the family and promote the progress and development of social fashion. Contribute to the realization of the great "Chinese dream, my dream"; Thousands of families have merged into a powerful force to revitalize China!
The essay writing that inherits the fine family style has been fleeting for four years, which has gently turned over the history of the Chinese nation. Bits of words and vivid pictures have interwoven into the vicissitudes of the Chinese nation and outlined its enduring history. Looking through the history books, I can see the swords and shadows of the Three Kingdoms and the Jin Dynasty. Read the prosperity of the five dynasties and ten countries; Enjoy a peaceful and prosperous life in the Tang Dynasty; Enjoy the gorgeous glass in front of the temples of the Song, Yuan, Ming and Qing Dynasties. Years, in the cycle of the dynasty, passed by a little. It always warns "descendants of the dragon", let us stand up, unite and make progress together.
If a person, a nation and a country want to be in an invincible position, they must have the spirit of striving for progress, and determination determines the fate and direction of a person, a nation and a country on the road ahead. From the original Yuanmou era to the present well-off era, this qualitative leap was completed by our ancestors with both hands. In the cruel era, the descendants of the Chinese people are United as one, United as one, creating a happy new era, and there are also many prosperous times. However, in the long river of history, Rong Sheng not only has the peak of national experience, but also has scratches that overshadow many pens.
At the beginning of Qing Dynasty, the rulers stuck to their laurels, put emphasis on the foundation and suppressed the end, and thought that China did not need foreign exchanges, so they closed their doors. /kloc-In the first half of the 20th century, opium flowed into China in large quantities, and foreign businessmen rampaged and made huge profits, resulting in a large amount of silver outflow. Lin Zexu, a patriotic minister, lived a life of destroying opium in Humen, and then the Opium War broke out. Due to China's delay in signing the treaty of nanking, foreign powers launched many wars: the Second Opium War, 1894- 1895 Sino-Japanese War and Eight-Nation Alliance's invasion of China. Because the rulers of the Qing Dynasty were corrupt and incompetent, they signed the Aihui Treaty, the treaty of shimonoseki Treaty and the Xin Chou Treaty ... These treaties aggravated the poverty in China and made us lose the garden treasure-Yuanmingyuan. Then on the night of 193 1 September 18, the Japanese invaders shamelessly planned and created the wicker lake incident, and the painful September 18th incident broke out. For more than four months, because of Chongqing's indifference, three northeastern provinces fell, and 30 million northeast compatriots lived a shameful life in conquered people. Then there is the bloody Lugouqiao, the Nanjing Massacre, including the hateful 100-person massacre competition, 73 1 Bacteriological Weapons Research Institute. They are like handfuls of salt scattered on the wounded treasure land of China. After eight years of hard fighting, the people of China finally won a great victory, and Taiwan Province Province also returned to the embrace of the motherland.
But how much flesh and blood and how many lives have been used to pave the way for this victory? We in China should remember to rise in adversity. Looking back at the historical years, there are also many heroic talents in desperate times, and heroes can also emerge in troubled times: when we are in adversity, there will be smoke in the forest, and when we are defeated, there will be a shipwreck in Deng Shichang. Only when Zuo regains lost ground and we are humiliated will Tan Sitong be martyred ... So when we are in adversity, we should face it bravely and try to conquer it.
Recently, China and Japan have been arguing endlessly about the Diaoyu Islands incident, which has caused many focuses. Japan wants to use the Diaoyu Islands incident to stir up trouble and trigger a war. Diaoyu Island has always been our territory in China, and we will never cede it. It is immoral for Japan to illegally detain the captain of our fishing boat. We should fight for justice. The history of humiliation cannot be repeated. We are against war, but we are not afraid of it.
China has a long history of culture. In the long cultural corridor of mankind, it has always been a mysterious and bright Oriental Pearl, a beautiful masterpiece handed down from generation to generation. No matter how the wheel of history advances and how human society changes, it cannot be bleak. Instead, it will slowly settle down, casting Jackie Chan's backbone and making the descendants of the dragon more elegant and wise.
As the post-90s generation, we should constantly strive for self-improvement, bearing in mind the shame, just as: "The country lives or dies, why should every cloud has a silver lining?" The descendants of our generation of dragons should stand up, carry forward the virtues handed down from generation to generation by our Chinese nation and revitalize China. I believe that in the near future, the new generation will create a "lovely China"!
Essay 5, which inherits the fine family style, has passed another birthday, and the age has reached the old saying of "standing at thirty". As for the meaning of "standing", I remember what my grandfather always taught me when I was a child-"Mindfulness and trustworthiness are the foundation of my heart; Diligence and noble morality are the foundation of foundation; Loyalty and filial piety are the foundation of the people. " At that time, when I was young, my grandfather explained it to me again and again. He told me that I must remember this sentence like my father, and I will know what to do if I think too much. Although grandpa is gone now, this sentence has been growing with me. I think this should be our family motto.
For this family precept, I remember that the earliest one is "Mingde is trustworthy". When I was a child, when I was writing at school, my grandfather would say that writing should be filled with the whole word "Tian", horizontal and vertical, just like being a man, generous and straight. A person with bad conduct and morality can't make real friends and can't achieve long-term success. Credit is very important. You should do what you promised others, no matter how difficult it is. Grandpa said a lot and I listened to a lot, but I didn't understand the meaning of these words until I witnessed something with my own eyes.
When my sister was two or three years old, she was sick once and wanted to go to the hospital, but she was afraid of injections and kept crying. Her father was in a hurry and promised her not to have an injection, just to show it to the doctor. I accompanied my sister and followed my father to the hospital. After the doctor finished the examination, he quietly told his father that his sister needed an injection, indicating that his father should cooperate. Father thought about it, picked up his sister, coaxed her and diverted her attention. The doctor took the opportunity to give her an injection quickly. When my sister realized that the pain was over, she burst into tears at once. This is a common scene in the hospital, but what happened next shocked the people present. All I heard was "Bang!" My sister slapped my father in the face! Because she was held closest to her father's face, the child didn't know how to control her strength. I don't know whether it is because she is playing hard or because she is angry. Dad's face turned red at once. Looking at dad's breath, the veins stood out on his neck, his brow wrinkled tightly, and he stared at his sister angrily.
The low pressure before the storm is estimated to break out in the next second. Everyone around us held their breath, but my sister didn't dare to look at her face and cried, "Dad, you are lying. You promised not to take injections. You don't keep your word! " Who knows, dad suddenly realized something, and the breath he just held was deeply spit out by dad. The next second, he actually raised his mouth at his sister awkwardly, probably to make him look smiling. He patted his crying sister and said softly, "Yes, yes, I'm sorry, but dad lied and he was wrong." He will never break his word again next time. " Finally, he said.
Even a big man must never break his word to a little girl of two or three years old. Dad did it! This scene has been in my mind for so many years, clear and profound. Now family gatherings, my mother will talk about it from time to time, and my sister is also very sorry. But my father always insisted that what my sister did at that time was right. "'To err is human, to err is human', and all of us should remember' Mingde keeps the promise', which is the root of our hearts. If we want to stand on our feet, we need to stand on our feet first. "
In addition, I have been using the other two points of family training for self-discipline. "Diligence" and "loyalty to the monarch and filial piety", people should be diligent and self-encouraging, repay hard work and fatigue, take the opportunity to improve their ability, accumulate experience and temper their will, be as firm and upright as pines and cypresses, be loyal to their leaders, be filial to their elders, do whatever they want, resign themselves to fate, and don't get close to those who are disloyal and unfilial, but they can't be foolish and filial. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes.
For this family precept, the elders have always set an example and set an example. After many years, I gradually realized the profound significance of these words, from understanding it to using it as a guiding light to stay in the world, keep my home and get a job. Now that I am going to be a father, I will tell this family motto to my children, teach them as my ancestors taught me, and pass it on to their descendants.
Good family rules and family instructions are not only the whipping of generations, but also the hope of generations. Fiona Fang cannot live without rules. It is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions.
China has always attached great importance to family inheritance and family education. There have been many family precepts since ancient times. Even today, some famous families continue to indoctrinate their ancestors. Once you mention these family styles and family precepts, you will naturally have a taste and special pride.
I remember when I was a child, when I was away from home, my parents would tell me to keep my eyes open, speak slowly, be modest and prudent, and be polite to people. No wonder my parents' education taught me to be cautious in words and deeds and to be a low-key person. Although the words of these teachings are not atmospheric, they are also quite applicable and pertinent, and they are just right for ordinary people.
Whenever you wander in the depths of the alleys of famous cultural cities, you will inadvertently see the plaque of "faithfulness is handed down from generation to generation, and poetry and books will last forever". Although the house is old and simple, with these family instructions that cross history, it can better show the vicissitudes of the owner of the house and the stable inheritance of the family business brought about by the continuation of family style from generation to generation. Savoring these ten words carefully can't help but make people fall into meditation and have a deep aftertaste. To some extent, the inheritance of "family style" is as important as the inheritance of blood. "Faithfulness" and "Poetic Books" are the ideal spirit and cultural characteristics that China ancients strongly pursued. The ancients longed for this spirit and lifestyle to be passed down from generation to generation and regarded it as a totem symbol of family prosperity and pride.
In ancient China, agriculture was valued over mulberry, and "farming and reading to pass on the family" was the most ideal way of life for several generations. Farming is not only good for crops, but also abundant in grain, which not only supports the family, but also settles down. Reading is not only to know poetry and books, but also to be both polite and righteous, to be self-reliant and virtuous. However, in the history of China, most ordinary people have their own family traditions, although they have nothing to do with famous families. Historically, the good "family style" of every family can be called the belief handed down from generation to generation by China people for thousands of years, so "farming and reading to pass on the family" is a family style shared by all China people of the Chinese nation who are famous for their farming civilization. Farming and Reading Family Stories not only helps China people learn to be human, but also helps them learn to make a living. Since ancient times, it has been deeply imprinted in the hearts of everyone in China.
Families that can be handed down for dozens of generations are rare in history. Most of them became famous for a while. Later, because the family style did not continue, future generations could not maintain the family style, or things suddenly changed, which made the family instantly fall apart and disappear, leaving an infinite sigh for future generations. As the "good song" in A Dream of Red Mansions sings so bleak, "The humble room is empty, and the bed was full; The withered grass and withered poplar, which used to be the song of the dance hall, will float out of the sadness that has ever existed in history. However, among thousands of households in Qian Qian today, how many "frogs croak and rice waves, poems and books sing"? The wandering "heirloom" may only become the infinite homesickness in today's world.
I was fortunate to read Zeng Guofan's letter, which was true and detailed, and aimed at "emphasizing morality and cultivating self" and educating future generations in a down-to-earth and in-depth way. Zeng Guofan was strict with himself and his family. He not only became a moral model of self-cultivation in the late Qing Dynasty, but also made Confucian scholars who respected etiquette known as "the highest generation of moral articles". Zeng Guofan thinks that being a tutor should pay attention to the following ten things: being diligent in housework and strict in family rules; Do filial piety and get rid of arrogance; Study hard is the essence; No more money; Marriage is not necessarily rich; Avoid extravagance and thrift in family affairs; Pay attention to family management: examination, treasure, morning, scanning, books, rare food, fish and pigs; Relatives should attach importance to feelings rather than things; Don't get tired of housework; Choose a good teacher for advice. A Letter from Zeng Guofan is a summary of China's basic life philosophy and tradition handed down from generation to generation. Whether it is from self-cultivation, making friends and teaching children, or dealing with finance, politics and so on. Written in great detail, it is worthy of being a vivid life lesson for us in this world. These teachings still have guiding significance to modern people, and also make modern "dude" and those "dads" who have been cheated by the "official second generation" and "rich second generation" deeply touched!
In life, we should know how to respect and have a bottom line. This is what we learned from the traditional education in China. Even today, there are countless people in China who insist. We should adhere to a good family style, which can cultivate the son of the family and the pillar of the country; Establishing good family rules can cultivate more well-behaved citizens.
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