Knowing that he doesn't love you, but refusing to let go, these three reasons can't escape. First, relying too much on him in spiritual essence, economic development and personality; Second, I have paid a lot, and I am not very willing. I have always been full of expectations and curiosity about men. Third, I am not chilling enough, and I am deeply reluctant. Knowing that he doesn't love you, but refusing to let go, can't escape these three reasons.
0 1 mentally, economically and personally, I am too dependent on him. Even if he shows his dislike for a long time, many women will turn a blind eye, deceive themselves and cheat on him. In fact, men are most heartless when they don't love you. They are also realistic microorganisms and need to pay the closest and warmest feelings to deal with them. They often choose to avoid, detour, and even domestic cold violence to force you to leave.
In the face of such a boy, women are still reluctant to let go, not just because they are too dependent on him? For example, he benefited from him economically, was unique in spirit, and had no ego at all in personality traits.
In fact, compared with economic independence, spiritual independence is the most deadly, which means that women are easily incited by emotions, such as losing themselves more and more, indulging in his world, completely losing their values and giving up their moral values. As long as everything about him is excellent. Once lost, women will not let go even if they have seen the objective facts clearly.
Paying a lot, unwilling to get investment, will make women curious, not to gamble again, but to try to impress each other with all kinds of worries and entanglements, but women have never thought about this problem: in the boy's love view, there is no word to impress at all.
Once a woman can't move a boy, she will stick to it with her life and can't tell what she is sticking to. Anyway, she just can't let go, mostly because she has never loved a man so much. With so little experience, she inevitably feels that this is all she has and that he is her destination. In order to meet this time, she consumed her good fortune in this life and previous lives. In the final analysis, falling in love is not for sadness, but for living a more meaningful and valuable life.
I am not cold enough, but I don't want to let go of each other when I know that men don't love me. It only means that they are inseparable. What's more, I am not chilling enough, and I always feel that I can stand it, but boys have long been fed up with entanglement and bondage. In this case, women usually change the status quo, such as trying to change their image into your ideal type, or having long hair or being thin; In the sense, try to be elegant and rich; * * *, try to make time and space for him.
It is an indisputable fact that once some men stop loving you, they can't see your change and high quality, even if you are beautiful. Once this thing is deposited into the collapse of a woman's heart, most women can put it down. Of course, the process of learning is a painful gradual change, and only women who are loving enough and affectionate enough can bear such an experience.
Women who deeply love their post-men are not cool and free and easy. The more energetic others are, the more tolerant they will be. It seems that I always feel that I am not good enough and perfect enough, but I can't help but change the status quo and strive to meet each other's expectations. But in fact, people who don't care about you can try to change, and people who really love you think you are excellent anyway.