One must always be ready to say goodbye.
It's best to understand that loneliness is one of the friends that least betrays a person.
It's best to buy an umbrella before chickening out on love.
No matter how loved, never believe in happiness.
No matter how much one loves, one must never love too much.
Love is like the seasons,
just something to color life without getting bored.
The moment you say love out loud, it melts away like broken ice.
Goodbye, someday.
Just as there is no eternal happiness.
And there is no eternal misfortune.
One day, we all have to say goodbye.
But one day we will meet again.
Before one dies, some remember having been loved.
Some will remember having loved.
I will remember having loved.
I used to think that love is within reach, but after a lot of experience, I realized that love is unattainable. In this poem, it does not deny love, but reminds us that we should not be too obsessive about love, love can not be forced, love can not be forceful, love needs a kind of destiny.
Love is beautiful, but it is not the only beauty in the journey of life. Even if you have never experienced love, life still needs to be good. Even if you have had love, when the lover leaves, you have to slowly learn to let go.
Upstairs in my house lives an old couple in their 80s, they are very much in love with each other, every dusk, you can see them walking together hand in hand in the neighborhood, they look at each other's eyes are full of love.
I heard that when Grandma was small, her family was very rich, and she didn't suffer much, and she wasn't very good at housework. Grandpa fell in love with the grandmother, he took on the household chores, grandmother is responsible for looking beautiful, grandfather is responsible for supporting the family to take care of the family. Such a pairing, once caused others to talk, some say, grandfather is not like a man, all day around the pots and pans; some say, grandma is not like words, a woman does not do housework; some say, grandma is very happy, looking for a husband who will love people ...... In short, what to say have, but no matter what others say, they just smile, do not make a The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what I am talking about. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world.
The first time I saw this, I was able to see a lot of people who had been in the same room for a long time.
However, not long ago, Grandpa had a heart attack and left forever.
After that, Grandma didn't go downstairs again, and I heard that she was sick. The first thing that happened was that she was unable to accept the fact that her grandfather had died, and her body collapsed. First of all, the high blood pressure complications, then diabetes, before and after the hospital many times, two months, the whole person is thin out of shape.
The family was afraid that the grandmother saw the sadness of the grandfather's things, want to give the grandmother to rent a house, but she did not agree.
Later, grandma said every day that her chest was clogged, her head hurt, her stomach hurt, her legs hurt, and she couldn't sleep the whole night. When she went to the hospital, the doctor said there was no problem.
Then I went to a psychiatrist, who said that the grandmother was not prepared for her grandfather's departure, and that she missed him too much, and that she was mildly depressed, and suggested that she should change her mind and gradually reduce the feeling of missing him.
Listening to the doctor, people suggested that the grandmother more contact with other elderly people, dancing square dance. Grandma shook her head and said, "I don't go, people are by their old partners, I can't get along with them."
The family tried to ask, "Why don't we find you a companion?"
Grandma immediately showed a pout, desperately shook her head and said, "I only love your grandfather, he has loved me all my life, no one else will treat me like this. I am not interested in anyone but your grandfather."
Saying this, tears flowed down once again.
Grandma's love for grandpa is deep in her bones, let her forget that should be harder than heaven. The first thing you need to do is to find a reason for your grandma to live.
Later, the grandmother herself found a way to send her condolences. She began to write her memoirs and put her thoughts about her grandfather into words. Every time she wrote something touching, tears would still flow down, but with the passage of time, this thought of grandpa became a kind of spice of life, and her days slowly became savory again.
It's been a long time since I've seen my grandmother again, I asked her in a roundabout way how she thought about it, and she smiled and said, "Once I had a dream about your grandfather, and he told me to live a few years for him, and not to hurt my body anymore. If I miss him, I'll write my memoirs, and when I get there, I'll bring the book to him, and he'll be waiting for me there. I want to see him again in the best shape I can!"
I was amused by Grandma and, at the same time, moved. How much courage does a grandmother need to overcome the pain of losing a loved one! This is an old man's treasure of life, live a day to be serious about a day!
In fact, in this world, no one can never grow old, and no one can really have a person for life, but we should all try to guard our loved ones, and when we are together, cherish them; and when we lose them, we should understand that this is the norm.
After seeing more things in life and death, I realized that the biggest test in life is not money, not fame and fortune, not success and failure, but the parting of life and death. The biggest practice in life is to put down, put down, in order to eliminate the pain, live free.
Let's believe: all the lost friends and loved ones, one day will meet again!