1, mature is even if angry, will pretend to calm; even if unhappy, will try to smile; even if care, will not explain too much.
2. Being humiliated - turning the other cheek is better than turning the other cheek, and being angry is better than fighting.
3. Don't let yourself be controlled by three things: the past, other people and money.
4, the treatment of learning to endure loneliness, to be a person must withstand the wind and rain.
5, love has passed, at hand.
6, once for the saint's daughter, life can not be moved. I'm not going to be able to do that.
7, I suspect that my husband, eighteen years ago by his mother to abortion.
9, youth can not go back, so there is no end to youth.
10, in addition to thinking about you and the past point and click I really do not know what to do, I begged you bitterly, I hope you can return to my side, but you once and again will push me away, once and again resist.
11, you left, left our future in my world, let me alone alone with a dream to construct.
12, may I have the courage to face the blood, may I have a long song when crying.
13, let your impatient voice call, all from the vulnerable side.
14, with the growth of age, we are not losing some friends, but we know who is really a friend.
15, can have a dream is lucky, and can adhere to a dream is honed, and then realize a dream is satisfied to sublimation.
16, the exam teacher issued a paper, the back of the girl took more than one, shouting "Teacher, I have, I have." Boys said, "It's mine, it's mine."
17, the crowd gathering place, either easy to occur in the body of the mutual trampling is inevitable spirit of mutual trampling.
Life must endure loneliness
Life must endure loneliness
Inspirational reading a:
Life must endure loneliness
Loneliness is a section of unaccompanied journey, is a party of the night sky without starlight, is a period of time without song. It makes the empty man lonely, makes the shallow man impetuous, makes the wise man deep.
People who are rich in ideas are able to rely on the lonely empty space to talk to history, travel with the soul, and receive inspiration into their arms.
People, whether they are noble, nasty, excellent, obscene, wise, foolish, in a lonely situation, is not the same as falling into a lonely dilemma. The environment is like clouds, there is a gathering of warmth, there is scattered oligarchy; the heart is as quiet as water, there is a quiet gentle, there is a surge of movement. People are living in these two worlds, with constantly changing protagonists, the various different destinies demonstrated.
Many people are afraid of loneliness, no matter for whom, loneliness or not, depending on the state of mind with or without dependence.
When a person is bored, there is nothing to send, it will be lonely. This shows the poverty of his life.
When a person, the heart of the world, think of things, think of friends, feelings of a bright color, will not be lonely, because he has a warm self-set up the realm.
A person, the idea of the spring, a good book, pen walking snake, will never feel lonely because he was immersed in the joy of creation.
Elegant people, alone in a quiet corner, or to enjoy the text or listen to music, it is another enjoyment of a clear; (inspirational article lz13) and so on and so forth, a volume of hand, read some interpretations of the story, to amusement, but also not to the loneliness of the annoyance.
Life in the world, the road, but also self walk. In the voyage of destiny, there is no doubt that everyone is a solo traveler. There may be some people will be smooth sailing, but more will be bumpy. Smooth sailing, such as the blue sea rafting, it is difficult to have a heart of hunting the vibrant joy; once the life of the boat aground, the embarrassment of loneliness will drive into the diffraction of countless teeth into the feelings. Bumpy more Jie people, such as climbing the mountain line stack, a breath of life, the heart has not been, all the way to the flowers and grass, strange and dangerous scenery, with a rare life experience. This is the sharpening, is wealth, he has chewed the life, step broken loneliness.
Perhaps, people in order not to be lonely, only to become friends. However, easily married, completed a major task in life, but backed by the misfortune of different dreams in the same bed, is it worth it? The first time I saw this is when I was a little girl, and it was a little girl, and it was a little girl, and it was a little girl, and it was a little girl, and it was a little girl, and it was a little girl, and it was a little girl.
Perhaps it is for the cause of not being lonely that one pursues the realization of self-worth. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night.
Loneliness is the diffuse spread of life, is the drop into the emotional night dew. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world.
Inspirational reading two:
Life needs to be lonely. To keep a quiet, willing to suffer a lonesome, in fact, is a realm of life. Endure loneliness, you will have a whole wonderful life. There is no lonely life, can only be superficial life, mediocre life, the real benefit of the lonely life.
Of course, loneliness can not be too long, otherwise it becomes sentimental. Occasional loneliness will be a sobering agent, so that you can better cope with the hustle and bustle of the world.
Life must endure loneliness
Learning and comprehending the companionship of loneliness
One day, I suddenly woke up in the middle of the night, unconsciously leaning against the corner of the wall, tightly hugging the quilt, panicked and looked at the night sky outside the window. Outside the window is a black black, let me have a kind of it want to swallow me in which the feeling, I suddenly feel thirsty heart panic, afraid of picking up the table of cigarettes, panicked to turn on the light, feel slowly better. After the emotional calm, I suddenly felt that my reliance on cigarettes has become so strong that I suddenly know that I have been afraid of the feeling of loneliness and isolation, and suddenly remembered the distant family
I went out of the room, took out a bottle of beer in the refrigerator, lit up the cigarette, sat on the balcony and looked out at the night, the mouth of the white smoke ring is floating up. I was surrounded by a vague emotion, and a faint sadness that I did not know where it came from. I sighed softly, and could not help but coldly laugh at my own self-indulgence. My spirit is so lonely and lonely, as if a person in the darkness around the ice hole, I do not dare to shout, not just because no one can hear, but the emptiness of my heart brought me unbearable loneliness and loneliness prevent me from releasing repressed emotions, and how many times this loneliness and loneliness let me pain, let me sad.
Until one day, I stood alone by the river, looking at the green river and the water of the bank reflection, they are also lonely? Like me?1 Fish were arrowing through the water, cutting through waves of water marks, the water swung around, and the reflections in the water swayed, and the river danced and rejoiced. And their pleasure comes from the lonely fish, the original loneliness and loneliness can also enjoy, loneliness and loneliness in the joy.
From then on, I learned and realized how to enjoy loneliness. I finally realized that those who enjoy loneliness always look at the world with a cool and calm perspective. In this vision, all the world's sadness and joy, the rise and fall of honor and disgrace, but only is a long life journey to meet the passers-by and different value symbols, the origin of its benefits are selected and destiny of the same way; collection. Even the suffering, but also but is the sky will come down to another form, is God's gift and love. When a person takes the pain and suffering as happiness and enjoyment, his mind world has actually no pain and suffering; similarly, when a person takes the loneliness and loneliness as the beauty of the life appointment, with the enjoyment of the mind to cope with, there is no real benefit of loneliness and loneliness.
In real life, there is often such an experience, after experiencing a burst of noise, when you finally disgusted with the world's hustle and bustle, suddenly one day, able to find a piece of quiet sky, sitting alone in meditation, savoring the life of certain details, an interesting thing, will feel light, the mind beyond the, Shu Shu incomparable.
Loneliness, is every person are not willing to accompany, but as long as life in this world, you can not escape the entanglement of loneliness. The existence of loneliness really makes people helpless. The hustle and bustle of the world makes people expect self to stay away from loneliness, but it is difficult to extinguish it from time to time. When the difficulties and burdens bent your back, when the expectations and dreams and you make a joke to make a face to escape, when the distant goal in the life of the bitter contrast agent becomes indistinct, when the heart of the seed arching the reality of the land of the plate knot, loneliness will be about to come. It and you talk to the heart, murmuring; it soothes you, all kinds of tenderness. Can say, loneliness is always in the journey of life and your companion but can not get rid of the companion, is the journey of life a kind of drive away from the state. It is like a vine wrapped around the tree, the tree around the vine, and life together.
However, the life without loneliness is a life with flaws, and the life that can overcome loneliness can be a successful life. People sometimes need to learn and comprehend and get along with silence. Xin Qiji in a word self-deprecating self house is: laugh at my hut, door cover grass, path moss. This is enough to see that he was in the environment is how lonely. It is in this environment, he reads and writes, creativity, life, although it seems tasteless, but he is interesting: taste tasteless place to seek my happiness, material is not between the material over this life. It can be seen, most of the people are good at dealing with loneliness, and loneliness siblings, this is an art, but also a realm of life.
And loneliness to get along with the spirit of concentration. Confucius summarized three ways to see whether a person can achieve a career: depending on its therefore, to see its by, to check its security. The meaning is to look at what he does, to observe the origin and the end, and to understand his heart's trust. The so-called peace, according to the modern understanding, means peace of mind and tranquility of mind. Tranquility, is a kind of accumulation of momentum, and frivolity and restlessness are completely different from the personality cultivation, non-temperance without tranquility, non-tranquility without far-reaching, but when the state of mind is calm and peaceful, people can be dedicated, but its dedicated, people can be hidden from the self-guarded, from the comfort of their minds, in order to really do for the world's cool, but not for the human warmth and cold, and a heart of the matter to do their own. In fact, there is no big difference in human intelligence, the difference often lies in the degree of focus on things are not the same. The results will be very different if you don't put in the same amount of energy.
To endure loneliness, we must consciously resist the temptation from all sides. The Book of Rites says: "Life is quiet, the nature of the sky, the sense of movement, the nature of the desire. Visible sense of movement is the nature of man. People are lonely for a long time, it is easier to feel things and move. Loneliness is often in the people want to think about the time to drill holes. It does not know the depth, the more you are confused and worried, materialistic desire, the more it is close to you, pull the association, which will test you how to grasp the self, do not give it the opportunity to take advantage of. Therefore, it is necessary to continue the purity of that part of the heart, keep quiet as one, as if it were; it is necessary to continue the temptation of a vigilance, not to make trouble, not to be idle, not to be quiet, not to be restless. These are very important for the self to constitute a kind of moving place to keep quiet personality and habits are very important.
Enduring loneliness is a long-term psychological training and character sharpening, is the protracted self and self-competition, is the process of self-conquest of the self. The ancients said that fifty years old is a person's life, generalizing that this is the golden stage of human maturity, the life of the occasional self is considered to have an understanding of the ins and outs and awareness. The ancients in the summarization of life experience is always linked to the life, summarized the fate, life, life and a series of terms and detailed their connotations.
Although people live in immeasurable contingency and change, but never lose the initiative of self-control of the self, which is called to know the fate of heaven. The person who lives young and lives young, cultivates his body in order to wait, and thus establishes his destiny; the person who knows his destiny does not stand under the rocky wall; the person who dies after doing his duty is rightly destined to die ("Meng Zi Du Xin Shang"). This kind of establishing life, knowing life, and righting life, on the one hand, makes clear the limitations of human beings themselves, and on the other hand, makes clear a certain possibility of life, the benefits of which are all in encouraging people to correctly recognize and deal with their own lives, and to grasp the right to decide and dominate their own destinies, rather than to listen to their orders, to appoint them, or to predestinate them.
From this, we can see that the negative treatment of loneliness, confined to loneliness, is not the heart of the upward life; good and loneliness with loneliness, overcoming loneliness, is the heart of the life of the enterprising.
Life:
Enjoying loneliness and isolation is like enjoying the romance of the dash and enthusiasm towards the wonderful splendor of eternity, so that all the decadence lying in the mottled corners of the memory, the soul began to float freely, and finally arrived at the realm of unity of man and nature, and was conquered by the ego, and touched by the ego.
Inspirational reading three:
Life must endure loneliness
Just because of the loneliness, so successful.
It is precisely because of the loneliness, and therefore happy.
The person who reads loneliness,
must be the strongest, the most gentle, the most charming person!
Title
All the glittering scene behind the endless loneliness is hidden, such as cutting through the night fireworks bloom openly, but so bright and colorful, but after the flash, leaving behind is still endless night. In fact, all the splendor of life is to use loneliness to repay.
Life is a song of loneliness, we come from loneliness, and will eventually go to loneliness, when you embark on a journey alone, for the future of the struggle, loneliness is for you to show the way to the light;
When you sit in the warm winter sun to enjoy a good book, loneliness is a friend of yours to talk about everything; when you focus on a cause or research, loneliness is your most comfortable mentor!
However, we often feel empty in loneliness, become more and more impatient in loneliness, and lose ourselves in loneliness
At this point, you may want to stop your hasty steps, so that the heart in the loneliness to understand a baptism!
Quiet in the thought of clarity, see the heart of the true subject body; idle in the weather calm, knowledge of the heart of the true machine. The people who experience loneliness do not have to be lonely inside. Because, the loneliness gives him a moment to think, loneliness gives him the shoulder to bear loneliness, loneliness also teaches him the firmness of will.
Enjoy the loneliness, drive away the noise, dispel the depression. Let the heart as calm as the lake, the waves are not shocked!
Enjoy the loneliness, go to the vast sky to feel the breath of nature, cloud white wind clear, Chuan line stone standing!
Enjoy the loneliness, because loneliness makes life so beautiful!
People have to be able to withstand loneliness, in order to keep the prosperity
One of the most difficult stage of life is not no one understands you, but you do not understand yourself.
Second, if we have no doubt to believe in a person, the result is only two kinds, either get a lifetime of confidant, or get a lifetime of lessons.
Third, when the mood is not good, I feel that the whole world is finished, go to your mother's feelings, go to your mother's life; when the mood is good, I feel that life is really too good, I really want to live another five hundred years. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person.
Fourth, if you don't work hard today and tomorrow, then your life is just repeating itself.
Fifth, we may not be able to reach the destination port in an agreed date, but we can always walk on a real route.
Six, the more the trough, the more you can see the essence of a person. The worst result is nothing but failure, some people wait for failure, some people cursed failure, some people do their best and still fail. In such an environment, the mentality is everyone's own light, you are decadent is decadent, you are tenacious is tenacious.
Seven, people have to endure loneliness, to keep the prosperity.
VIII, we will eventually have to travel, and ultimately have to say goodbye to their tender selves.
Nine, if you want to get the world's best things, first let the world see the best you.
X. A person who knows why he lives can endure any life.
XI, true love is not no complaints, no contradiction, no conflict, each other do what they like. Rather, even in the most irritable, the most antipathy to each other, encounter things can still be for each other to hold an umbrella.
XII, youth is really very thin, what are very light, the wind blows, we are separated.
xiii, the reason why we complain, decadence, self-loathing, sinking, and even metamorphosis of this appearance, not fate is not dying, not God does not favor, is that we are in the invisible magnification of the original desire, deviated from the original trajectory, chasing the original does not belong to their own things. The direction of the wrong, and then effort is in vain, not as good as waiting for the original, precipitate the soul, good treatment of time, only to let the time to become meaningful, time will let your life has value.
XIV, rather than caring about other people's rejection and not good, as well as operating their own dignity and good.
XV, go to see the people you want to see. While the sun is just right, while the breeze is not noisy, while the flowers have not yet blossomed to conflagration, while still young, can still walk a long, long way, can still talk about deep, deep thoughts, while the world is not so crowded, while the plane has not yet taken off, while their hands can still embrace each other, while we still have breath.
XVI, in fact, the best days are, you make a mess of me, I laugh at you.
XVII, even if there is no one for you to applaud, but also to grace the curtain, thanks to their own serious pay.
XVIII, perhaps, the road is not wrong, the fault is only the choice; love is not wrong, the fault is only fate.
nineteen, with fate is not to listen to God, but with an open mind to face life.
XX, if you want to get the world's best things, first let the world see the best you.
1, to withstand loneliness, to keep the prosperity. But all successful people, often have to go through a period of no support, no one to help the dark years, and this period of time, is precisely the key stage of precipitation self. The first thing you need to do is to get out of the darkness and get through it, and then you'll be on your way.
2, the word "light", half of the water, half of the fire; life, half of the thorns, half of the rapid retreat. Water and fire are not compatible, the word maker skillfully blend the two together, revealing the true flavor of "light": the strong and soft. The "lightness" of life requires not only the ability to stand up to thorns and thorns, but also the ability to let go of the need to retreat. The moon loss is round, the moon is loss, the life of the realm, not a "into", more not a "retreat".
3, the old man said: 1 do not climb do not compare not their own gas their own; 2. live more dry words less said the masses have scales in their hearts; 3. less salt and more vinegar less mahjong more walks; 4. on time to sleep on time to get up to run and swim health; 5. husband and wife love children filial piety home and more important than anything else; 6. the official again more money and then more Yama still dragged in the soil; 7. do some good accumulation of virtues often read the Maitreya Buddha in the heart; 8. eat a little bit of loss to eat a little bitter stupid point is also a good thing to eat. A little bitter, stupid and stupid is also a blessing.
4. There is no job in the world that is not hard, and there is no personnel that is not complicated. Even if you rejection of the current unpleasant, light will not pass slower. Women na, long time to take care of it! Don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you. To learn to keep a low profile, there will be gains and losses between the trade-offs, do not have to be too calculating. You should also learn to be practical and pragmatic, the simpler the happier. When a woman has enough connotation and material backing, life will become a bottom.
5, while we are still young, take a few steps, more appreciate the scenery along the way, do not rush to arrive at the destination and miss the warmth of the flow of years in people and things; while we are still young, more romantic words, do some childish things, do not smack of a joke missed the most beautiful pieces of life and occasions; while we are still young, shorten the distance, extend the time. While we are both young, do more of whatever we want to do.
6, see through to think openly, to take the put down, stand upright behavior straight. Life three blessings: peace is blessing, health is blessing, suffering is blessing. Life three do not fight: not with the superior, not with the same level of favor, not with the lower level of merit. The three great pleasures in life: wine, dear friends, and books on the pillow. Three regrets in life: not making good friends, not grasping good opportunities, not learning from teachers. Life three for: and for the precious, good for this, sincere for the first.
7, some people, destined to be a guest in life; some things, often let us very helpless. In fact, rather than sadness and tears, not as easy to face; then do not wait for people who should not wait, do not hurt the heart should not hurt. Loneliness, not necessarily unhappy; get, not necessarily long; lost, not necessarily no longer have. When you love, let him be free; when you don't love, let love be free. Maybe look a little lighter, hurt will be a little less!
8, youth is open on the book can not be closed, life is embarked on the road can not go back, love is thrown out on the bets can not be recovered. To their own good, a lifetime is not long; on the side of the people better, the next life you may not be able to meet.
9, friends are two-sided things, some can give you warmth, some will only let you cold, even if you were hurt by friends, you should also be grateful in this kind of no money, no power, no profit, no power at this age, we can come together. Not really figure what, feel right on the sticky tight, tired of going far blame no one, people are living for themselves, so do not go to stay on the people who left, look good around them so that they really understand your good, each other can not be separated, that is a true friend.
10, young love, that is, joyfully think will live with the person in front of you for life, so think of all the future, a bite of it will be realized. Until many years later, when we experienced the growing pains, love changes, walked through a thousand mountains, only to wake up to realize that so many years of time is just a beautiful dream given to you by God, in order to support you to support you to walk through this long life.
11, the girl do not think for anyone to change their own, what to become thin and white to become a lady, to change the small tantrums and careful eyes, to be frank, useless, although do the most real self, there will be someone to love you well.
12, how many people are playing the banner of friendship love each other; and how many people said the truth is expressed in jokes.
A man's biggest failure is not that no girls like him but like his girls feel that they were blind baby, remember a sentence "in no one hurt you, you must live like a man.
13, the so-called leftover women lonely, in fact, is boring people imagine, in their view, single women must sleep alone to tears. In fact, how difficult it is to talk about a relationship, it is difficult to find a lifetime of destiny, temporary single, because of the love to adhere to. Single is a heart full of people, with enough strength to wait for fate. The single heart is not lonely, because it has a full expectation of love.
14, young you, there are enough reasons to believe: you will get the world's happiest a love. So, I also have enough reason to advise you to wait patiently. Don't believe in any sweet words too soon, no matter those words are out of kindness or malice, it won't do you the slightest good. Fruit smells sweet only when it is ripe, and so does happiness.
15, some people, have when not cherish. If you miss it, it is a lifetime. There is no one who will always stand in the same place and wait for who. Love is actually so simple, two like each other on the good, too many requirements, but not the most before the exact feeling.
16, feelings of the most abrasive, not quarrel or cold war, but obviously like, but also pretend to care. Love, always tied together with self-esteem. But self-esteem is by no means a superior posture, but to face themselves honestly. The world is used to play a kind of disdain for all the cold color. The better the acting, the farther away from happiness. Don't hide too deep, happiness will not find you.
17, life has good times and adversity, not everywhere is adversity; life has peaks and valleys, not everywhere is the bottom. Because of the good times or peak and high and mighty, because of adversity or trough and downcast, are shallow life. In the face of frustration, if you just complain and get angry, then you are destined to always be a weak person.
18, life is also like taking the train, the past scenery as beautiful, let you linger, but you always need to move forward, you tell yourself, I will definitely come back later to see, but in fact, often you will never go back. The scenery of the back, encountered people, is ultimately far away.
20, the so-called thousand mile horse, not necessarily the fastest, but must be the best endurance. You can complain, but you must endure, accumulate strength, and wait for the opportunity - so that life will have hope.