2. Our pain arises precisely from the disproportion between our desire and our ability. A feeling man will become a man of absolute misery when his power expands his desire. It is only when all powers are employed (i.e., when desires are commensurate with the capacity to satisfy them) that the mind can remain tranquil and one's life can incorporate organization.
3, a person, if you do not force yourself a hand, you simply do not know how good you are. A person, want to be excellent, you have to accept the challenge; a person, you want to be excellent as soon as possible, you have to look for challenges; a person, dare to listen to the truth, need courage; a person, dare to say the truth, need vigor; a person, knowledge can be obtained through learning; a person, growth must be through the grinding, in order to be more mature.
4, like bland, like bland in that texture. Bland, not born, that is the experience of wind and rain after the realization and transcendence, that is the youth in tears smile. Perhaps, only through the vicissitudes of the heart, to be able to experience and understand. Life learn to draw a period, that is, there is a beginning and an end, not halfway, there is a responsible attitude, which is about personality.
5, the oath is actually not reliable, the most reliable is the deep conviction. Love a person the most important is not the oath and sweet words, but each other's heart *** with the guardian of the faith of growing old together. Once the beliefs collapse, once the chiseled oath with the wind, the rest is just full of heartbreak debris ...... you have to know, some trivial things in life, more reflective of his love for you, that is the code of love.
6, blip, only in the midnight for the wonderful life and lonely bloom, will not be invited to lose themselves; mayfly life, only in a short life to experience the splendor of life, will not be because of the world's changes and retain self; some people, perhaps in your life, such as the blip, meet sometimes, lost sometimes; some people in your life, perhaps such as mayflies, although the time is short, but The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
7, don't be too hard on yourself, some people, it is not worth your heart and lungs; some things, do not have to be engraved in memory. Don't wait until you can't do anything about it, just choose to go with the flow; not because the heart is no support, is forced to go with the flow. Some people and things, you have to pass through the station, good or bad, success or failure, gathering or dispersal, love or hate, it does not matter, it just help you taste all the flavors of life, to see the world cold and warm. All the experience, are ripening medicine.
8, the journey of life, horizontal and vertical are road, bitter, spicy, sweet and sour to taste. Any experience is a kind of accumulation, experience more life has length, experience wide life has thickness. Experiencing the challenge of danger, life has a high degree; experiencing hardship, life has strength; experiencing the test of frustration, life has brightness. There is a rich experience, there is a full life.
9, people, live need courage, live well need wisdom. Human life is actually very fragile, disappear only a small a fatal action. Life is sometimes really helpless, so that sometimes do not favor to live. Different mentality, the situation of life will be very different. Only by practicing a calm and quiet heart, life will be clear. Health needs to exercise, the mind needs to be cultivated, destiny only in their own.
10, occasionally capricious, but not sharp, occasionally sensitive, but not neurotic, happy to share all the happy and unhappy things. Happy, just laugh, let everyone know, sad, just cry, and then as nothing happened. Born for good, made for happiness. More pleasure, less sadness; more truth, less hypocrisy; more leisure, less busy.
11, others stay up late when you are sleeping, others have gotten up, you are still struggling to sleep a few minutes more, you have a lot of ideas, but the head of the hot over, others are a thing to stick to the end. You even have to read a book for a long time, when it's time to work, you brush up your cell phone, and surely you can't get up in the morning to memorize the words and work late into the night. Many times it is not that you are ordinary, bumbling, but you do not have others to pay more.
12, stormy life, not everything is as it should be; disturbed world, will not be everywhere pleasant; right and wrong world, the path of red dust, there are always some things that make us do not feel good; there are always some people, so that we are not satisfied; there are always some road, so that we can not go; there are always some reason, so that we do not understand; there are always some hours, so that we are not happy. The first thing you need to do is to learn how to change your mind, and how to change your heart with the road.
13, like every time you look at can see a warm. There are times when the moment is eternity. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that. The years have changed when love has become a song. The only thing left in life is warmth and touching. Fate will not always favor you, nor will it always ignore you. It will also open a window for you when you close a door, learn to put down, your life will be clear, life can be clear.
14, living a simple life, because the simplest is also the most real, a good mood, is the only life can not be deprived of wealth. A good state of mind is a good mood. Not for yesterday's disillusionment and regret, not for today's loss and worry, not for tomorrow's gain and loss and worry, indifferent to fame and fortune, contentment, let nature take its course, random and safe.
15, water, the lighter the clearer; people, the lighter the happier. The less things mixed in the water, although it seems that many different flavors less, but the more clear and bright. The more temptation to look down on life, seems to be missing a lot of the joy of being a human being, but because of the simplicity of the heart and less to more trouble. Enjoyment, all to pay for the price. The more roles you play, the more tired you are. Breezy, make people simple; simple, make people happy.
16, because of the light, so happy; because of the light, so happy. We are all passers-by of heaven and earth, many things, we can not do the main. The more you want to hold on to, often the fastest to leave you. Therefore, everything does not have to care too much, everything with the fate of the heart, the edge of the deep poly poly, edge shallow with it. Look down on everything to see more open, let nature take its course, no intention to get, it does not matter what loss. The first thing you need to do is to look at how much you want to lighten up, and how much pain you want to keep away from you.
17, life's greatest cultivation is tolerance. Tolerance is not weak or forbearance, but the difficult to find people, make up for people's shortcomings, Yang people's long, understanding people's faults, and will not be cynical about people's talent, despise people's ability to satirize people's lack of blame for people's mistakes. Tolerance is to affirm themselves and recognize others, is a kind of life, good treatment of others in the realm. Behind the tolerance is love and strength.
18, no planning life is called a jigsaw puzzle, planning life is called a blueprint; no goal of life is called wandering, there is a goal of life is called sailing. Our happiness, in fact, is derived from the inner reality, the world, there are smooth, there are against; home, a warm word; a let the less-than-ideal people to regain confidence, get the courage of the place; a let the experience of the wind and waves of the people soundly into the dream of the shelter.
19, not deliberate, not hypocritical, not the cultivation of ten thousand volumes of poetry, we have a simple years of simplicity; no experience of the vicissitudes of maturity, we have is not surprised by the frankness of the spoils and insults. Love is the heaviest taste of life, light is the strongest color of life. If you have missed yesterday, then please do not miss today. The past, to the years to deal with; the future, left to time to prove.
20, too far from the distance, away from too long, are not distance, strange heart is the farthest distance. The most long-lasting possession in life is not to cherish for a while, but to cherish for a lifetime. The people who really love you will not say a lot of words to love you, but will do a lot of things to love you. Ordinary company seems to be plain, in fact, is to cherish the immediate; understanding of know how seems to be simple, in fact, is to treat the heart. In the world of feelings, companionship and understanding are more important than love itself.