People get too close to each other, an absolute disaster. Kindness if you don't grow teeth, sooner or later, you will be hurt to pieces.
Some time ago, I saw this video on the Internet: an old father, painstakingly raised his children to adulthood, married to give money, buy a house to give money, and finally fell to the end of no one to take care of.
Some people chided him, why give the money to the children, if he left some savings in advance to pension, the children will also be because of the money, and not to forget him.
He looked helpless and pained, "the child tube I want it, I can not give it"?
The words just fell, my eyes red. Until now when I write this article, tears once again blurred my vision.
Other than that, there are many such tragic cases in our old home.
Old fathers and mothers, like an old cow, tirelessly work hard and dedicate most of their lives to their children, but in the end, they end up with no one to take care of them.
If you have a bit of money in your hand, at least in the case of a child with no expectations, life is not in a situation where you can't go anywhere.
Poor them, they took the money out early, so that no one and no money fell into the miserable end.
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Don't love too full, don't sleep too late. If you push too hard, you'll end up hurting yourself.
Mu Zi in the newly married, think everything is very beautiful, and husband sweet sweet life, with in-laws and beautiful relationship, filial piety both parents, and then want a lovely child.
Her mentality is one that many women have had before.
Until a year after the wedding, Mu Zi realized that, since when, she has been reduced to the object of bullying, her mother-in-law did not put her in the eyes.
She was pregnant, her mother-in-law to arm pain to avoid cooking, but at night behind her back to secretly go to the square dance. The first time I saw her was when she was pregnant, and she was in the middle of cooking, and she was in the middle of the night.
A relative got married, and her mother-in-law told her that she was pregnant, and according to the local custom, it was not suitable to go to the wedding banquet, and she also told her that if she had time, she should wash the clothes in the house, and that it was not good to be idle, and it was not conducive to the birth of a baby.
Until later from the mouth of a cousin learned that the old home is not at all that custom, she was violently frozen, and found themselves being recklessly bullied.
Poor her has been so good to the in-laws, no matter what to buy for Mom and Dad to buy a copy of the same in-laws, but the result is to fall into the end of being bullied.
She told her husband about these things.
She told these things to her husband. Thankfully, her husband didn't indiscriminately protect her parents, but instead felt that Mu Zi was aggrieved by following him.
A few days later, they rented a house outside. The first time I saw this, I was able to get a good look at it, and I was able to get a good look at it, and I was able to get a good look at it, and I was able to get a good look at it.
She thought her in-laws would never ignore her again, but instead they started to review their past behavior and called them every now and then to go back for dinner.
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People, who want to achieve real happiness, must maintain a kind and optimistic character.
Only, excessive kindness, not only can not obtain happiness and joy, but also will push themselves into the situation of being neglected and bullied.
Unless one is willing to be a masochist, one must let kindness grow teeth.
Respect is mutual, when faced with unfair treatment, please put away your kindness decisively.
Use kindness on those who deserve it. Those who don't deserve it don't deserve your kindness and dedication.
For the rest of your life, be kind to yourself.