First, people have been reprinting Japanese chicken soup, which is very independent of children, but is this really the case? I believe many people have brushed the following pictures about Japanese children:
In the essays of these pictures, they are all praising Japanese children for their hands-on work.
But now young people in Japan have developed into low-desire groups. They have no dreams and enthusiasm, and they don't want to get married. Japanese high-level officials are anxious to drive Japanese babies crazy. Is the child brought out in this way really healthy for the whole society? Will this really not develop a selfish character?
You know, the independence of a child is not that a lonely person does everything, but that he can take responsibility when it is his turn to do it.
Second, Japan is an aging country with the largest number of neets. How to teach? Anyone who has been to Japan will know that Japan is actually aging very seriously. Our taxi driver may be an uncle in his forties and fifties, while their taxi driver is an old man in his sixties and seventies.
It stands to reason that in our country, old people of this age are really struggling to support themselves by taking their grandchildren and dancing in the square dance. Many of us are introducing foreign parenting experiences. We should do everything like mothers, not like Separate child care. It will take a lifetime for the child to recover if he stays. Old people are excluded from taking care of children, and young people are getting more and more tired.
Aren't we heading in this direction? Children actually know everything and can learn everything. Left-behind children, they will look forward to reuniting with their parents and making phone calls, but in order to "take their children with them", let them experience their parents' quarrels, run for money, and even collect rent and collect debts. Do you think they don't understand when they close the door? When such children grow up, do they dare to get married and have children?
Our generation will fight for filial piety and children, because that's what our grandparents taught us. But our children were raised by ourselves. What do we teach them? Don't we have points?
Third, think about the current situation of children who are over-pampered or over-independent, and you should understand the disadvantages of "exquisite baby". In fact, there are many exquisite children around us. Although they are excellent, polite and talented, they are hesitant to really let them suffer, share and help others. I believe these are not all parents whose children have problems, but young people who are watching and learning under pressure.
When bringing a baby every other generation, because grandparents are under little pressure, they can simply say, "My family has it!" " When their neighbors in the east have no oil and their neighbors in the west have no face. Take it first! "
The children in the city who do it themselves spend every penny, and neighbors have to take a look through the keyhole when knocking at the door. These "safety" that everyone takes for granted are not the shackles of children's growth?
Generally speaking, the aging and low desire of Japanese young people are actually very close to us, and may be gradually copied. Just think of a question: do you dare to get married? You can understand.