The most difficult debt in the world is the debt of gratitude, and the most difficult debt is the kindness of parents.
Nowadays, many people think that as long as they invest more money, they can repay their parents for their years of parenting.
As we all know, elderly parents are not afraid of having no money, but are afraid of the following "three things":
one
Lose health
When it comes to getting old, many people think of being "weak and sick", which seems to have become a rule.
I really have to admit that when people are young, they always like to rely on physical strength, make money at all costs and get wealth by overdrawing their lives.
I didn't understand until I was old. Health is the capital of revolution. It's not that simple.
There is an uncle in my hometown who has suffered from liver disease for many years. Although he doesn't smoke, he likes drinking and eating meat since he was a child, and no one can persuade him.
I am still the same when I am old, and I am worried about their whole family.
I had saved some money in business a few years ago, but I spent all my medical treatment and medicine, and I still owed a lot of foreign debts.
Uncle often says, "My life is my own, and you can't control it."
In this way, the older you get, the worse your health will be, and you will be riddled with diseases, and gradually lose your basic ability to take care of yourself, even your children will not recognize you.
Really, if a person doesn't even have health, then he will not only see no hope for the rest of his life, but also bring endless pain to his relatives.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once warned the world: "People who ignore health are tantamount to making fun of their own lives."
You know, at a certain age, living a healthy and happy life every day is the greatest blessing in life.
As long as you are healthy, you can go where you want to go and make every day full of happiness.
two
Owed to children
As we all know, parents are like an umbrella in the heavy rain, sheltering us from the wind and rain from beginning to end.
Even if I am old, I am afraid that I am useless.
Look at the busy life of children and take the initiative to take care of them. They are always cautious and uncomfortable, and always pretend to be relaxed.
I heard a friend tell me a personal experience.
After getting married, he settled in the city where he worked. After the baby was born, his mother worried that he and his wife were too busy and offered to help.
At first, life was not bad, and the family did their jobs and lived happily.
Her mother is more willing to do some small things within her power to feel the happiness that her son needs.
Until one day, a friend suddenly asked his mother, "Did you forget to give your child Banlangen?"
At that time, the flu was so severe that the old man felt that he had not taken good care of his grandson, but his friends didn't mean it at all.
After that, the old man was like a different person, sensitive, nervous, and increasingly burdened with psychology, which eventually led to depression.
Really, in this world, parents are people who don't ask for anything in return. They desperately want to protect their children and are afraid of owing too much.
There is such a clip in the TV series "Happy Family".
The promising young son abandoned his father and could not completely sever the relationship. The old father also tried to apologize with tears:
"Dad is incompetent, I am sorry for you!"
I have worked hard for half my life just to make my children live better. I will pay the price for my "incompetence" until I am old. How sad!
Old parents are not afraid of death, and the only thing they are afraid of is owing their children.
I really hope that all the children in the world will not forget their parents' kindness and take good care of them, just as they once took care of us.
three
lonely
There is a park near my community, where the most frequent tourists are the elderly.
At the dawn of the morning, you can see the unhurried back of the old man and occasionally hear the sound of opera on the radio;
In the afternoon, the crowd was crowded, some people were singing, some were dancing in the square dance, and more people were sitting in chairs, holding crutches in one hand and looking straight into the distance. ......
Sometimes I can't help thinking, what will it be like to live to 70 or 80 years old?
I once heard an old neighbor say that my daily life is just waiting, with no initiative and no fun. I only have loneliness to accompany myself.
"There are no relatives or friends around, not even a person who tells the truth."
Young people are busy with their own careers, while middle-aged people are fighting for their families. Children also have their own fun, and only the elderly can keep their empty houses.
Some people always say that life will eventually return to dullness.
But what elderly parents fear most is not that they have no money, but that they will raise their children all their lives and die alone.
As the saying goes, Zhu Dexiao comes first.
Parents are old and don't need much. What we can give is far less than one-tenth of what parents pay.
So, while your parents are still alive, love them and accompany them with your heart.
Don't always feel tired of listening to your parents, and don't say that you are tired of going home. They are our greatest wealth in this life.
You know, life comes and goes, and the future is not long.
As time goes by, they are getting older and older. I really don't know which day they will leave. Don't wait until they lose it to regret it.
Finally, I wish parents in the world a long and healthy life!