There are two sides to everything!
Benefits of living with your parents after marriage
1, easy to take care of elderly parents
Parents hard work to raise the grace of even married can not be forgotten. Especially now the only child family, if the marriage and parents do not live, the two old age can not move how to do, sick around even a caring care of people are not miserable, this is also our son of a dereliction of duty. Therefore, after marriage and parents live together to take care of the two old man is much more convenient, they slightly have a headache and fever we will soon find.
2, parents can cook for you
Elderly people are very diligent and willing to take care of the children. When you get up, are you two still willing to go to the kitchen and fix yourself some breakfast? After work, dragging your tired body home, you two are still willing to go to the kitchen to cook dinner? At this point, don't you think it's good to have a mother. Breakfast, dinner is all ready-made, eat also delicious.
3, parents can help you take care of the child
Nowadays, most young couples know that most of the children will not be able to take care of the child, both of them go to work and leave the child at home, the child is more poor, and in the long term on the child's healthy development is also unfavorable. Moreover, bringing up a child is not a simple matter. The child's eating, drinking, pulling, spreading, sleeping, you are also the first time to be a parent, you certainly do not know how to feed get. However, if you live with your parents, they have a lot of experience and can help you. They can help you to take care of your daughter-in-law during the month, and your child when he/she is in the swaddling clothes. They will take care of your child until he/she goes to elementary school or even longer.
4, parents can reconcile the couple
There are couples who do not quarrel, but the biggest advantage of living with parents is that you can less quarrel or avoid a big fight. They are the best "United Nations peacekeeping force". The most important thing to remember is that you can't be a good person and you can't be a bad person, so you can't be a bad person. In addition, the young couple in front of their parents are also embarrassed to quarrel, afraid of affecting them.
5, parents can help clean up the house to do housework
Some of the newly married young couple is relatively do not love to do. Laughing at each other and push each other, it is best not to shirk too much, grating for a long time, the two are sure to quarrel because of this little thing. But and parents live together, the old two in their spare time will certainly clean the house spotless, clean, the two of you is also a great support.
The disadvantages of living with your parents after marriage
1, easy to cause conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
The tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is part of the cultural tradition, but also difficult to solve the problem since ancient times. Many people say that the solution to the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as long as the daughter-in-law more understanding of the mother-in-law on the good, but the principle of who all understand, but really face the reality, many people are to do. Therefore, in order to completely eliminate this problem, or do not live together.
2, intergenerational education problems
The filial piety does not necessarily have to live with, live together, on the surface to take care of parents, in fact, may increase their burden. For example, the couple are both working, busy every day, not only will not take care of the parents, but also let them worry about, help cooking, bring children, etc.
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