But more and more people, fade out of the circle of friends, is true. Sometimes, they are in WeChat, received a message from a friend, said he sent a circle of friends, go to see, need to pay attention to, leave a message, like, just suddenly remembered that they have been many days do not look at the circle of friends.
The reasons for fading out of the circle of friends, analyzed, there are probably the following points.
Once the circle of friends, we just take a picture, send a mood, say something human. Everyone's communication is sincere, but also keen to leave each other a message, send blessings.
Nowadays, there are a lot of commercialized things in the circle of friends, and there are a lot of people who send the circle of friends for the sake of interests. There are also people who post things that curse others and look bad. There are also people who send dozens of messages a day, the whole circle of friends was "screen", hands are tired of turning, or to see him a person's things, really very speechless.
Let's say, a friend of mine, Li Ming, people do not look good, but every day to show off their own, even if it is out in the morning, we have to take a picture of the appearance of the door, and then tell everyone, he went to work, work, busy to take the time to send a circle of friends. He sent at least twenty or so a day, and if he went to a distant place on business, there were records of fifty a day. Later, people couldn't stand it and blocked him. But if there are more such people, is it better to block them all? All shielded, then you open the circle of friends, see what?
Since there is no sincere people in the circle of friends, and can not see what you want, slowly feel "boring", simply do not look at it. The only way to avoid this is to avoid the pain of the eyes.
Or there are people, fell in love with other platforms, you can look at the article, see some funny things, slowly alienated from the circle of friends.
When you first realized that a friend had set up a "circle of friends three days visible", you will feel strange, and even call to ask him what happened, very concerned.
When you found many times that someone set up the circle of friends "three days visible, a month visible", it is used to. It's a bit weird, but you don't care about them anymore.
If your circle of friends, you can see fewer and fewer acquaintances, there is not much to see. People do not look at the circle of friends, and do not post anything, you are alone, playing is not interesting. The way people do it, it affects your mood, and you join the ranks of the "fade out friends circle".
People like to get together, but also like new things. Now the WeChat also used a few years, lost the original that "curiosity". And, you add a lot of strange friends, all feel is far away, never really meet, chatting, there is no topic, circle of friends like, feel no use.
When you feel bored with the circle of friends, you begin to return to the "square dance", "see the scenery", "do sports" and other real life. The more time you spend doing real things, the less time you spend looking at your friends.
As the saying goes, "Thirty years east of the river, thirty years west of the river," a person who likes the same thing all his life, I guess there are very few people who are so persistent. Some people "fade out of the circle of friends", but also human nature, can be understood and tolerated.
So, many people, in order to work, in order to live, every day hard, which have the mood to take into account what is in the circle of friends. If you really have something to find him, just call well, or go to the unit to find it.
Some people, twenty-four hours a day, are calculated by the minute, the group is the norm, hands and feet non-stop is the habit. Even cell phones on the side, do not want to always go to see what news inside. Such people, basically than those who send a circle of friends every day, more successful.
Of course, a person does not look at the circle of friends, is their own choice, no one forced you, and do not go to convince others to look at the circle of friends every day. Everyone is a little free, have any hobby, feel free.
Mike Lujan once wrote, "The medium is an extension of the person". A person can meet more people through social platforms, but also cognitive society, but we can not be fixed by the platform of their own life development, what to see, what to think, what to play, let nature take its course, happy.
Author: Cloth and rough food.
The picture in the article comes from the network.