Marriage is beautiful, but also every woman's heart is the most yearning, after the marriage, can have a man to rely on, can have a harbor that can cover the wind and rain, and can work together with the man for the future, it is really a happy thing.
Of course, the happiness or otherwise of a marriage is a woman's own choice, what kind of man she chooses to marry, and what kind of attitude she chooses to use to run her marriage.
Everyone says that marriage is a woman's second life. Women married well can change the status quo, the rest of life happy and carefree; married the wrong that is a foot into the fire pit, from now on away from happiness and joy.
So, many women have started to compare their husbands with each other after getting married, and many women feel that as long as they marry well, they are winners in life.
But after forty, will there be women who are still fighting for their husbands? I'm afraid only those silly women will do so.
The really smart women, after middle age, y understand that rely on marriage, rely on men, simply can not be happy for life.
After the age of forty, silly women only spell husband, smart women spell these three words: ? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get a new car.
Remember canoe in the "Lonely Planet" wrote: ? In fact, has been with you, is the marvelous self?
To walk this long road of life, rely on anyone can not, only rely on yourself. Because only yourself, will not give up on you, only yourself, only know how to heartache you.
So women, after forty years old, do not spell husband, spell yourself you can live the rest of life every day.
01, smart women spell? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Hu Lin said, the woman's happiness are given by themselves, not by men.
Once upon a time, she just got married and liked to brag about her husband to her little sisters, and Hu Lin thought she had married well and could rest on her laurels for the rest of her life.
But after forty, when the child is gradually large, tuition living expenses tuition fees are more expenses, she felt more and more empty, because both the family and the child's expenses, she can only ask her husband.
Married for more than a decade, she has long been worn down by the years and disappeared the beauty of the past, looking at those in the workplace still glowing middle-aged women, Hulin decided not to continue this way.
She fought her way back into the workforce. By the time she was able to support herself with her own money and still live a very sophisticated life, she had become the envy of all.
When you're young, you can still rely on a man, but can you rely on him for the rest of your life?
By then, I'm afraid that not only will the man be sick of you, but you won't be able to help but hate yourself.
After forty, only those stupid women will spell husband, smart women rely on is never a man, but their own fight down the career, as well as their own efforts and exchange of wealth.
Smart women never rely on their husbands, they rely on themselves.
02, smart women after forty years old, spelled: ? rely on themselves? Run the marriage and family better
Chen Rongrong has been married for more than ten years, and now she has stepped into the ranks of the middle-aged. Like all middle-aged women, Chen Rongrong likes to dance downstairs in the neighborhood and chat with her sisters when she's bored.
But she recently discovered something: most of her sisters in their forties, who are the same age as her, like to get together and talk about their husbands. than their husbands?
As long as it is who's husband and did something moving, these women must be the first time to take out to show off, attracting the envious eyes of others after the immense pride.
In the eyes of Chen Rongrong, these practices are very stupid, relying on every day to spell husband to seek the happiness of the couple's life, for a woman who is already forty years old, in fact, very failed.
Every time she hears the topic, Chen Rongrong will sigh, she does not spell husband, because she relies on her own efforts, the family relationship is very harmonious management.
Foolish women, because of the spelling husband and get short-lived happiness, but smart women know, how to rely on themselves to make the family better, not just rely on their husbands to do things to maintain the balance of the family.
After forty years old, the most important thing for a woman is not the family? Smart women know what to do to ease the imbalance between the family and rely on themselves to make the relationship better, which is something to brag about.
03, after forty, smart women spell: ? rely on themselves? Living a more exquisite,? by themselves? Over the desired life
Dai Qian divorced for several years, but over forty years old, she still maintains a devilish figure and still beautiful appearance.
All the sisters around her are spelling husband, Dai Qian is never to see, because most of these women are full-time wife, spending all rely on their husbands, their own simply can not be independent.
While Dai Qian bought a car and a house on her own, and through her own unremitting efforts, she has a wonderful body and face.
Forty years later, the woman's years really have passed half, at this time the woman, will go to two very different roads.
The stupid woman at this time will only spell husband, because she has chosen to rely on the husband of this road.
And smart women, they will rely on themselves to bring the life they want, forty years old, not only for their own consideration, but also for the child to consider, a only rely on others mother, destined to be unable to give the child happiness.
Time to say:
Women have to remember that before the age of thirty, your marriage may still be a dream, as long as the wind and snow rely on men.
But once you're over forty, the marriage you're facing will become exceptionally realistic, so realistic that you'll often wonder why you ever got married in the first place.
After all, after forty years, women are not as attractive as they were in their younger years, and if they still have nothing to show for it, the chances of a man's change of heart will be greatly increased.
Do you understand? After forty years old, only stupid women will spell husband, because they do not have their own hand out of things, only those smart women, only to have the capital to say rely on their own.
Women must be self-reliant and independent, in order to be able to shine, show people, especially after forty years old, women spell, must be these three words: rely on their own.