Recently, a woman spoke to me this way.
Don't get me wrong, this is not a fragrant thing, but a middle-aged greasy meal dislike wine. At that time, I and a few close friends party, most of the participants are middle-aged or soon to be middle-aged people, such as me. Middle-aged people's meals naturally less young women, come in groups is the most popular, if next to the male seated, that is to drink water all fragrant.
Unsurprisingly, the day of the drink a little high, everyone at least half a pound or more. After a few rounds of going down, some in private chatting, such as find a reason to say that they will read palmistry, and then pull the young girl's hand left flip, right flip. Some were disliked by two or three people, one of whom must have been covering. At this point, a woman invited me and another brother for a drink. I politely said to wait a bit and have a couple bites of food, I was really hungry. The woman said, "I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this, but I think I'm going to be able to do it," she said, "I don't know if I'm going to be able to do it.
At this point, the side of the people are uproarious, you can not ah? I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it. Almost learn to do a good man, do heroes fall wine glass.
People are dying to save face and suffer, the fox toasted this cup of wine after drinking, my whole person is completely bad. It was hard to get to the end of the show, after saying goodbye to each other, I hid in the bathroom a wild vomit. After sobering up, I washed my face, I looked at the mirror more and more strange, more and more old face, so I want to ask him, in the end you can not? What's not working? What else can you do?
"Are your legs still okay?"
When I met a high school friend on New Year's Eve, I was on a soccer team, I played forward, he played midfield, and was the technical backbone of the team. When we met, I looked at him limping, I said what's wrong, legs and feet can not?
He laughed and said that before New Year's Eve, he went to play a game of soccer, and as a result, a "marseillaise pirouette" put himself down, and his tendons were broken, and he spent tens of thousands of dollars.
I know, "Marseille Slalom" used to be his specialty, walking very much. I asked him if he was going to play again, and he said he didn't dare to play anymore, and that he was afraid of losing his life next time, and that he couldn't afford the high cost of medicine.
The most important thing to remember is that you are afraid of dying.
In the past, I was not afraid of heights, but now once I stand on more than three floors above the place began to be all unnatural, afraid of accidentally fall to. The most important thing is that you can climb six floors in a single breath, but now you have to take a break in the middle of climbing three floors.
But when I was young, I had a lot of skills, and I always felt like I could get back on my feet. When I was a kid, after watching "Shaolin Temple", I dared to bet with someone to jump from the second floor. The result is also really jumped, it hurts, but patted the buttocks to the people upstairs roared, you can not?
But I am now extremely timid, consciously away from all potential dangers. For example, the elevator a malfunction, it is nervous to death. The first time I saw this, I was able to see the light of day, and I was able to see the light of day, and I was able to see the light of day. When I was young, I went to university in Changsha, and went to see the Window of the World, a roller coaster, and found it really exciting. Now, when I touch something shaky, I get dizzy. This all shows that I began to not want to life so tossed.
When I was a teenager, I often went to play soccer, and it was rain or shine. Every day the first to come, the last to go home. Ten years later, most of the people who played soccer together back then are gone. Some fat a circle, some run a few steps on the panting, clapping his hands and said no, replacement. Others have dragged their families to stand at the side of the field
When I was young, I thought I could do anything, and everything was fun. But now I realize I'm a pretty boring guy.
There are times when you take your young daughter out to play, a moment and she said that this is dangerous, a moment and she said that the danger, not allowed to play this, not allowed to play that. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that.
Former national team coach Milo and his wife traveled by plane, he always asked his wife and he took a different flight. His reasoning was that if something happened, at least one person could continue to take care of the kids.
As I move toward middle age, I'm also beginning to understand that a lot of the things that I desperately wanted to do when I was younger, things that I did okay, are slowly starting to not work. That's because of aging, but also because there is worry.
Some people say, just seek not to be smashed by life's accidents, just seek a stable life. Because can not afford to lose, can not afford to regress.
"Are you still good with your teeth?"
Eating is the most telling of a person's world.
When we were small, we had what we ate, and what we ate was delicious. For example, the moon cake, when I was small, it was very expensive and delicious, but now it is rotten in the box can not finish one. When we were young, we could eat anything and everything. But now, when faced with a wide range of food, we are using the method of elimination, this greasy, this high fat, this fire ...
When I was young, I liked to drink carbonated beverages such as Guinness, a breath of air can come to three bottles. When I was young, there were times when I didn't want to go out to eat, or stay up late and work overtime, instant noodles were the best gift. When the aroma goes up, the rats in the aisle are all seduced.
Until one day started, the circle of friends said, older, to start health, eat less greasy, eat less with spicy, these have irreversible damage to the gastrointestinal mucosa, can lead to esophageal cancer, intestinal cancer, stomach cancer. In addition, more soak some goji berries to drink, it is best to buy a thermos.
So, I began to eat decently less chili, began to go buy a thermos. As a result, when other people order food, take a look, then ouch, taboo? The body can not?
I nodded helplessly, shut down all the senses and desires, living as a log.
Some people say that after the middle age, it is a great happiness to be able to have a regular and smooth bowel movement every day.
"Hair, are you still okay"
"Young people nowadays have a cheap mouth, and take pleasure in making fun of others' baldness." A friend said this to me, and he said it made him angry.
My friend is a middle-aged man, forty just over, is a businessman, career is doing well, the annual income has reached a million, the business world, he points to a thousand, but he is the most agonizing is that other people behind the back of the pointing his hair.
In order to have a good harvest on the top of the head, I heard that black sesame hair, he used. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world. I've heard that the ginger juice hair growth, he also used. I heard that the child urine hair, he put his son's urine also used.
But by now, the head is still particles. My friend said that this makes him suspect that the methods and ideas that others say are a conspiracy. They just want to experiment on his head.
He said that every time the barber asked him: to shorten the cut? He asked back: can I cut it more?
I laughed at him, this can not be helped, this is because you can not, old age. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
"In bed, are you still okay?"
When I was young, I seldom cared about a person's soul is not interesting, the first thing that comes to mind is whether the skin is good or not.
This is one of the most watched is the Japanese skin. The first time I saw the movie, I fell asleep after watching it. The next day, get up, the spirit of fresh, even play a few games of basketball are not a problem
Now, but often insomnia, with a friend's words is that less than one will not go to bed, rather than passive insomnia, it is better to take the initiative to stay up all night.
Now that I'm older, I think the soul is more important than the skin. The good-looking skin is indeed thousands of thousands, but the Yangtze River waves pushed the former waves, the former waves, like the former first love, crush, are already in the square dance of the big mother. The first time I was in the country, I was in the country of the first time I was in the country of the first time.
At this time, we look at female high school students, female junior high school students, think they are all good-looking, and can not wait to go up and pinch their faces with their hands. But also at this time, slowly feel, adults, again good-looking skin, if there is no soul, it is very boring. It is a torment.
Some people say that when they were young, they felt that love was the whole of life. But now when you watch a romance movie, you will only unconsciously let out a sneer, and also while scolding the screenwriter silly.
When I was young, I was tired of playing during the day, tired of learning, and fell asleep at night. And when you get older, it's not so easy to get a good night's sleep. Do a good dream, many times can not. All the people you meet during the day, the things you encounter, the feelings of the years, the pressure of life, like "ghosts pressing on the bed" like pressure on you. In the daytime, early in the morning, two eyes open, material rice oil and salt, on the old, under the small, you only rely on their own.
Some people also say that the first half of life is passionate, the second half is affectionate, the middle of the insertion of all extramarital affairs! Some people are hidden and immovable, some people picked Ming, some people exposed.
Friends said, regardless of the line, do not go to the wrong bed, sleep with the wrong person.
In the circle of friends, in the party, we will inevitably mutual comfort, each other talk about each other's situation. Most of the time, we will be thinking that we all encountered a little problem in our lives. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new product or service.
We all say, what to do?
Do we have any other choice but to grow old?
So we are no longer afraid of young people flaunting their youthful capital and inferiority complex, because I know that aging is the inevitable arrival of the holiday, will be in some twilight quietly haunt them. Who has never been young? But have you ever been old?
Wang Shuo once said, "I used to think that the days were endless and the future was completely different. Now I'm staying in my own future, and I don't find myself in any real change, my dream is still like when I was a kid, the only difference is that I'm not going to realize it anymore."
When I was young, I always thought that middle age should be the dashing spontaneity of raising one's hand to spring and dropping one's hand to fall. Walked in, only to realize that there are many people in the middle age of life is still rushed and terrified to live.
"Are you still okay?" If there are still young people who ask me this, even if it is a fox-like woman who asks me, I will say that I really can't.
As for the reason that the young people are still in the middle age, they are still in the middle age.
As for the reason, I use the words of Eileen Chang to answer: If you know the former me, perhaps you will forgive the present me.