There is an old saying in the countryside: "If you don't give an umbrella, you won't give a cigarette, and if you lose it, you won't make up for it." Why?

Happy not to open an umbrella, not to hand out cigarettes, not to make up for losses, these are some customs and habits passed down in many places, mainly because in everyone's understanding, these behaviors have bad meanings, and there is no way to verify when they started, but they have formed a folk custom, and no one will destroy them again. Tell me why from these points.

Do you like sending umbrellas?

There are red things and white things in doing things in the countryside. The so-called red thing refers to giving gifts when getting married. Nowadays, people usually give money, but in the past, everyone had the habit of giving things, and they never gave them an umbrella. Marriage means that two young people have come together since then. This is a process of getting together, and then they will face a better life in the future. Here, sending an umbrella represents another meaning, that is, the homonym of scattered characters, which makes people feel good.

Never send cigarettes for life.

It is common sense that smoking is harmful to health. Everyone knows how many substances are harmful to health in tobacco, and now people's health awareness is getting higher and higher. Look at the grandparents who are practicing square dance now, and you will know how much people pay attention to health now. Therefore, in the case of increasing health awareness, it is definitely not the first choice for others to send cigarettes on their birthdays. In line with the principle of health, when giving gifts to elders, don't send tobacco, but send something healthier.

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In such a humanized society, everyone pays attention to the believers in weddings, funerals and weddings, but we must distinguish between red stones and white stones. If others don't catch up with their followers that day, they can make up for it the next day. But if you can't catch up with the white matter, don't follow it again, because it is a kind of sorrow for those who have lost their loved ones, and following it again represents a very bad meaning and is also a kind of harm to those who are sad.