The third day after the end of the Speech Productivity Xiamen Station, that is, Tuesday at 00:11 am, I sent a paragraph in the group group of Speech Productivity Xiamen Station 4 group.
Before dawn, I received a single like. I think I spoke to everyone's heart, and the truth is that everyone understands - choice, more important than effort!
The clock turned back two days ago, a Sunday afternoon in Xiamen, I stood across from the group member Wang Li - it was the third time I communicated with her, she was very entangled, always feeling busy.
She was baffled - as if she really didn't leave much time for her children.
Wang Li thought about it, nodded, and resolutely enrolled her child in Super Future Leaders.
She got it: choice is better than effort, and it's important to be with good people!
I also understand, in fact, the deal does not need to be deliberate, but sincerely consider for each other, to help each other see the blind spot.
On the first night of the Xiamen course, Mr. Long specially arranged for us to go to the Hai Di Lao hot pot in Xiamen's Caitang Square to enjoy the excellent Hai Di Lao service.
At that time, I actually did not wear formal dress, I came over after getting off the plane, and I was grimy. Whether at the door or walking in the aisles, the kind of sincerity and smiles of the waiters were everywhere, which made me feel relieved.
When I greeted my fellow travelers and went to the bathroom, I saw a male waiter standing next to me smiling from the bathroom - his kind of smile has the warmth of spring, he is not tall, flat head, thin, looks very competent. I was curious: why was the waiter standing in front of the bathroom? The first time I saw this, I was so impressed with the way it looked and the way it looked.
When I bent down, ready to wash my hands, I saw in the mirror that he hurriedly took out a piece of blotting paper from his left hand, and then bent down with his hands hanging down as if to hand it to me, but I didn't rush to take the paper in his hands, wanting to see if he was waiting for me or not while he kept a smile on his face. The way he held the paper towel in both hands is still imprinted in my mind - respecting every service recipient and meeting the true needs of the customer, no matter who the person is or how they are dressed.
Later, when I talked to my friends at the table, I realized that Haidilao provides accommodation for these employees, and the accommodation environment is very good, and there are special nannies to serve them, so Haidilao's waitresses are able to serve the customers so willingly, because they also enjoy a very good service.
When they know what it's like to enjoy good service, they know how to do the job when they are working to serve others, and they know how to serve others better.
As Mr. Long said, a trainer is a fire that lights another fire, and uses the love received to inspire more love!
So when we, the assistant trainers, enjoy the quality service, we know how to serve the trainees better. This is the heart and soul of Mr. Long, and it is the core value of Planet Persistence, which is altruism - you enjoy good service, and you serve others better!
Mak has a book called "Life Sea Sea", the title of this book from the southern Minnan dialect, meaning "life is as unpredictable as the sea, the ups and downs of the floating, but always have to live well", Mak explains: since everyone can not escape, can not escape, it is better to go to the love of life.
After the productivity talk, Mr. Long took the teaching assistants to Gulangyu Island, a beautiful place, a clean place, and a place with history.
On the evening of Gulangyu Island, we were all very relaxed, fish sister flung a table of people chatting, eating, drinking, sea chat, and finally, in addition to Wang Xue, Zhiyong, Li Jia and I, all went back.
As we were chatting, suddenly a man, about 5'8", sat down on my right - intuiting that he was drunk - while I was clinking glasses with a few people on my left.
He sat down and said a bunch of stuff that I didn't understand, a mix of English, Minnan and Mandarin. At the time I thought it was coming down from the second floor and didn't take it seriously.
We were just about to continue talking when this drunken brother, seeing us ignoring him, got louder and said something even more unintelligible, interrupting our communication.
Zhiyong waved his hand and told him to go back to rest. The drunk guy tried several times to find words to interject and talk to us.
I was wondering if this one might be here to pick a fight, and there was a vague hint of fear in my heart.
In the end, the owner couldn't stand it and dragged the gentleman away.
And we were just chatting about Zhiyong helping people design clothes when the drunken man barged in again, and looking at the vomit sticking out of the corner of her mouth, I immediately had a wave of nausea drifting through my heart.
We had no choice but to check out and get up. At this time has been 1:15 at night.
I did not expect, he actually stuck to us - we walked in front, he followed in the back, we accelerated the pace, he also three steps and two steps, we ran up to hurry to escape, he also jogged to catch up - if you walk in the absence of streetlights I wondered how a drunken man could walk along the rough trail.
When we were running, we took a wrong turn and ran into a cul-de-sac, and the drunken brother sat down at the mouth of the cul-de-sac.
My heart was beating harder and harder, afraid that this person would rely on us and leave us with no sleep tonight.
Later when we came out of the hutong, he also stood up and followed us, at this time close confrontation let me suddenly feel that he is so poor, a person alone in the outside wandering is how dangerous, the terrain here is uneven, not far away from the sea.
At this point, as if by telepathy, we all stopped to see what the drunken man was trying to do - and he actually wobbled away from us.
I said: where are you, do I need to send you back?
He waved his hand and continued to say something unintelligible under his breath. As if drunk and as if sober. I understood his words "you go"!
At this point, I realized that the original escape is not as good as love, you should do is to care about each other, to think about each other, the focus of attention from their own body to move away, to pay attention to the people around them and the world, the world will be gentle to treat - just like the dragon brother said, your existence is to make the world a better place! a little bit!
During the day and night of the Gulangyu tour, in addition to arranging tours, Brother Long also had us practice our speeches on the streets and in the alleyways, and if I were to do it before, I would have waved my hand - don't let me on, but now I will take the initiative to occupy the stage, and I can be brave enough to express myself even in front of Brother Long.
Avoiding is not the way, facing bravely is the channel to solve the problem, and giving love will make you more brave.
I know that I already have a pair of invisible wings, which take me to fly, bring me hope, but also bring more people hope!