The most offensive thing I've ever heard is, "You need to get along with the group, look at you, you're alone all day and don't talk, how boring it is." What's it to you if I don't fit in?
There are many people who say this to me, and my parents sometimes say it too, and usually when they say it, there's a variation of "Look at you, you're bored every day, and you don't talk to your relatives, you're like a fool." My God? I'm just so sick of hearing that okay. I don't talk because I don't like to talk, and I don't talk much when I meet relatives because I'm not familiar with them and don't really want to talk. I'd much rather be alone than awkwardly chatting with a relative who's there to fool around with.
My father often come up with a "with the fool like" really is to say that I annoyed a lot, this sentence other people say it is nothing, I do not talk how with the fool like? The more you do this, the more I don't talk, just don't talk.
The parents said this sentence is also even if, I do not want to how to take it into account. Then there are some students also like this to talk to me, obviously, since they can say this to me, it shows that I'm not much of a silent one, I can also be eloquent in their own circle of friends, I don't talk to you because we are not familiar. Not because I don't want to talk, silent people have a world of their own, they are also happy in it do what you want to do, no constraints.
I don't want to talk too much with people I don't know well, it will make people think I'm an out-of-touch person. I am a conformist, but I only conform to my favorite group, which is not a specific group, but the two of us have talked, and then we can get the stems thrown by each other, and we don't get bored talking to each other.
When I'm with these people, not only am I not out of touch, but I'm also very active and can talk for a long time. My favorite author, Wang Xiaobo, wrote a book called The Silent Majority, in which he said that human nature cannot be observed from words, but can be from silence. I don't want to say that silence is a great thing to learn, I just want to say that I like silence, I can feel happy thinking in silence, and I can't feel happy from those chats with you guys.
As for those who are not at all very familiar with the people, at all do not know how I am, on the come up to say out of such a sentence, I am simply lazy to take care of, although you say well, I still choose a person smothered do not speak, I am not not fit in the group, I only fit in my own group, such as your kind of group I really do not fit in, that's it ah.
Anyways, I just like to be bored and alone, and I can also find chatty people to talk to, that's my preference.