In daily life, many people are still single because of work and study. So how to answer being urged to marry? What to do if you are being rushed into marriage?
How to answer when being urged to marry
When being urged to marry, people can respond in a clever way, which can avoid the chatter and whining, but also avoid the embarrassment of direct rejection.
Countering and disrupting the other side
Caring about the other side first when asked about marriage, "Auntie, when will the first cousin get married?" "When will the second cousin have a child ah?" "Uncle a few years salary promotion, right, how much has the salary increased?" "How's your square dancing? Have you learned the steps to Little Apple?" The other side either poked at the pain and lost interest in chatting, or immersed in their own personal life and forgot about your existence.
Bitter Meat
When it comes to getting married, you have to do the sad thing, like a sister-in-law, to tell the story of your last relationship, and it's best to add, "I don't believe in love any more." "My heart is still hurting, how can I do it?" "I'm not ready to start a new relationship" and other lines, the elders see you touching the feelings of pity, will stop the topic, and then mention it again in a period of time.
Beauty, the beauty of the world's most famous woman, has no limits (not applicable to boys)
Blinking with watery eyes and looking at the other side of the face, "I hate it, I'm still small?" "Do you dislike me and want to marry me off so soon? I still want to stay with mom and dad for a few more years."
Preparing for the enemy
Responding confidently, he said, "I'm thinking about it, don't worry about it." If you want to avoid being nagged by your parents to get married, it's best to put on a confident look of preparedness to make it look like you've already found a good back door and everything is going well. But in order to prevent your parents from asking you to go through with it, you need to make some other preparations, such as faking a non-existent boyfriend's image and information, and making everything up in a way that doesn't make any sense.
What to do if you're being pushed to get married
Don't go home
Many people, when faced with their parents' push to get married, will choose to go home, and make a perfunctory phone call, so as to save themselves from listening to their parents' nagging. However, this is not the fundamental solution, and parents are also out of good intentions, this approach may have some effect, but hurt is your parents' heart.
Changing the subject
Parents often use the phone or chat to talk to you about getting married and finding a partner. You can easily divert their attention by choosing to change the topic. Seeing that you have changed the topic, they will also be restrained.
Tell them your own thoughts
If you are busy with your career right now, or you are not really looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend right now, or you have other factors, I think you can just tell them your own thoughts, and I believe that they will also understand you.
Make a plan for yourself and give them assurance
You can think about your plan according to your actual situation, and then tell them when you plan to find a man/girlfriend. If your plan is reasonable and they won't force you to do it, then you can easily get rid of their urges.
Try it
If you are also interested in finding a man/girlfriend, you can also take this opportunity to provide your parents with a blind date, and you may also be able to find your own eyes in the blind date? If the blind date is not suitable, then it is also considered to know a friend?
Taking a step back
You can also choose to accept your parent's blind date arrangement and check out the blind date. If you can't find the right person for you, you'll have a reason to tell your parents that dating isn't right for you, and that you can find someone on your own.