What behavior makes mother-in-law unbearable?

Nowadays, with the development of economy, many couples will buy their own houses after marriage, and many couples will choose not to live with their in-laws, which can reduce a lot of trouble. After all, they belong to two generations, and their lifestyles and ways of thinking may be very different. So there may be many contradictions in living together, and some couples will choose to live with their parents. If you live with your mother-in-law, you may encounter many troubles, or some behaviors of your mother-in-law are unacceptable to them. I think there are mainly the following points: first, I don't help with the children, I go in and out of the bedroom at will, and I often nag in my ear. ?

The first is not to help with the children. Nowadays, after young people get married, the pressure of life is actually relatively great because of work. They have to go to work every day and take care of their children when they have children. If the child is very young, like going to kindergarten, you need to pick him up every day. After graduating from primary school, I need help with my homework. These actually occupy a lot of time outside the work of young parents, so now many people ask their parents to help them take care of their children after giving birth after marriage, and they can pick them up at work. If I live with my mother-in-law, I hope my parents can help me with my children. Older people may prefer children to their own children. If the mother-in-law doesn't like to take care of the children, it's actually hard to accept.

You can also enter your bedroom for free. It may be quite unacceptable to go in and out of your bedroom at will. If you live with your mother-in-law after marriage, it may be in the man's house. Then your mother-in-law will definitely do housework at home, such as helping with cooking or cleaning. Actually, your bedroom is a personal space. However, because it is in the man's house, the mother-in-law may also go to her bedroom to clean. If she is at home, she thinks it is not good for her mother-in-law to go in and clean, because it may be a bad behavior, which I think is even more unacceptable than many married women.

There is also constant nagging. Except for girls, it is hard for boys to accept that their parents will nag in their ears about many things. Maybe their original intention is for their own good. After all, many things they experienced in their later years were relatively experienced, or from the perspective of being good to themselves. But after all, I am still an adult after marriage, and I have my own way of thinking and handling things. I don't want my parents to take care of themselves like children. If your mother-in-law is here, she often nags in her ear, such as how the children are, and the hygiene at home is not cleaned up. I think this may be unacceptable to women.