Honesty is realized through his discipline,
In order to clarify this issue, we must first understand what is meant by self-discipline, self-discipline means to discipline oneself, and other than self-discipline, other people to discipline you, to discipline you is commonly known as the other.
The first thing to do is to be honest
The newspaper reported that, in the spring of this year, many employers are recruiting college students and various types of talent whether they have a good faith attitude, teamwork spirit and other good behavior as an important part of the investigation. They believe that talent is not used to decorate the facade, hype corporate image of the "tool", but can bring life and vitality to the enterprise to create real benefits, and the enterprise through thick and thin, honor and disgrace and **** with excellent quality of staff.
According to the human resources department of some enterprises, most of the college students recruited in the first few years is good, but there are also due to the "integrity" is not enough, there is no enterprise rules and regulations in the eyes, often late, absenteeism, the leadership criticized a few sentences, either passive, or turn around and go away. There are also students who are high-minded, lack of hands-on ability, not willing to learn and ask for advice, and some are even unscrupulous, fame and fortune-telling, and so on. These behaviors are extremely unfavorable to the growth and success of college students themselves, even with a high degree of talent and cultural and theoretical knowledge, it is difficult to truly realize personal values.
"Sincerity is the always of things." Zhouyi - Qian" says: "Cultivate rhetoric to establish its sincerity, so living in the industry also." It means that a gentleman can build a career only if he speaks and argues honestly and without deception, sincerely and without delusion. To do something is first to be a person. Honesty has a great role to play in the growth of talents and success of career, and it is also the basic principle for a person to establish himself as a human being. A person wants to achieve a career, if you leave the organization's cultivation and support and collective wisdom and strength, can not be achieved. "What helps a person is faith." Whether a person speaks honestly in group interactions directly reflects his basic attitude toward the group and toward others. To be dishonest is to have no respect for the group and for others, and of course it is impossible to gain the respect, trust and help of others for oneself. Only honesty and trustworthiness can realize mutual communication and understanding, so as to establish a good relationship of mutual trust, mutual respect and interdependence, and create a harmonious environment for personal growth and progress.
The first thing you need to do is to pass the morality barrier and be honest, which is conducive to advocating the formation of a good social climate. People to the good, noble conduct to do their jobs; honest and trustworthy, honest people is the basis of success. An honest and trustworthy person, in the face of their own, self-discipline and self-improvement, open-minded; in the face of others, can be treated with sincerity, unity and cooperation; in the face of the cause, can be diligent and hard-working, the pursuit of perseverance. Only in this way, can be expected to be successful, successful career. Therefore, honesty and trustworthiness, strengthen the character cultivation, which is the first step towards the realization of personal ideals and aspirations of college students to success, the road to success, is also a key step.
Honesty - self-discipline
In the history of Chinese civilization, honesty has always existed as a moral proposition. Confucius has long referred to integrity as a high
degree of "people without faith can not stand". Lovers' oaths of alliance, friends' bonds of friendship, and the country's peacemaking ``````` are all ways in which people express their integrity through promises or oaths.
Entering the civilized society, the role of integrity with the progress of human society to play a greater and greater role. We have experienced the ancient pigeons, through
through the modern postal communications, telephone and telegraph, through the contemporary computer network. This is the result of the role of integrity. As the famous British sociologist
Gudens proposed, modern society is a society of trust. The society of trust makes the transaction activities at the same time and in the same place toward the space-time
separation has developed. Mutual trust has made the infinite globe into a global village and the earth into a global house ```````
Integrity is so important in the development of society that it is the basis of interpersonal interactions. Different people understand behavior differently. No matter how close the human heart is to
the human heart, the screen made of two layers of human skin can never be changed. So is it that people are not to be socialized? How can interactions be
successful? The best way is to explain with the heart and translate the heart of integrity into words and actions. Integrity is the lubricant that reduces friction, the connecting agent that
puts different objects together. The **** of all three agents work together to increase security in human interactions; increase trust, reduce
suspicion, and allow people to freely share their emotions and dreams.
To make oneself with integrity and not to go with the flow in the evil current of the world, the fundamental thing is self-discipline - self-restraint, self-regulation, from me
to start. The reasoning is also very simple: if you are not even honest with yourself, are you qualified to ask others to be honest with themselves? If you say, to others first honesty is
conditions, their own honesty to others is the result, it is as if the spear, attack their own shield - not to attack the self-breaking.
Self-discipline and integrity are closely related. Without self-discipline, integrity becomes hollow; without self-discipline, integrity becomes empty words; without self-discipline,
Integrity becomes defective. As long as everyone is self-disciplined, there will be no fights and brawls in society: as long as market players are self-disciplined, there will be no
counterfeiting in the market; as long as civil servants are self-disciplined, there will be no corruption in the government sector to entangle out `````` Overall, through self-discipline,
integrity is improved, and people's trust is enhanced.
Morality and self-discipline are also inseparable. After the time of the Warring States, people already had the consciousness of maintaining individual self-improvement, i.e., moral self-discipline and character
improvement. Morality and self-discipline were already combined. We often recite "rich and noble can not be obscene, poor and lowly can not be moved, the mighty can not be bent", can be seen in his
their moral self-discipline position is how firm, and sometimes even in order to maintain the loyalty of the self-phase of the aspirations of the retired and the mountains and wild forests. The noble integrity of the ancients,
Today's people are not only moved by it, but also to pursue the spirit of self-discipline.
Moral, manifested through behavior. Its subject is wide-ranging and multi-content. Such as officials, to be diligent and thrifty, public and private, abstaining from obscenity and dryness This
is the requirements of moral behavior, but also the requirements of self-discipline.
Integrity is the requirement of moral behavior, integrity sometimes the corollary of self-discipline. Noble moral sentiments and in self-discipline in the continuous formation and accumulation. Noble
moral sentiments, rigorous self-discipline, deep faith in integrity, every citizen should have, but also the new century college students should have
moral level. Carry forward the spirit of the times, as the master of the times
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Integrity, that is, honesty and trustworthiness, is the root of all morality. Regardless of which era, which country, which society, what class of people, honest people are praised by the community, the son said: "people do not have faith, unknown to them". For thousands of years, the Chinese nation has formed a heavy commitment to keep the moral tradition of trust.
Honesty is the core of a person's moral and external manifestations, is indispensable to everyone based on social "intangible assets"; integrity or a need for others, for the sake of society, the need to conscientiously fulfill their responsibilities and obligations.
At present, the fraudulent behavior in the market, fake and shoddy products, political corruption, "black whistle" events, etc. on the impact of college students is very obvious. As a college student's honesty is more reflected in the results. In the face of fierce competition, the score is the most favorable weapon, evaluation of merits and prizes, bonuses, and a whole lot of practical problems are not linked to the test scores. Examination pressure also comes partly from parents, parents' expectations become their biggest pressure. Some students with good grades also help poor students to cheat, want to establish a "good" relationship with classmates in this way. Indeed, college students plagiarized homework, thesis, download information, a few hours to complete a "masterpiece" which in many students have become accustomed to, cheaters completely forget the integrity of their constraints.
The author believes that the integrity of college students to resolve the crisis in the following areas:
1, to carry out integrity education. In the university, integrity education is mainly carried out in the form of ideological and moral cultivation class, which is very abstract. To strengthen integrity education, students should be cultivated with a sense of responsibility, career, a sense of equal competition, an independent personality and a devout attitude to rules. Our school can integrate moral education in the professional courses according to the characteristics of financial and economic majors.
There is also a need to introduce a new human-centered regulations: on the one hand, the examination disciplinary students to give punishment, on the other hand, but also to provide them with an opportunity to learn in the social classroom into a letter, to get re-take and graduation. We can not put the cheating students are labeled as "bad behavior", for them, students, a thought is not necessarily a problem of character. Students should be allowed to take the initiative to educate themselves, understand the value of integrity, and then take the initiative to practice and spread the idea of integrity, so that students from the depths of their hearts to realize the importance of integrity to the success of the cause, the development of life, so that in the middle of learning, learning to understand, understanding, wake up, wake up in the line. To focus on the whole process of education, new students into the school, they will point out that "faith, sensitivity, integrity, perseverance" is our school motto, "integrity" is an important part of the school motto. Strengthen the assessment of the learning process of the students, the usual grades accounted for more than 40% of the total grade.
2. Establishing a credit judgment system. The prevalence of cheating among college students indicates that the restraint mechanism is not sound. We should summarize and analyze students' behaviors during the school period, establish a scientific index system, and conduct credit evaluation on a regular basis, as the main basis for their merits, credit loans and so on.
3. Establish credit files. This practice of prior restraint on college students who have not yet fully entered society is of positive significance. (Zhang Haihui)
The roots of integrity? The company's business is still so y rooted that it has been forced to take out a student loan against
Seeing the word "honesty", I suddenly felt a lot of emotion.
Today, people's values seem to be changing with the world's huge material flow, wavering. The only remaining trace of conscience in the heart is always impacted by the outside world's reality of enjoyment and materialistic flow. In our surroundings, there are carrying a "body is not afraid of the shadow slant" honestly over a lifetime of people, there are soldiers are not afraid of deception, shrewd and capable of the business elite, there are plain and simple is always true, there are also extremely luxurious, traveled around the world of the king of the enjoyment of ......
A "honest learning honest examination" of the cry can really have The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a very long time before I was able to get to a place where I was able to get to know the people.
While the test is not an all-purpose metric, it is also the main character of the drama sung year after year. From childhood to adulthood, teachers, parents, friends and relatives in the eyes of the importance of the end of the school year exams after the thin report card, is happy, is sad, is sad, is happy, all depends on this piece of paper. The values we form in such an environment also become "report cards, the verdict of joy, anger, sadness and happiness". From elementary school to high school, under the close supervision of teachers, although there are a handful of people who are smart enough to make small moves, but we are also very clear that the selection of thousands of horses across the wooden bridge can not be a little false, so the style of learning is still positive. After the university, there is no teacher's eye Shaw, no parent's custody, more is the free space, we come into contact with more is the social utilitarian and hedonistic atmosphere, many people began to indulge themselves, deserting their studies. At this time, it is for a piece of paper diploma, by any means necessary. Batch after batch of people so degenerate, the potential pitfalls also slowly emerged: the construction of our motherland whether we really need these diplomas under the halo of the "elite"? And can they really bear the burden?
The word integrity is actually y rooted. It grows in the heart of the whole nation, constantly watering, so that the growth of personal qualities and cultivation of sublimation. Therefore, integrity should start from a young age, rather than a temporary hold like in the problem when the time comes to grasp a pass, and at the same time, also need each of us gradually find the lost self! (Wang Changhong)
Honesty? The main theme of the campus culture
Since ancient times, the Chinese people have been "integrity" word as the basic principle of being a person in the world. People who speak honestly are trusted, and those who do not speak honestly are disdained.
Jiang Cai school motto "faith, sensitivity, honesty, perseverance" puts the letter in the first place, which shows that Jiang Cai on the "letter" of the importance of "letter" is the main theme of the campus culture of Jiang Cai. Jiang Cai students solid foundation, good quality is witnessed. Over the past decades, Jiang Cai has cultivated millions of honest and high-quality graduates for the modernization of the motherland. Graduates are widely distributed in the land of Kyushu, and have made great contributions to the national economic construction, and all walks of life in the society have a high evaluation of the students of Jiang Cai. Look at the bright star active in all fronts, the business sector has Wang Wenjing, Zheng Yuewen and other trendsetters of the times, the academic community has Hu Yancheng, Wu Xiaoqiu and other academic masters, they are the outstanding representatives of Jiang Cai, Jiang Cai, "honesty as a person", "faith, sensitive, honesty and perseverance" school motto under the cultivation of the growth of the. I remember in last year's 80th anniversary, when the symposium was asked Kerry president Zheng Yuewen what prompted him to achieve today's achievements, Zheng Yuewen did not hesitate to say that it was his alma mater that taught him to be honest and sincere, and it was his alma mater's campus atmosphere of honesty and sincerity that inculcated him.
Jiang Cai is known for its strong learning atmosphere and strict examination style in Jiangxi universities. Every morning, in every corner of the campus, you can see the students reading in the morning, they or read English, Japanese or recite poetry, the sound of reading; every dusk, in the company of the setting sun, students in the lakeshore, in the morning reading square, or standing or sitting, holding their beloved books, read so seriously, so cozy. It is because of the Jiang Cai students study hard, honest learning, have the annual English four or six pass rate are listed among the top universities in Jiangxi Province, the Ministry of Education teaching quality assessment of a series of brilliant results. Honest learning honest examination is the basis for us to be a man in the world, a even learning, exams are not honest people, we can still hope that their future can shoulder the important task of building the motherland, benefit the people? We should see, Jiang Cai the vast majority of students still study hard, but there is a very small part of the students skipped class has become a routine, they play games every day, all-night Internet access, sleep during the day, completely reversed the black and white. Trying to pass the exam by memorizing before the exam, they ended up failing the exam. We advise those students who often skip classes to come back to class! For the sake of the mother's temples newly white hair, for the father's tired and bent waist, do not do parents sorry, sorry for their own stupid things.
With the final exams approaching, I sincerely wish that every student of Jiang Cai resolutely put an end to cheating behavior, can get good grades.
Don't cheat yourself
Self-soothing can make a person forget the small pain in front of him, but the person who is self-soothing from time to time will only have bigger pain waiting for him
--Title note
In a way, self-soothing is actually self-deception. When life gradually deviates from what we are trying to do, when reality appears in a way that is unacceptable to all of us, when our behavior is being dictated by some kind of wrong thinking and we are unaware of it, we seem to have reasons to make ourselves believe that everything is not our own fault, which may make the mood a little bit better, but the days will only get worse and worse-especially when self-deception has become a habit! .
Once the habit is established, the person may still think he can easily overcome it, but in fact he can't. When self-deception becomes a necessity, it binds him to everything like an iron cable, and can only be corrected by painfully, carefully, and meticulously engaging in correct behavior over and over again. Ultimately, the self-deceived will pay a heavy price. Sadly, he is still complacent about his "cleverness" when a series of bad consequences follow.
One thing is sad: there is no shortage of desperate, obsessive students on college campuses. These students learning purpose is not clear, learning attitude is not serious, to treat the test, their creed is popular on campus "points are not high, pass on the line, the problem is not afraid of deep, cheating is spirit. As a result, a variety of after careful consideration of the pendulum with the "business" means are commonplace. Do not know, cheating is also a kind of cheating behavior, cheating family, cheating friends, cheating teachers, cheating classmates, and more terrible, cheating themselves. Maybe cheating can improve your score, but you may lose your reputation. Which is more important? We should not forget the rule that sooner or later, our true nature will be exposed to the world in all its clarity, no matter how well we hide it. The only way to save ourselves is to hang on for dear life. Perhaps that way we can still get a chance to correct our mistakes and make amends. Otherwise, the cheater is not only morally condemned, but also behaviorally disciplined. Because he cheated himself at the same time has left himself as well as his family, friends, teachers and classmates with regrets, pain and sorrow!
Remember Emerson said, "In the great net of life it is impossible to hide what is false, and every rotten, loose cord threatens to reveal it to prove us false." We cannot hide our faults all the time, we all cannot always think "it doesn't matter", and we cannot remain indifferent. Every passerby who passes through our mind leaves a mark on our character. Our scars and traces reveal our falsehoods, and the fingers of time can't erase these wounds, which are visible to everyone who comes in contact with us." It is not unreasonable to say that the more we cover up, the more we expose our mistakes, so please think twice before taking the test!
It takes a certain amount of courage to be honest with yourself, and most people lack it. Each of us should seriously consider how important good qualities are for success, and honesty is one of the most valuable of these qualities. Never deceive yourself. Value yourself, be honest, and life will favor you! (Liu Jing)
No letter can't establish itself
Self-soothing can make a person Chinese people since ancient times: words must be done, actions must be fruitful; people have no letter can't establish; children and old men, and so on the ancestral teachings. The commandment of faith is both a self-restraint and a social evaluation. For individuals, they should have the character of honesty and integrity, and should talk about trust in their daily life. Nowadays, however, many people no longer have any place for ancestral teachings in their minds, and they are unwilling to recall them, or they have simply forgotten them long ago. It is even a more prominent problem for school students. It can be manifested in all three stages of education, from examination cheating in the entrance of education (enrollment), to the fake diploma in the middle of education, to the casual destruction of contract in employment, there is the problem of lack of integrity of college students. College students as the backbone of the country's future in various fields, if the quality of college students in terms of integrity is improved, the moral construction of society as a whole will certainly play a positive role for the party and the government to make decisions on related issues to provide a theoretical basis.
Again, the integrity of our universities, according to some engineering colleges and universities survey, college students believe that "integrity should be one of the minimum qualities of a person", accounting for 59.5%. About half of the students consciously accept integrity education. However, 37% of the students believe that "integrity is a personal problem, there is no need to pay attention to", 15.6% of the students believe that "money has everything"; that "no matter what means, can earn money is good", accounting for 12.8%. Believe that the "timely enjoyment", "man for himself, heaven and earth" have increased. The survey found that college students generally have noble pursuits and aspire to the ideal moral realm. But in practice, but thesis plagiarism, waste of food and other unethical behavior is familiar with the blind eye, exam cheating wind is more and more intense! The reason: First, education only "know", regardless of "behavior"; Second, only knowledge education in education, but no emotional education. There is no emotional education, the cultivation of good feelings, no good feelings, then how to integrity? Lack of integrity mainly leads to the deviation of three issues: 1, moral knowledge and value of the deviation; 2, moral knowledge and belief of the deviation; 3, moral knowledge and behavior of the deviation, in summary, is actually a belief problem. In the face of this belief, students of Jiang Cai should effectively do:
1, always recognize integrity as a moral need. For the understanding of human needs, we are more in touch with Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, he divided human needs into five levels, namely, physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs and the need for self-actualization. It is not difficult to see, Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory is the human needs, purely as a kind of social demand, is in the society for their own survival and development, and ignored the people have for the sake of others, for the sake of the community, for others and the community to pay for their own needs as a higher level of need, usually we call this need for moral needs. Honesty is a moral need, it is built on a high degree of self-awareness, complete self-discipline, relying on inner beliefs to meet a need, but also for the sake of others, for the sake of the community, to seriously fulfill the contract and responsibility to reflect the need, which is our college students are worth advocating a need.
2, always take integrity as a moral quality to cultivate. Moral character of a person's growth and success, shaping the perfect personality and even achieve a career are very important role. For college students, "honesty and trustworthiness" is the first essential quality. Adhere to honesty and trustworthiness, that is, words and deeds are consistent with thoughts, not pretense, not false, to do things truthfully and trustworthy. Honesty and trustworthiness have a close connection, honesty is the ideological basis for trustworthiness, the letter of officialdom is the external manifestation of honesty. Only inner honesty, can think of others, do things can be credible, have credibility.
3, always experience honesty as a moral practice. The development of moral character and life practice is closely linked. Integrity morality is formed in moral practice. We have to take the initiative in the family, school, community and nature to find the role of self integrity, through personal practical experience, to receive integrity moral education, so that they can be more complete feel integrity moral formation process, recognize integrity morality on the success, the important role of social development, consciously and actively participate in integrity moral practice activities, in the participation and experience to learn to be honest people, do honest things.
4, always pursue integrity as a moral goal, college students enter institutions of higher learning not only to learn knowledge, cultivate ability, but also to know how to behave, improve their own quality. For the goal of moral education, Comrade Deng Xiaoping clearly pointed out that young students should be "ideal, moral, cultural and disciplined". Once the goal of being moral is established, it will trigger, guide and motivate how to be a human being. Being moral is also a belief in being a human being, and integrity is a manifestation of this belief. This is because the power of moral conviction lies in the fact that it originates from reality and is above reality. It can arouse people to pay for others and society's noble feelings, inspire people to pursue this belief. When we have the moral conviction of honesty, we will not complain about the bumpy learning life, lamenting the difficulties of personal economic conditions, but seriously fulfill the loan contract, in the material life of thrift for pleasure, in the spiritual life of noble honor, in the learning life of enterprising for noble.
Honesty is one of the traditional Chinese virtues, but also the principle of Chinese people to settle down, but also the most basic self-discipline requirements of life. Integrity is not only a treasure of Chinese cultural tradition, but also a virtue that has been recognized for generations. Integrity is money again, but more precious than money.
Honesty, should not be a scarce resource today.
What do we need police for if all people are self-disciplined? What do we need prisons for? What do we need contracts for? What would be the need for laws?
People hope that everyone can be self-disciplined wish is good and simple, but today's society if there is no legal constraints, everyone is likely to commit a crime. What is crime? Crime is not self-discipline, so there is no self-discipline without other law. On the basis of the other law was born of self-discipline, mankind since ancient times is the first legislation and then rules, that is to say, the first other law and then have self-discipline.
Nowadays, when human beings make a long-term transaction, they have to sign a contract to bind each other, if everyone is self-disciplined, what is the point of having a contract?
The problem is that everyone is self-disciplined, but everyone is also undisciplined, and when they are self-disciplined, society can be harmonized, but when they are undisciplined, what do they do? The answer is self-discipline.
The only way to improve the integrity is to be disciplined, and everyone must be disciplined (by law) in order to **** build a good and harmonious society.
How about some ideas?