Night to explore how to get a relationship, really think that my concept of love is very deformed, people say that two people together must be you are good to him and he is also good to you, each other to balance, but I always feel that I am good to you must have a prerequisite, it must make me feel very solid I will be good to you, which is why I will be single, right? It can also be put in another way, that is, I am not suitable for simple feelings, suitable for material and love together. It's not that I'm too young to get into a relationship, but... Simple love at this stage is not for people like me. Want to cry...
The material and love to say
One, in fact, love is very simple, is the two individuals together, the material and love in fact there is no contradiction, as long as they work together. The future is very tired, but fortunate to have you with me.
Secondly, I just finished watching it with my boyfriend this evening, before I went home. The plot is good, there are laughs, there are tears. After watching, I thought a lot, when the material and love conflict, two people stand in the middle of the helpless feeling! But luckily, love is the most important thing! Love Mr. Guo Jingfei Guo's performance, and Hotba is outstanding too!
Third, twenty is a boy's poorest age is also a girl's best-looking age material and love always can not **** survival this is probably why the regret is always tied together with regret.
Fourth, the brain is a good thing. Not to be confused by anyone and things, not to be material and love to the head. Have a pair of eyes that can distinguish between right and wrong, all women who love men as a prerequisite are stupid, you don't even love yourself, what makes a man love you
Fifth, hearing about love, ten have nine sad. Substance and love itself is not able to separate, the two is the role of force and reaction force relationship, no material love is a plate of scattered sand, but the light material, no love, like the food is missing spices, but also lost its own halo.
Six, so many little girls in the pursuit of material and love, but never thought of when everything is satisfied with what I should do this thing.
Seven, a story full of ups and downs but also seems to be plain, because of this glimpse of the shadow of many people's lives, about the pursuit, about the material and love, about affection, about choice.
Eight, material and love is not absolutely opposite. Some people first love, together with the struggle and then money, is also possible. But more rushed to the money to go, and finally have the possibility of love and happiness is lower. Abusive love novels read too much, many girls probably even domestic violence think it is true love, right, the same way, paragraph read too much, think as long as the money is a happy mess is it, huh. The possibility of earning their own, dependent on others, is unlikely.
Nine, in this material and love can be both the times, they can choose the road thousands, if you hold yourself to the mentality of getting by, and do not go to the pursuit of wanting to live, then the final result, and who can blame? If you have a problem, first think about whether you have a problem, and if not, think about where the problem lies. Self-soothing, feel good, and finally will suffer themselves. Life, can not lack the goal of struggle. The old steed in the stable, ambition in a thousand miles, not to mention that now we are in the best time of life it.
Ten, material and love who said can not be both, said women material nature are not trying to men, thank you for not marrying the grace ah!
XI, the so-called bitch, that is, rooted in the subconscious poverty and scarcity, subjective can not change the person, this person wants to follow the seduction of him, first of all, women and money can not, the woman tempted him to be sure he is not responsible for the material and love he will certainly end up bitchy to the choice of material to give up love, if you give him the money, the gulch is hard to fill ah! He will intensify, will be shaking his tail and begging for mercy, cheap to like fireflies like no personality, rich when the time to light up no money when the time to black.
XII, men, really want to go forward to do, because I do not have your words, in the material and spiritual realm will not be discounted so only your success and love can always keep me.
Thirteen, the brain is a good thing, not to be confused by anyone and things, not by the material and love to the head.
XIV, so the dream and love are the same, is the need to have a certain material and spiritual conditions are qualified to talk about the luxury.
xv, university even if no salary no income is no problem, to the so-called love, after graduating from university, monthly income of 3k can not support themselves, how to fall in love, sorry, material is the basis, I do not believe in what Plato, I only believe that love will one day be worn out by the wood, rice, oil and salt, and finally material and love are gone, youth is gone, consumed so long, get a memory? A memory? When you can't live, the memory of the top of the p with
sixteen, pure love, even to the old to talk about it will be unconsciously some shy, in this material society is difficult to meet this love, because everyone is very busy, busy to have no time to pay the true heart. So sometimes will be very envious of fools, because these fools are very easy to meet, for material and love want very simple, on the contrary, they are very happy!
seventeen, each age needs something different. For example, 17 years old, I want you to accompany me. For example, 19 years old, I want you to give me freedom. For example, 20 years old, I want the person I love for the rest of my life. For example, at 21, I want material and love fulfillment. For example, at 22, I consider the reality that life needs to be enriched by money. For example, at 23, I suddenly realize that being with the person I love is more important than material needs. For example, at the age of 24, self are able to satisfy themselves, so the pursuit of a partner of higher quality.25 years old.26 years old ...........
18, most people in front of love and material, choose the material, lost love, fortunate or not happy it is hard to say, material and love have their own good. If again I will not choose love. Tried the pain of love, never want to try again. Because he I lost a lot of things I do not want to lose, and then try to save can not come back.
nineteen, mutual understanding is difficult, nothing is taken for granted, nothing is what you should bear, when you do not make sense in the eyes of others, perhaps not be understood and recognized and considered your stubbornness, this matter can not be discussed at the beginning of the perhaps should not be done. Substance and love in your youth may feel that love is your all, when you step by step towards maturity, material is essential, two people together if not change excellent, not forcing you, but from the beginning on a good goal, 2 years later is really things are not the same, not to be understood, then do your own! Men and women friends, there is nothing that others should give you to do, are not the obligation of others, no matter what kind of relationship, want to do their own do not take some things as the obligation of others to see!
Twenty, the man said to the woman as long as the promise and what he will meet, the woman chose the material, the man said too realistic, the woman chose love, the man said that can not be given, the woman huh away! In addition to material and love there are other things? Is it that men do not spend a little effort to get the woman, and the woman does not need anything for you to sleep with a sleep, so it will be a good woman? I laughed!
No material love is just a plate of sand
1, go farther I will go to catch up:
2, when you show the more humble, some of the good things will be farther away from you.
3, do what you have not done is called growth, do what you are not willing to do is called change, do what you dare not do is called breakthrough.
4, feelings of the world, it is difficult to exist in the good get together and goodbye, there is always a pull legs first, another in situ daze.
5, as long as the time, place, character combination is correct, no matter how long the dust, that person and that scene will be picked up again in oblivion.
6, the will to save high (Three Kingdoms Zhuge Liang)
7, even though he has a thousand advantages, but he does not love you, this is a shortcoming that you can never convince yourself to accept
8, about you, some jokes are true. Some are really just jokes.
9, every inch of his heart belongs to another person
10, [ those beautiful things are barren and mottled ]
11, every day to take the whining out of the sun, the mood will not lack of calcium.
12, you do not understand that kind of want you read you obsessed with you love you heartache to the feeling of suffocation
13, once the suspicion from the front door into the love will be from the back door slipped away.
14, you said that the sky is only a luxury, not as good as ever have.
15, there is no material love is just a plate of sand
16, China can not be solved for thousands of years of patriarchal problems even let the real estate to solve
17, there are no strangers in the world, only have not yet recognized friends.
18, I also pain in the powerless struggle to cry hysterically and then get back up and give you a smile.
19, why delete an app icon when all the app icons around are shaking? Because they are afraid that you will also delete it
20, finally know why to eat Oreos first lick a lick because that way no one robbed.
21, listen to the fate of the arrangement of the mortal; master of the destiny of the self is strong; no subjective is blind, think twice is a wise man.
22, I would like to go up to your heart to see what's in there/suanming/
23, the person who can make you cry is always the one who can make you laugh
24, not in the best of times with you in, but you in, I have the best of times.
25, = = time to tell me the age of unreasonableness over the understanding @
26, a sentence, I am difficult. Who can be exchanged for a sentence of where are you? I'll be right there.
27, as long as you receive a sentence in, I will be excited to the original full blood resurrection rotating three hundred and eighty degrees cheering and waving fists to encourage! And then calmly pretending to say a sentence: Well.
28, leaning on the mountain will fall, leaning on the water will flow, rely on their own never fall.
29, you have to believe that there is no tomorrow
30, if I did not meet you that day, now how would want to cherish.
31, do not be afraid to reject others, if their own reasons for legitimate.
32. Why are you blocking your face with your butt?
33, there is a lot of trouble with doing, and more trouble without doing.
34, there is always an unusual story behind the successful people
35, hooligans are not scary, for fear that hooligans are cultured
36, there is a very scary thing called habit, and after a long time, it becomes even more habitual!
37, life is like a multiple choice questions, often plagued by a multitude of options, rather than the topic itself.
38, you are I struggled to give up regretted but now still very much in love with the love of people.
39, when you feel shame, you have the initial virtue.
1, if the lonely people are willing to turn back, anxious people are willing to wait, introverted people are willing to open up, perhaps this is the most real appearance of love.
2. The people who love you the most tend to leave most decisively. Love and dignity of the tightly bound, with stalking to retain, more is a kind of good will. The real deep love, will let a person to be strong to prefer to grieve alone, but also do not want to destroy once those noble memories.
3, someone said, very love very love a person's feeling, need a long, long time to know. We are together, I can give up the whole world, just to give you all my world. Love a person, in fact, is very simple. He makes you cry and disappoints you, and in spite of that, he stands there and you walk over to hold his hand, involuntarily. All this, just because, you love him.
4, later we did not contact again to go where there will still be thinking about. And I also began to learn to forget, erase all the intersection of our past abandonment. Thank you for your smile, once panicked my years.
5, the willingness to pour heart, already let me send off again, gorgeous rhetoric can not provoke your memory of me again, used to be born, with their own today, I do not know if you can still see.
6, love you, you casually a sentence, he really did; do not love you, you a sentence of the end, he never came back.
7, the other side if you love you, he will let you realistically perceived. We have passed the age of hearing love, measure a relationship can no longer just say or listen to it.
8, born to be ordinary life, but not willing to contract the disease.
9, you have to believe that he will come, across the mountains and the sea, through the crowd, dusty came to you, full of joy and excitement, with a few points of self-condemnation to you, said, baby sorry, let you wait....
10, forget not to force, because you still have to remember the reason for it.
11, indifference is not intentional, just a tool to avoid being hurt.
12, people will always be children, who will not grow up. Someone retains the heart of a child, someone retains the brain of a child. In the end, either the old naive, or old and confused.
13, no one wants to see you so read the past refused to move forward, full of complaints will not laugh look, that is not lovely.
14, you are not worried that no one loves you, you are worried that no one will love you in the way you want. In the end, you will realize that your worry is right, no one can love you in the way you want, except yourself.
15, all the long time in this world, all because of the heart.
16, the real love, know that there is no result, but also want to stick to the impulse, rather than a moment of good sense, I know, meet you is not easy.
17, it may be that now the feelings are too expensive, so that the person who pays sincere good tired.
18, you can love a person to the dust, but no one loves you in the dust. Even if you pull out your heart and lungs to his good to the extreme, and ultimately just touched themselves.
19, feelings of the world is the most unreasonable, there is no fair and unfair, no worthy and unworthy, only willing and unwilling, love and not love.
20, the mood is so easy to change things, so I often say that a thousand gold is hard to get the heart of a child, we are usually very difficult to maintain the initial mood of things, can only be unconsciously by the emotional sway, either impulsive, or procrastination, and always miss the most appropriate time to meet.
21, if there has been a person very serious and hard to you, you do not care about, wait until the loss, only to find that this is a lifetime of regret.
22, everyone has their own difficulties, others can not see through, and can not empathize.
23, only consider the money of marriage is ridiculous, do not consider the money of marriage is stupid. The so-called real love of adults. Not only is love itself, but also contains the material basis to support love. Jane Austen "Pride and Prejudice"
24, not to lose every enthusiasm, not to please any indifference. Once you've saved up enough disappointment, leave. From now on, never see again, so is friendship, so is love.
25, there is a kind of edge called miss, there is a kind of love called reluctance. A song evokes a memory, a cup of tea stained a mood. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world. The broken thoughts in the search for, deep and shallow in the confused away. Aimlessly go sweet to sadness, carved to precipitate to wander, is the lonely lines of poetry, is the fragrance of the past, is rubbed thoughts. When love has become the past, how strong to be able to forget. A kind of forgetting is not impossible, and their hearts are not willing; a kind of meeting is not not beautiful, and the ending is not to give up the love. It is said that mutual help, not as good as forgetting each other in the river and lake, but who can do so free? How can you deliberately forget the bone carved in your mind? How can the memories of the disorientation easily erased? If you meet, do not leave each other; if you cherish each other, do not abandon each other; if you love each other, to death. The first thing you need to do is to give it to me in good faith, and I'm not going to give it to you in good faith, but I am going to give it to you in good faith.
26, there are three kinds of marriage, one is called torture, one is called partnership, one is called the rest of life!
27, a person who has survived all the suffering, and do not look forward to who must be together; I have sincerely tried, but the end I do not want to say.
28, if one day, I have to leave this world, I hope to die in your arms, lonely so life, I do not want to even leave are so tragic.
29, the whole world can see that I smile too far-fetched, only you can not see.
30, we have too much too late and almost.
31, the more you know, the more like the world's orphans, the farther you go, the more you understand that the world is an orphanage.
32, lies to the ears, but let the eyes moved love.
33, most of the people who change the signature, just want to write a sentence to meet their own mood, to someone to see.
34, a hundred years a thousand years after the past how many years in a hurry, how many promises we have made in the long years, after many years, whether we will still have no regrets to accompany each other, just for your smile mistake my life in a hurry.
35, love is always too short, forget too long; happy too shallow, and pain is too deep, since the day you left me, forget is all my life.
36, tears always fall before the wind is dry. As expected, a girl like me is not even allowed to shed tears.
37, go off the pain; even if you count all the organs, but when you look back fiercely but found that, in fact, leaving you may be your most trustworthy people, you are extremely
38, do not love you too mean life really good for you there are not a few people, how many people in all will be lost only to wake up to the realization that everyone has a temper, for you to bear all the anger, simply because The person more than you heartache you. The world's thousands of species, floating clouds do not go to seek, the people if the rainbow, meet square know there.
39, you have said that the guilt of me may have faded once and now, I miss you so much.
40, this life is the most sorry is also their own heart, you let it hurt once and again. Sometimes, the most difficult to put down is some people and things you never really have.
41, love is like bubble gum, just put into the mouth when sweet, chewing time long enough to have no flavor.
42, when you contact more and more people, the higher the level, you will find: the more high-end
43, able to speak out of aggression, will not be considered aggression; able to snatch the love of the love of the love of the love of the love of the love of the love of the love of the love of life.
44, no beautiful appearance, no one will care about your beautiful heart, this is the reality.
45, walked through the spring season, heard the sound of confederate flower fall, how many encounters there scattered, how much love there withered, and we met at the end of the spring confederate flower fall.
46, no matter how difficult, are strong head up, tell everyone, you are not as unbearable as they think.
47, your happiness I building, your stubbornness I give in, your confusion I make up.
48, the so-called white head to old age, no secret, just in love, save a little touched, in the cold war, know some gratitude.
49, feelings are so subtle, when it comes to the time not to refuse; when it is to leave, you exhaust the scheme, but also can not be retained.
50, you can either find a man who can let you live a good life, or find a man you are willing to suffer for him, in addition to the other, so that they have a lot of far flash a lot of far, and you do not owe him, you are not no one wants, do not man a pose a weak kind, you on the maternal overflow, remember, I would rather look for a father, but also do not go to be a mother, which is the most basic standard of choice of spouse.
51, a good man's romance, is to send you to and from work rain or shine, is quiet and never explain to your wallet money, is when you are sick with pills and water eyeing you to swallow, is to eat without having to ask, but you can order a table full of things you love to eat, is to sleep at night quietly to help you cover up the quilt. No need to sweet talk or gamble. A good man does not have to ask, can be romantic full house.
52, a lifetime to meet a lot of people, some people meet is not the time, is destined to miss. Instead of fish death, it is better to calmly destroy love, so that they are awake and give each other a way out.
53, every kiss, always come to strangers, every eye, tears, every believe, have become forever, every familiar, has become futile
54, two people together for a long time, like the left hand holding the right hand, even if no longer have the feeling of the heart, but also choose to keep each other until old age. It is habitual, but also a kind of dependence on the feelings of sneaking.
55, waiting for you, in every place where the wind passes by; think of you, in every piece of flowers in the day.
56, before everything gets better, we always have to go through some unhappy days, these days may be very long, maybe just a wake up. Sometimes it takes more courage to choose to be happy.
57, I want to be a happy little woman. Simple, plain, work, sunshine, sleep. I want to marry that person, do not need to be a big official, do not need to make a lot of money. As long as you, love me and work hard. Every day I do healthy meals for you, waiting for you to come back from work to eat together, and then, we go for a walk hand in hand.
58, perhaps the beauty of life is to meet, I do not know how many people I will meet in this life, I do not know how many heartfelt encounters, perhaps there are a lot of people in the world can be stunning your time, but can be willing to stay by your side until you slowly tender your years, with you crying, with you laughing, with you waiting, with you blossom, life may only be so one.
59, you are busy, forget that I need people to accompany. You are busy, forgetting that I will be lonely. You are busy, forget that I am waiting for your phone. You are busy, forget your commitment to me. I want to tell you that love is not waiting for you to be free to cherish.
60, love a person the best way, is to run their own, give each other a quality lover. Not desperately good to a person, that person will desperately love you. Mundane feelings inevitably have a realistic side: you have value, you pay to be valued by someone.
61, sometimes you do not think of a sentence, will affect my mood of the day, you may be a casual remark, but I am seriously sad.
62, lifting up and putting down is called lifting weights, and lifting up and putting down is called carrying weights. Unfortunately, most people's love, are loaded.
63, you give me a drop of tears, I saw all the ocean in your heart.
64, nothing to think about how to get rich, don't always in the world of feelings of sadness, pinch the money in the palm of your hand is always more solid than that can not catch the heart.
65, the world's farthest distance, not, I stand in front of you, you do not know I love you, but, love to obsession, but can not say I love you.
Proverbs on material differentiation
1, What tree blossoms, what vine bears what melon
2, Shallow sea waves are high (Japan)
3, The whole bottle does not move, half a bottle shakes
4, There are no two leaves in the world that are the same (Africa)
5, Fools never talk to themselves: the first thought takes away him (Halifax)
6, the dragon has nine sons, each good
7, the firewood can not withstand a hundred axes, people can not withstand a hundred words.
8, two people together in less than half an hour will show the difference, one will clearly outweigh the other (Sai Johnson)
9, a mother born of nine and so on
10, a forest of bamboo has a depth
11, a monk this scripture, a general a decree
12, can save a belly meal, can not save a word
16, people on a hundred, colorful, people on a thousand, all sorts of
17, the heart is different as its face
18, ten pots and pans nine different
19, half a bottle of vinegar wobbling
20, floating on the water oil flower, there is oil is also limited
21, ants climbed on the horns of the ox, proud to think that the mountain peaks (the Mongolian). Mongolian)
22, the same rice to raise a hundred kinds of people
23, the tree has a large withered branches
24, chicken cold on the tree, duck cold downstream
25, empty pockets stand up (Uyghur)
26, said proficiently, do it sparsely
27, geese return to the lakeshore, chickens fall in the hayloft
28, the dog's stomach can not contain ghee
28, dogs The stomach of a dog can not hold ghee
29, there are no two hairs in the world is the same, there are no two grains are the same, there are no two views are the same, the world's greatest feature is diversity (Montaigne)
30, frivolous people, people ignore; hasty people, we must look forward to the quick results
31, a tree of fruit has a sweet and sour
32, the hand holding two glasses of wine. The wine of Wenwu drink Wenwu drink Wuwu, the chest of ten thousand volumes of holy books Sydney Sheng also Xixian also
33, five fingers five brothers, tall, short, fat and thin different (Persia)
34, stepping on the nose to the face
35, the work is only up to move their mouths, like a leather rope set of running water (Tibetan)
36, we see the spiritual differences between people, is because of the The different environments in which they live, due to the different education they receive (Elvey)
37, the house that warms up fast gets cold early (North Korea)
38, people on the journey, it is inevitable that they will encounter thorns and bumps, but after the storm, there will be a beautiful rainbow.
39, people on a hundred, colorful
40, people have ten different, flowers have ten kinds of red
41, reason than the heart for high, thought than feelings reliable.
42, how many people, how many ideas (Theunus)
43, peas jumped high, but also can not penetrate the iron pot (Uyghur)
44, said higher than the mountains, do more than the eggs are small (Mongolian)
45, messy silk is difficult to reason, the shrew is difficult to cure.
46, a pot of water does not ring, half a pot of water jingling
47, drums empty sound high, people crazy talk big
48, Cao Cao Zhu Geliang, temperament is not the same
49, life is real, life is sincere, the grave is not his end point.
50, ten people, ten groups
51, can not afford a good word, can not see a little good face
52, fierce fast, but also calm fast, and even decadent fast (Lu Xun)
53, difficult to walk the road, difficult to walk the road, the road, and the road, where is it now? The long wind and waves will be sometimes, hanging directly on the cloud sails to help the sea.
54, one person's delicacy, may be another person's poison (Italy)
55, what donkey pulls what mill, what people make what guy
56, the heart is different, each is like the face
57, the more the wine is aged, the better, the more the water is new, the better (Blake)
58, the bubble bubbles, it must be the shallows
59, if love allows each other to be in love with each other, it will be the best. If love doesn't allow for differences, then why are there differences everywhere in the world? (Rabindranath Tagore)
60, the lotus flower out of the water has a high and low
61, words to be cautious, action is not frivolous
62, salt more salty, words more annoying.
63, ten fingers do not have a like Qi
64, the girl is good, bad wife from where? (Japan)
65, the ditch on the mountain and shallow and short, overflowing and drying up in the blink of an eye (Naxi)
66, open to say that the light life, in the great festival decided to avoid; people say that they know, that is, the deep friendship in the end the usual (Li Jichuan)
67, from the same flower, the bee sucks the honey snake drug (Armenia)
68, the same humane look at two things
69, what a nice meadow with skinny horses
70, not down-to-earth people are like duckweed on the water
71, people have their own unique insights into everything (Masingjie)
72, blessed with the same, and difficult with the same.
73, the toad and the cow than the size, and finally burst his belly (Uyghur)
74, the mouth to a thousand miles, the body is still at home
75, all the differences in nature, in exchange for the whole of nature's calm (Pope)
76, the benevolent, the wise
77, fireflies only shine on their own buttocks
78, the horn is copper, the pot is iron
79, men are afraid to enter the wrong line, women are afraid to marry the wrong man.
80, across the col, a different road; across the river, a different accent
81, smile, a little less; annoyed, an old old.
82, child ass drunkard mouth
83, there are a thousand people, there will be a thousand views (Horace)
84, a thousand agates, ten thousand kinds of jade
85, how many heads, how many opinions (France)
86, not every dark cloud rains (Arabia)
87, wood washed away by the water , barrels will be filled with water (Kazakh)
88, the running water of the creek rattles loudly
89, there is a greater difference between the same sex than between the opposite sex ---- (Evie Templeton Burnett)
90, a hundred steps after a meal, live to be ninety-nine.
91, the thought of pride, style drift
92, the more the cat's tail is touched, the more warped
93, luck did not come to a person, which is nothing to be ashamed of; only automatically give up the efforts of the people, the most pathetic.
94, shallow people are prone to ecstasy for a small victory, but it is also easiest to momentary discouragement (Tibetan)
95, talk croak, do blind blind
96, a door a day
97, a dragon nine kinds, all kinds of different
98, turn over his hand for the clouds and rain, and have a number of lightness of mind (Tang Du Fu)<
99, a day dance a few dance, long life ninety-five. ☆ breakfast eat full, lunch eat good, dinner eat less, do not need to see the doctor.
100, the wide range of friends is not as good as the choice of friends, the teacher is not as good as visiting friends.
101, a good ridge, there are thin cows
102, a thousand people a thousand faces, a hundred people people
103, the three branches of the tree and the high and low
104, the finger is the same day and at the same time, but they are all different (Uighur)
105, not a rain across the road, hundreds of miles of different winds
106, recognize the reason is not to recognize, help is not to help the family. The first thing I want to do is to help the people who are in charge of my family. The water is too big for the boat, and the hand is too big to cover the sky.
107, shallow people eat no matter what words are fussed (Heraclitus)
108, good things after all, hard to grind into a good thing, Dengke have signs that this is the omen of great Dengke.
109, would rather be a lotus root in the mud, not to be a water Ping
110, the mountains have high and low, the water has the depth
111, a kiln burned hundreds of bricks, a mother raised is not general
112, the wall of the reeds, the head of the light roots of the shallow; the mountain bamboo shoots, the mouth of the sharp skin, the belly of the empty
113, the empty can, echo
114, the core of the candle does not go through the point
115, the hearts of people from different, flowers have a different red
116, the world has people, people have a hundred
117, quiet to cultivate the body, frugality to cultivate morality, non-tantalism is not to be clear, non-tranquility is not to be far-sighted. --Zhuge Liang
118, each family has its own law, each temple has its own Bodhisattva
119, deep water does not ring, water does not ring deep = open water does not ring, ringing water does not open
120, the frog often forgets that it used to be a tadpole
121, cows drink water to give birth to milk, and snakes suck water to produce venomous juices (UK)