Why do women always like to be trapped by love?

Yesterday, a friend who hadn't contacted me for a long time suddenly called me, saying that she had recently been trapped by love and didn't know what to do. She told me that not long ago fell in love with a man, very crazy, but also very committed, the man's family is good, to her is also very good, but the man's parents have found him a door to door woman engaged, he is very filial, do not want to disobey their parents. My friend is just a part-time worker, for which she is very bitter, she loves the man, the man also loves her, but the relationship is doomed to be fruitless, knowing that below is the abyss, she still have to defiantly jump down, because she has been in deep.

I persuaded her to give up, she said it was too late, she had been unable to extricate herself. Put down the phone, my heart actually also added a few points of sourness, it is said that the man is mud, the woman is water, in front of the man of this beach, the woman is always involuntarily become an unstoppable wave, can not wait to rush over, even if the last broken bones, but also obsessed with no regrets.

I think of a past event in the university era, when the next class has a girl, looks gentle and quiet, sensitive and introverted, but so a weak woman of the Lin Daiyu type, and unhesitatingly fell in love with a college class of a brutal and overbearing rogue into the nature of the boys, and then the boys because of the fights and assaults, was expelled from the school, and a lot of people persuaded her to cut her off, with such a "little rascal", and the "little rascal", and the "little rascal". What future can be said with such a "hooligan", who knows that she is obsessed, I remember one day I happened to run into her in school, because each other also know, I asked about this, the girl said quietly: "He was expelled or not, can not find a job or not, I decided to follow him, how he is on others I don't care what he does to other people, he's good enough for me, I don't want to let him down!" I remember I was standing there, dumbfounded a word can not say, in front of their own sincere payment of men, women are often like a gambler playing life, hate to put all the body life on, even if the last blood money, lose all also do not want to, let the side how to persuade is also not helpful. It is said that the man who died for a friend who knows him, the woman who pleases herself. Men speak of righteousness to that is to go through fire also in the face of hard-won love, a lot of women are not also like this? Willing to moth to the flame, a kind of Dong Cunrui sacrificed his life to bomb the bunker of righteousness and death. In this sense, the woman is not only to please themselves, but also to please themselves crazy, to please themselves crazy it!

But some men are "unidentified flying objects", you can never grasp his trajectory and direction!

Remember Tolstoy's famous book "Anna Karenina" in the young and beautiful young woman Anna, right? Because she could not stand the upper-class society of the empty boredom, simply "red apricot wall", but met a very unreliable playboy, in order to this dream of true love, she put the era of the upper-class society advocated the "eight honors and eight shames," what Honor, status, money, family, husband, son, all left behind, pay can not be said not much, the sacrifice can not be said not big, but the results, the playboy began to give up, this "derailment" of the woman had to lie down on the track --

In the Japan Famous film master Naruse Sikio's immortal business card "floating clouds", the heroine Yukiko is also a dare to "give up their lives to bomb the bunker" of the infatuation of the woman, clearly know that she is y in love with Tomioka is a married man, clearly know that the other side is a cold, selfish and all over the womanizing men, she is still through the frost of the infatuation, and even in his abandonment, the woman has to lie down on the track. Even after being abandoned by him, she became a desperate escort, and became a plaything in the hands of the American soldiers, and this innocent girl like Sayuri still fantasizes that one day she can revisit her dream with the other side. The sky is the limit, Yukiko's obsession ultimately touched Tomioka, in an off-the-beaten-path island, the two suffer with ****, into a lifelong companion, however, at this time, Yukiko has been exhausted, fell in the arms of his lover, a wind in the lily withered -

While the heroines of the two stories are ultimately tragic, they are not the only ones who have been in the same situation, but also the most important ones. Although the heroine of the two stories are ultimately a tragic ending, but I always feel that Yukiko to be more fortunate than Anna, she is, after all, in the last moments of life to keep a man's heart, flew to the paradise of happiness; Anna has always been very hurt, "red apricot wall" for her to say has become a "ghost gate" to have to go back to! "

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The silk worm is not exhausted until it dies. The wax torch turns into ashes and the tears begin to dry", throughout the ages, love on the road of "Dong Cunrui" and more than these!

Watching the movie "Lust, Caution" (based on Eileen Chang's novel) directed by Ang Lee, I was touched by a woman who "sacrificed her life to blow up a bunker".

A group of college students who love acting go to assassinate a traitor for the sake of national justice. The beautiful Wang Jiazhi turns into Mrs. Mai, and uses her beauty to seduce Mr. Yi, the head of the secret service. At the critical moment, because Mr. Yi gave her a golden diamond ring, Wang Jiazhi's heart was softened and let go of the man who gradually made her heart flutter.

Perhaps Wang Jiazhi is not a qualified agent, but is a natural actor, three years ago, and the exiled students on stage in the patriotic drama, let her shine, three years later, she still can not give up the "stage between the brightly illuminated" himself, re-entered this thrilling life drama. She forgot that she was Wang Jiazhi and became Mrs. Mak, another Cheng Dieyi (the character played by Leslie Cheung in Chen Kaige's "Farewell My Concubine"), who is not separate from the others, and who is obsessed with her love on the stage and confused off the stage; on the stage she is Farewell My Concubine, and on the stage she is Farewell My Concubine. She is obsessed with the aura of Mr. Yee's mistress and cannot help but lose her other identity as an agent. She is caught off guard and becomes a trophy in Mr. Yi's bed, and is struck by the occasional hint of humanity in the traitor. In the end, Mr. Yi kills Wang Jiazhi without hesitation, but sits on his bed in tears, remembering Mrs. Mak.

For the sake of love, Wang Jiazhi was willing to "sacrifice herself to blow up the bunker", but unfortunately, the bunker was intact in the end, but she became a victim. But she had no regrets, look at her dying eyes, she seems to have a kind of return to the calm: "life is his people, death is his ghost"!

Once upon a time, I liked a poem by Xi Murong, "If you are the tearful archer, I am the one who is determined not to dodge the white bird, waiting for the arrow to break through the air and shoot into my bosom which has long been broken. If you are the only archer in this world who can wound me, I am all your youthful years, all the joys and sorrows you cannot forget."

These years to see all the things of the world, finally understand, in fact, not every shooter in the prey are "tears", if you meet a very "ruthless" shooter, then you still want to be "stupid! If you meet a very "heartless" shooter, do you still want to be a "stupid" white bird that no longer dodges?