1
Outside the house, it was snowing all night.
But the big morning got up, he touched the phone at the top of the bed, the screen showed a new text message.
It was from his girlfriend, Xiang Xiang.
He opened it and saw that it was a breakup notice from someone else's girl.
It was freezing cold, and the girl just said goodbye to Dazhang.
All day long, Dazhang was sad about this, he said that the fireplace in the house from morning to night could not warm his heart, it was too cold.
Even his lower body was frozen senseless.
When Dazhang described his feelings to me.
I looked him up and down for half a day and finally tried to tell him.
It's a good thing that you're not wearing any pants, because you're not wearing any pants, and you're not wearing any pants.
Dazhong was stumped in place for half a day, scolded himself several times dorky, said to go back to add equipment.
But Dazhang did not come back, he went directly to the town station, he wanted to go to the girlfriend who just became his ex-Xiangxiang.
It's clear that Dazhang still has his heart in the right place, holding out the idea of getting back together with someone else.
But in a situation like this, where you break up inexplicably and without warning, there's not much hope of getting back together.
You think about it, the other side even a breakup reason do not want to make up to you, explain what, show that the girl has long been determined to separate from you, even if how to salvage is not helpful.
You should know that there are thousands of couples in the world, and every day there are people who will end their relationship for various reasons.
Dazhong wants to hold on to this relationship, want to keep this person strong, certainly can not stay.
Because the emotional support between the couples, there is a strong and weak degree, strong ties to the object of the strong people day and night to break up eighty times, the next day, as usual, can be together to laugh and smile; and those who are weak ties to the weak people, feelings can not stand any test. Like breaking up this kind of words, once, even if only said once, in this life will never be together again.
But Dazhang want to go just go, do friends can not interfere with his choice, just ask the reason why Dazhang must go.
Dazhang said that as a responsible man, like a breakup of such a big thing, can not be hastily, must be face to face with the girl to say clearly. In any case, this relationship rupture, the two parties must get together a head, at least meet with each other to put a harsh words, said this life to the end, old and dead.
And then think of the two of them in a more serious situation, it is possible to fight on the spot.
Just a few days ago, the relationship between these two people is still good, how to today the wind has changed, is not she have any unavoidable suffering.
2
This question was sent to the group by Dazhang, this time, Dazhang just got on the car not long.
I knew he wanted to hear what everyone had to say to him, which was nothing more than reassurance that the girl hadn't changed her mind.
Those of us who are old sparrows on Lake Dongting, with a tacit understanding, sighed and knew it was time for us to use our imaginations.
Ouyang first gave his inference. Don't worry, your girlfriend must have broken up with you because she is terminally ill, in order not to drag you down.
Tong Youwei then expressed his opinion. Even if it is not a serious illness, it may be to die soon, big Zhang you can be prepared ah.
Listening to these words, Dazhang was sadder. What are you talking about with what ah, either sick or dying, old Joe you reliable, you think it will be how?
I sighed and said slowly. In fact, your girlfriend is not an earthling, she is a Martian crypt person, because the living environment conditions are too poor, so want to take over the earth, in order to find out the situation of the earthlings, so do your girlfriend. Now her planetary leader is ready to attack the Earth in general, it will be your girlfriend recruited back to understand the situation, you go to see her this time, it is an enemy not a friend ah.
A few of us were just about to open our brains a little wider.
Dazhuang was sending us messages with tears in his eyes. I know, she just doesn't love me anymore.
Well, he knew that in his heart.
So I asked him.
So I asked him.
Ouyang also knocked on the word.
This is the first time I've ever seen a person who has been in the same position as me, and I've never been in the same position before.
I can understand how Dazhang feels, I've been dumped by my ex before, but it's not just me, it's not just him. But it's not just me, it's not just him, every abandoned lover has this kind of obsession, they want to hear each other face to face to explain, even if the other side of the fabrication of the line.
An hour later, Dazhang got off.
He crossed a street and entered a neighborhood, on the first floor, with that door number.
He stood outside the door for half a day, bending his ear for a moment to listen to the movement in the house.
There was the sound of conversation, someone was inside.
3
Dazhuang finally knocked on the door boldly.
Xiang Xiang, who opened the door only a crack, looked at Dazhang in surprise.
The door was opened only a crack.
Dazhang. I have something to tell you.
Xiang Xiang didn't mean to let Dazhang in.
The first thing I want to do is to talk to you.
Dazhang's mind rummaged through the text message he received this morning, rummaging through the words he had brewed along the way.
But did not say a word.
Xiang Xiang looked at Dazhang. This day is very cold, if you do not say anything, I will close the door.
Dazhong thought that he could not be afraid, how to say a harsh words, but the export has become. I received your text message, but I do not quite understand.
Xiangxiang said. What do not understand, I am not in the text message said clearly?
Dazhong anxious. You said five words in the head - let's break up.
Xiangxiang, however, is not going to give a reason, sneered. I think these five words are clear enough.
Dazhang wanted to say something else.
Bang, the door was closed.
Dazhuang stood in front of the door of the house, the sky snow, as if in the heart of his heart salt.
Dazhuang said, "It doesn't hurt, it's just a little cold.
The snow is getting heavier and heavier, and the drivers are afraid to drive.
Dazhuang couldn't go home, so he spent the night in an Internet café.
If you ask what it's like to be out of love, you'll find that it's not easy to get out of love.
Dazhuang may have the most to say at this moment, for him it is like forgetting to put on the fall pants.
First, he felt cold, and then he shivered.
Of course, Dazhang really forgot to wear them.
When Dazhang came back, she discussed this with us. Obviously, she swore that she would be with him for the rest of her life, so how could she not do it?
So we reviewed the whole process of Dazhang and Xiangxiang's acquaintance so far.
4
Two years ago, Dazhang met Xiangxiang, who was a junior studying Business English.
In addition, Xiangxiang is also a Korean drama lover, full of romantic, she wants to love, no other, either bombardment, or romantic.
Dazhong then for his favorite, made all the tricks.
But he's an honest man who can't play many tricks.
But Xiang Xiang said he could be his girlfriend, only Dazhang had to fulfill some wishes she wanted.
The wish is that Dae-jang will design a romantic plot for her twelve times.
The first time, Dae-jang did it in the big square, in the middle of a group of square-dancing mothers, he held flowers and Xiangxiang confessed.
The second time was when he set up a particularly large heart-shaped candle under Xiang Xiang's house, only to almost cause a fire and be thrown out by security.
The third time he pulled up a two-meter-long banner that said "I love you, Xiang Xiang" under the dormitory.
The fourth time was when he took Xiangxiang to a candlelight dinner.
The rest of the several times do not need to say, anyway, is once more than a powerful, I have never seen such a girl, and I do not know Dazhang in the end is like her which point.
I've always thought that a girl who fantasizes about meeting Prince Charming when she goes out to buy a bun would not be a good match for Dae-jang.
But Dae Jang just doesn't care, he's obsessed and won't listen.
In the end, Dazhang went to Xiangxiang's classroom during her study hall and confessed to her in front of all the students.
Xiangxiang was moved to tears and vowed to be with Dazhang for the rest of her life.
That night, Dazhang invited me to have dinner with Ouyang and the others.
We all had a strong stance and all came when we heard there was food.
Dazhang and Xiangxiang sat together.
Looking at his face full of sweet expression, let's just wish that they can be long-lasting.
Time passes quickly, this year Dazhang can be regarded as a lot of effort.
Every day, good morning and good night constantly, keeping in mind every important day that Xiang Xiang said.
Western Valentine's Day Christmas cowboys and weavers meet, Dazhang have to carefully prepare a good gift, each time the gift must have a new idea, otherwise it is not valued her.
According to the words of Xiang Xiang, if you can not treat me well, then I want you to have what use?
Upon hearing this, Dae Jang hurriedly took the time to watch all the recent popular Korean dramas so that he could get a clear idea of what Xiang Xiang was thinking.
There is no way, who let the big Zhang like her it, can only unconditionally accommodate her.
In fact, I think this is very unreasonable, a normal relationship is absolutely not like them, not only tired but also exaggerated.
Sooner or later, this kind of relationship will go wrong.
After all, Dae Jang is just one person, but Xiang Xiang has countless Korean dramas in her head.
So by the time the second year rolls around, Dae Jang feels like he's used his mind for everything.
No matter what romantic gestures he does again, he's just repeating what he did originally.
Send flowers? The first time I've seen you do it, I've seen you do it a million times.
Accompany her to eat a big meal? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one.
Xiangxiang began to think that he is boring.
5
Finally, in the winter of this year, Xiang Xiang sent a breakup text message to Dazhang.
Let's break up, five words, simple and concise.
Dazhuang wanted to go to hear Xiang Xiang's explanation in person, but I know he already knew the answer in his heart.
But he went to her anyway, that Xiang Xiang looked at him through the doorway.
What he wanted to say didn't come out, and he won't be able to take the trouble to please her later.
I think it's a relief for Dae-jang.
I know that the wish of every person who longs for love is usually simple: to be a pair of birds of the same feather that will not fly separately.
It is just that he met a sparrow destined to fly away, where there is rice to go, there is nothing to pity.
Just think of it as a test from God.
Our love will go through life, will go through time, from the beginning of the romantic, slowly become bland, one of the party suddenly feel that this relationship does not meet their own imagination, not the kind of life they want, so people let go.
They may spend more time looking for a new person and experiencing the freshness that comes with a new partner.
But I'm sure one day they will regret their choice.
So one day if you have the chance to meet someone who swears they won't run away from your life.
Don't get too busy being happy or blowing up with someone just yet.
Ask him, or ask her.
If in the future our days become boring and our lives are dull.
Will you still love me?