What's in a 96
Before reading this article, please click on the "attention", which is convenient for you to discuss and share, but also give you a different sense of participation, thank you for your support.In 1996, a northeastern marriage registry came to a "special" couple, so that's because this couple looks more like a "mother and child"!
The husband is 27 years old, while his wife is 59 years old! The difference in age between the two is a full 32 years! And the husband has resolutely cut himself off from his own parents so that he can marry his wife!
We often say that true love is not limited, but the marriage of "an old man and a young man" will inevitably be criticized, because there are times when the generation gap brought about by age can not be bridged by any emotion.
But despite the difficulties, the young man still insisted on sticking to his own love qíng, which eventually led to an "old wife, young husband" marriage story.
So why did the young Northeastern guy fall in love with a woman 32 years older than himself? What happened between them? And how is the couple doing now?
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Love is not about identity, a glimpse of the private lifeIn recent years, with the rise of various short-video platforms, more and more people have begun to engage in the work of the "network of selling art".
In a short video platform, we often see such a picture, a very cāng old woman and a young man dressed in "flowery" performances of two people together.
The first time they saw this scene, many people thought they were partners, or mother and son, but in fact, it looks like such a big age difference between the two people are a couple.
With the gimmick of "young husband, old wife", the two have become a big hit on the Internet, with many fans rewarding him for his men, and apart from performing duet, the two sometimes show their daily life to the audience, and everyone marvels at the depth of the relationship between them.
But some netizens feel that this is not a simple matter, because the gap between the love is really not people dare to "compliment", they really because of love to go dào together?
Ma Yuqin
Let's take a look at the love story between "old wife" Ma Yuqin and "young husband" Li Yucheng.
Ma Yuqin was trained as a professional duet performer since she was a child, so she had a solid acting background and became a professional duet performer when she grew up.
Young Ma Yuqin not only has a pretty face, but also a shapely body, although she de ìng not tall, but as long as she stood on the stage to perform, the knitted brows between the smile reveals a strong flavor.
She also got a lot of love from the audience, of course, there is no lack of some suitors, after all, in that era, Ma Yuqin is really a lot of men's heart "goddess" general existence.
Not long after, Ma Yuqin married a man of her choice, and from then on she gradually began to focus her life on her family. Especially after having a child, in order to take care of her two sons, Ma Yuchen almost put off all her work.
Li Yucheng
No one knows how much Ma Yuchen has sacrificed to go from being a popular duet performer to an obscure housewife, but she may have lost some of her original aura as a result.
Because of some trivial matters in her life, Ma Yuqin always had heated arguments with her husband from time to time, and the result of these arguments was that the conflict between husband and wife became more and more acute.
But for the sake of the two children, the couple will still be sympathetic to each other, after all, to establish a happy family is not so easy.
Ma Yuqin and her husband have been living together for nearly a decade, and with their two sons growing up, Ma Yuqin finally doesn't have to work as hard as she used to.
She also began to put her mind back on the work, but fortunately the years with the children she did not waste their skills, people in their middle age, but she is more and more sophisticated.
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After returning to the stage, Ma Yuqin also received a good response, with many audience members coming to enjoy her performances,but soon Ma Yuqin realized a problem, although she still maintains a pretty face, but qí real her body is no longer young.
Everyone fears the passage of time, because some of the things we care about most are always taken away by time without us realizing it, and Ma Yuqin often feels sad about this.
She wasn't afraid of growing old, but of not being able to inherit her craft, which neither of her sons was interested in, and she spent her days worrying about it, until Li Yucheng came into her life.
Li Yucheng was just an eight-year-old boy when he followed his father to a show because he liked to watch the duo.
Dāng at the time, Li Yucheng could be said to be uninterested in the two-people show, and he was on the verge of falling asleep before the first program was over.
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But by the time Ma Yuqin, the evening's grand finale, came out, a sudden burst of applause woke Li Yucheng up, and he curiously turned his attention to the stage.
As a result, at a single glance, Li Yucheng was attracted by Ma Yuqin's graceful figure. There is a saying that "teenagers don't know how to love", and there may not be any problem with this saying.
But after that, Li Yucheng kept his eyes on Ma Yuqin, never wanting to take his eyes off her, and soon after the song was over, Ma Yuqin bowed to the audience and returned to the backstage.
Seeing Ma Yuqin disappear on the stage, Li Yucheng was like a lost soul, pulling his father's hand and running towards the backstage.
Thinking he was in a hurry to get home, the father let his son pull him out, but he soon realized that his son was not trying to get home. Upon learning of his son's desire to go backstage, the father agreed, as he was just in time to stop by and see an old friend as well.
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Li Yucheng didn't know that the friend his father was talking about was Ma Yuqin, and that meeting later led to an unbelievable "entanglement" between the two men's destinies.
Soon the father and son came to the backstage, Li Yucheng eagerly searched for the figure that haunted him, and soon saw Ma Yuqin removing her makeup.
It is said that people are timid, but when he really saw Ma Yuqin, Li Yucheng didn't dare to look directly at her, after removing her makeup, Ma Yuqin was a little less elegant, but a little more easy-going, and she quickly exchanged pleasantries with Li Yucheng.
"Old classmate, how have you been lately?"
"I'm all fine, it's not that my son insisted on coming backstage to take a look, so I stopped by to say hello to you."
Ma Yuqin
At this point, Ma Yuqin noticed Li Yucheng, who was stealing glances at her, and she casually picked up a small toy and handed it to Li Yucheng, and then stroked his head affectionately.
"Little friend, do you also like to watch the Two People's Opera?"
"Love it! Nope! No like! I like to watch you in a duet!"
Li Yucheng was a bit incoherent in his excitement, and as a result, he accidentally said what was in his heart, but after all, children's words are reckless, and Ma Yuqin just laughed out loud when she heard it and didn't take this child de words to heart.
The boy fell in love with the old lady, forgetting the love of the year into fruition
Then Ma Yuqin how would not have thought that the boy in front of her later not only inherited her mantle, but also with her hand in hand to achieve a "incredible" marriage.
Since he met Ma Yuqin, Li Yuqin could no longer forget her, and would often go backstage by himself to find her.
Li Yucheng
For this cute kid, Ma Yuchen also treated him as her junior, thinking that Li Yucheng simply liked the duet performance.
But then as Li Yucheng went more and more often, Ma Yuchen's mind also began to have a tèshu idea, she wanted to train Li Yucheng as her successor.
So then Ma Yuqin often took the initiative to invite Li Yucheng over to play, and then incidentally teach him some of the duet skills, Li Yucheng naturally begged for this, he is not like duet, but from now on he can rightfully and Ma Yuqin stay together.
So under Ma Yuqin's tutelage, Li Yucheng made rapid progress, whether it was a variety of stances or singing voice are learned in a decent manner.
After that, Ma Yuqin would bring Li Yucheng along with her on some of her performance assignments, and the tacit understanding between them became deeper and deeper, and sometimes they would even perform together on stage.
Ma Yuqin
But just as everything was getting better, Ma Yuqin's husband suddenly met with an accident, a sudden illness that left him lying in a hospital bed.
While Ma Yuqin and her husband often quarreled when they were together, and the couple was often separated, she was still attached to her husband in her heart.
In order to cure her husband, Ma Yuqin began to work day and night. Sometimes, to save money, she would take steamed buns and salted vegetables to deal with a bite.
But Ma Yuqin, who gave up everything, still couldn't save her husband's life, because his condition was too serious, Ma Yuqin's husband left the world soon after.
The death of her husband once plunged Ma Yuqin into the shadow of grief, and she did not go out to work again for a long time, which made Li Yucheng's heart very anxious.
Ma Yuqin
Li Yucheng had always wanted to meet Ma Yuqin, but as he got older, he began to understand the word avoidance.
A few years after her husband's death, Ma Yuqin finally decides to make a comeback, but she is saddened to find that fewer and fewer young rén are into duo.
Because of the lack of fresh blood, the former troupe has disbanded, and Ma can't go back to the kind of performance she had when she was young.
She was saddened by this and had a long talk with her two sons, hoping that they would follow in her footsteps, but neither of them was willing to engage in the two-people show, and Ma Yuqin was close to despair.
Till then she remembered Li Yucheng, but the two had not seen each other for many years, so Ma Yuqin came to Li Yucheng's home with the attitude of trying, and proposed to Li Yucheng's hope that he would follow him to perform on stage together.
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But Li Yucheng simply did not dare to see her again, at that time Li Yucheng was already twenty-five years old, but also to the age of marriage, but his parents urged several times, lǐ Yucheng still do not want to make a girlfriend's intention.
Besides Li Yucheng, there is no second person who knows that his heart has long been full of love for Ma Yuqin, but in front of Li Yucheng is the cruel reality, Ma Yuqin is thirty-two years older than him, older than his father.
Don't say his parents will not agree, even Ma Yuqin may not be willing, and besides, how will the outside world view their relationship? However, these thoughts of Li Yucheng, Ma Yuqin is completely unaware of, she just found Li Yucheng's father to explain the intention.
Li Yucheng didn't have a serious job at the time, so his father agreed to Ma Yuqin's offer to let Li Yucheng follow Ma Yuqin and perform duet.
While Li Yucheng was y disturbed by his idea, he was happy to spend time with Ma Yuchen every day. In this way, Ma Yuqin formally accepted Li Yucheng as her disciple, and then gathered a group of old friends to rebuild the theater troupe.
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While Li Yucheng had never really liked the duet, his talent was very promising, and he made great progress under Ma Yuqin's tutelage.
Ma Yuqin was often paired with Li Yucheng in order to help him grow up, and he soon made a name for himself in the region.
Li Yucheng did not let Ma Yuqin down, he forgot to devote himself to the performance, and his feelings for Ma Yuqin became deeper and deeper, finally, one night, Li Yucheng could no longer restrain his inner feelings, and revealed his heart to Ma Yuqin.
To be honest, Ma Yuqin's first reaction was one of shock, how could she not expect the child in her eyes huì to develop such emotions towards herself.
She could only interpret Li Yucheng's behavior as impulsive, balked at Li Yucheng, and began to deliberately reduce her contact with him afterwards.
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Ma Yuqin knew in her heart that there was a huge age gap between her and Li Yucheng, and that it was impossible for them to get along as a normal man and woman.
But Li Yucheng has never given up Ma Yuqin's rejection to a certain extent, but rather let him even more determined to his own ideas, and then an incident occurred completely changed Ma Yuqin view.
It was a snowy, extremely cold winter, when Ma Yuqin took Li Yucheng to a place to perform, but halfway there a small river blocked the way.
Since the river was not completely frozen at that time, if you want to cross the river, you have to ___ over, where can Ma Yuqin's body stand this kind of stimulation?
The result was that Li Yucheng's one move made Ma Yuqin fall completely, only to see Li Yucheng took the initiative to carry Ma Yuqin, and then stepped barefoot into the icy cold and bone-chilling river water.
When lying on Li Yucheng's back at that moment, Ma Yuqin's heart inevitably rippled, she felt that she should reconsider her feelings with Li Yucheng.
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Outside opposition to the question, **** hand in hand through the wind and rainThat performance after returning home, Ma Yuqin tentatively and the two sons talked about the matter, but she did not directly say and Li Yucheng, but said he wanted to find an old partner.
The two sons also know that their mother has not had an easy time over the years, and they have expressed their support and understanding of their mother's ideas, which makes Ma Yuqin's heart very happy.
However, when they learned that their mother's old partner was actually Li Yucheng, who was even younger than them, they said nothing.
They believe that Li Yucheng is approaching their mother purely out of interest,and will leave as soon as he gets her money, so they can't just stand by and watch their mother fall for the scam.
But Ma Yuqin is also y in love at this point, and she is determined to be with Li Yucheng, and for this reason she is not afraid to tear her face off with her two sons.
Li Yucheng
And how could Li Yucheng be any different? When his father learned that he was going to marry Ma Yuqin, he was so angry that he was hospitalized on the spot.
But his family's opposition likewise didn't change Li Yucheng's mind, and he cut off contact with his family directly after unsuccessfully persuading his parents several times.
In 1996, twenty-seven-year-old Li Yucheng and fifty-nine-year-old Ma Yuqin broke through the layers of obstacles to get together, and their lives have been in a state of flux ever since.
The story of the "old married couple" soon spread, and they were even invited by the media, who openly showed their love for each other on TV.
After the program aired, netizens' views on them were roughly divided into two, one was to support them to bravely pursue their love, but more netizens actually did not think highly of this matter.
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Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin soon felt the pressure of life, after they got married, their troupe's business went down dramatically, and a lot of people were reluctant to hire them to perform anymore.
The two men lost their steady income, and their quality of life took a sharp turn for the worse. What's worse, at this very juncture, Li Yucheng was arrested for stealing and digging up electrical wires and thrown into jail.
The two were renovating their old house at the time, but there weren't enough wires in the house, so Li Yucheng dug up a section of the village's power lines, and because of his action, the whole village was almost in a blackout crisis, for which he was sentenced to nine months in prison.
Everyone thought that this incident would put Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqín's marriage in crisis, but after his release from prison, the two are still living happily together, not caring about the outside world's eyes.
Later, Li Yucheng's parents realized that they could no longer persuade their son, so they approved of their relationship, and Li Yucheng was very happy to know that.
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Because although he could give up his family for love, his parents' understanding still made him feel happy, but soon after, Lee Yoo Sung's mother passed away due to an illness, and rumors spread.
People said that Li Yucheng killed his mother, if he was not bent on, the old man would not have left the earth early, since Li Yucheng back on the "unfilial son" scolding, he and Ma Yuqin's life is more and more difficult.
But no matter how the outside world views their relationship, Li Yucheng has always been wholeheartedly good to Ma Yuqin, and he often prepares some small gifts or small surprises for Ma Yuqin.
Perhaps Ma Yuqin, the bèi son, would never have thought that he would actually be spoiled into a little princess in his sixties, and the age gap did not alienate them.
But there is always discord in any relationship, and as Li Yucheng grew older, he began to long for a child of his own.
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But with Ma Yuqin's age and health, it was clearly impossible to give him any more children.In order to ease her husband Li Yucheng's mood, Ma Yuqin even went so far as to undergo cosmetic surgery, just to make herself and Li Yucheng look more compatible.
Later Ma Yuqin even took the initiative to propose a divorce, so that lǐ Yu Cheng to find a young woman to have children, but Li Yucheng did not agree, in the end, the two people have been y in love with each other, just life will inevitably have some unpleasant places.
With the rise of various short-video platforms, Li Yucheng realized the opportunities therein, and he took his wife with him to open a live broadcast on a short-video platform.
In this way, with the "old wife and young husband" gimmick, the two earned a lot of money, and the quality of life has been greatly improved, but as they became more and more active on the network.
Many netizens realized that their love for each other might just be an appearance, a means to gain profit for the sake of putting on a show, as Li Yucheng was always well-dressed while Ma Yuqin wore shabby clothes.
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This makes people not only have the idea that maybe Li Yucheng is just using Ma Yuqin to make money, in 2022, Ma Yuqin is already an eighty-four year old, her life seems to be able to see the head at a glance.
Just at this juncture, there is news that and Ma Yuqin cut off relations for more than 20 years son suddenly came back, and since then Ma Yuqin many times modified his will.
No one knows what the purpose of her son's return is,and no one knows how Li Yucheng will respond to it, which may only be understood by the couple.
But whatever the outcome, Li Yucheng has been with Ma Yuqin for more than two decades and has been accompanying her life with all his heart.
From this point of view, Ma Yuqin is undoubtedly a very happy woman, whether it is an "old husband and young wife" or a "young husband and old wife", such a combination seems to be forever subject to people's questions and suspicions.
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When people hear about this kind of news, the first thing they do is not to wish them well, but to try to figure out what's at stake.
But true love never involves any stakes, and the proximity of two hearts never needs any reason, and those who risk their lives for love are certainly a bit selfish.
But they are not the most courageous and pure people? Everyone has the right to chase their own happiness, any time as long as the guilt-free heart is good.
Kàn finished the story of this "old wife and young husband", do you have anything to say? The first is to be a good example of the kind of work that can be done.
96 is what the year of the Chinese zodiac
Born in 1996, this year 2021 age: 25 years old, belonging to the year of the rat, the people born in this year's character is very lively, cheerful, calm and flexible. Different zodiac signs have different personality traits and must use the right and gentle language to communicate effectively with others, explaining that only then will more people understand them. Language as a way of expression, with the time, occasion, the object of different, and express a variety of information and colorful ideas expressed. The key jiàn of speaking politely lies in respecting the other party and self-humility. Must do the following: (a) with people to maintain the appropriate curved boredom distance speaking is usually to communicate with others to achieve this purpose, first of all, of course, must pay attention to the content of the speech, and secondly, must also pay attention to the lightness of the voice when speaking, so that the interlocutor can hear and understand. In this way care must be taken to maintain a distance from the interlocutor when speaking. Speaking with people to maintain an appropriate distance is not entirely out of consideration of whether the other party can hear their own words, there is also a question of how to be more polite. Therefore, from the point of view of etiquette in general to maintain a distance of one or two people to eliminate the most appropriate. Doing so, not only let the other side feel a kind of friendly atmosphere, while maintaining a certain "social distance", in the subjective feeling of ordinary people, which is also the most comfortable. (B) appropriate chēng call others, whether old or new friends, once you meet, you have to address each other. Everyone wants to be respected by others, and people value the status they have achieved. To call a person with a title by his title is a great respect for him. Calling someone by his or her name is only appropriate between people who are close to him or her. If you have a good relationship with a titled person, it is more cordial to call him by his name, but if you are in public and social occasions, you should call him by his title will be more appropriate. For intellectuals, you can address them by their title. However, for degrees, other than doctoral degrees, it can not be used as a title. (C) good speech talk no matter whether it is a famous person or a commoner, as the two sides of the conversation, they should be equal. Conversation generally choose the topic of interest to everyone *** with, however, some should not touch the issue: such as the other party's age, income, the value of personal belongings or not to talk about it. Inquiring about these is impolite and a lack of jiào culture.
What is your birthday 1996?
Born in 1996 belongs to the C Zi Rat, Nayin five elements of Jianxia Shui, is the health of the body, table wisdom. Intelligent, good contact with new things, treat people kindly, good communication, is a natural talent for change.
Born in the spring of 1996, the C Zi rat, gifted and clever, met a good teacher to point out, no help from relatives, middle-aged success. Peach blossom is full of life, more help from the opposite sex, the genus of the Endeavor.