Because of this relationship feel tired of it, and do not want to really just let go, so it will be frequent breakups, and still convince themselves to give each other another chance ......
To talk about the relationship during who did not mention so much as one or two times of the breakup it can be raised! The number of times more, sometimes the other half will be tired of really break up with you, but also some as not so much, anyway, you are often said, commonplace, will not even think about what kind of mood you say this sentence is to what kind of mood, will only be thinking about waiting for you to be in a good mood to come back to talk to you on the line, or skip the topic.
When I was with my ex-boyfriend, I also mentioned breaking up a lot. He is my first love, the first time to fall in love more naive it, what do not understand, stupidly think as long as I am good enough for him, but together for a long time to know how ridiculous they are, that time the two are very young, the early 20s just out of work not long, he is more will say sweet words, do not know how I fell! With him in the same company to work, he worked not a few months since the departure, he is more like to play games, often playing games to midnight three or four, and then make up during the day, proper night owls.
To spend all the money and then go to find a job, then he did not have a few hundred dollars on him, I urged him to go to work, he said what is the hurry, there is money to spend, turn around and go to the Internet cafe overnight, you can save the money down to play the game, buy equipment, and do not want to spend money on a meal a good point, I always think that I can rely on their own to change him, to help him to find a job together, and sometimes to help him to pay the rent, and occasionally go to his dormitory! I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it.
He said he wanted to quit smoking, and said more than once, I really thought he could do, the result is that the first few days less smoking so few cigarettes, after that is the same old thing, and even when there is no money will ask me for money to spend, so we got along for a few months, the heart felt so tired, and he mentioned break up, he did not agree, and I swore that he would change, so that I can give him a chance, I was on his indeed have feelings, and do not want to break up. I did have feelings for him at the time, and do not want to break up like this, thinking he will change, will become the same as my ideal, is a pain, responsible for the good object, but change a person which is so easy? I've mentioned a lot of times to break up, but the heart has a fantasy, the result is that the reality is to let me slap face.
To the back when I said break up, people do not take it seriously, said you want to split on the split, the next day and deadbeat with me that he will not leave me, although I know that he has a lot of shortcomings, or not willing to let go of this, so that I am completely heartbroken is that I found that he and his ex-girlfriend contacted, and said that I impeded his happiness, to hear him say this kind of words really want to give him a couple of slap, but hit but forget about it, and then I'm not sure if I can do it. But I can't beat him, forget it, the belief in that moment collapsed, I can also completely dead heart to leave, after leaving but feel much more relaxed, no longer need to repress themselves.
So frequent breakups, there are always some reasons, not not love you, precisely because you still have feelings for you, the heart will be so entangled, want to leave but can not do, love is to pay each other, a person to pay for a long time will be tired of such feelings may be tomorrow on the loose.