I summarized the habits of the elders around me, and the biggest **** same habit is thrift. Frugality is probably the mark of the times on their generation.
The matter of frugality can be big or small, some can tolerate some can not tolerate. For example, the family has bought new appliances, but still can not throw away the old, one after another home will accumulate a lot of old things. Although this thrift will also affect the mood, but is not a matter of principle, will not bring any serious consequences, belonging to the tolerable.
But some of the elderly thrifty in eating above, such as eating put a long time of meals, bad fruit, such habits I can not tolerate. This is not a big deal, but a bowl of leftovers, a piece of rotten apple may also cause a serious illness, and even take the whole family's time, energy and money. I always tell my two old men that they can't economize on food, and that they should throw away what they need to throw away.
As for the other habits of the elderly, such as nagging, old-fashioned concepts still like to educate people, defying the old love to show off, etc., these habits may make the young people feel annoyed, but it will not cause the actual impact, do not need to rise to the height of tolerance.
Originally, a person's habits are his or her own business, and as long as they don't have an impact on other people, he or she can do as he or she pleases. For example, if an old man likes to educate others all day long, this habit will not cause any real impact because the old man cannot force young people to do what he says, that is to say, just say it.
Coax the elderly when you are with them, just as they coaxed us when we were children. Don't put the victim mentality on yourself, always feel that you are putting up with the old man, in fact, get along with unpleasant is the two sides, the old man is not also trying to put up with the young people?