Dance on the close contact with the opposite sex, the grooming instrument has a high demand. When you go out, you should be energetic, dignified, and have no bad smell. Dress to be clean, neat, beautiful, generous, dark-colored suit, men wearing Western-style dresses, ethnic clothing can be avoided, avoid wearing coats, overalls, avoid wearing hats, wearing travel shoes, wearing sunglasses. Western ladies like to wear evening dress to the ball, our ladies like to wear cheongsam, with color coordination of high-heeled shoes. Women's attire should not be too exposed, too transparent, too short, too small, too tight. Prom held in the evening, make-up can be a little heavy.
Two: dance partner
Prom opening and closing, the Lord, guests should be with their own companions **** dance. For example, the first song of the ball, the final song, usually the host couple, guest couple **** dance. In the absence of the lady, adult daughters can also be replaced. The second dance, male and female host should be with female and male guests **** dance. Avoid a pair of partners from the beginning to the end of the **** dance, avoid the same sex **** dance. A pair of male *** dance, will be suspected of homosexuality, and two female *** dance, there is a "leftover" suspicion.
Three: Invite a partner
Invite others to dance, should be civilized, generous, natural, pay attention to courtesy, do not force each other. To invite a partner, a man should usually take the initiative to invite a woman, and a woman usually does not have to take the initiative to invite a man. However, in special circumstances, women can also take the initiative to invite men, such as men for elders, VIPs, and so on. Men invite women, the latter can be politely refused, while women invite men, men can not "refute face", even if very tired, do not want to dance, but also have to "give up their lives to accompany the gentleman".
Choosing a dance partner should pay attention to more new people, expanding the social surface, but also pay attention to the age, height, and fat and thin, it is best not to excessive disparity.
Four: dance
Dance should be civilized, beautiful. With people **** dance, men's body should be upright, left hand gently support the partner's back waist (slightly above the waist), right hand gently support the partner's left palm. Usually men lead the dance, the two sides should be about 30 centimeters apart, in order to maintain human dignity. When dancing, both parties should not stare at each other without looking at each other, and their expressions should be natural. The man must not squeeze the lady's hand too tightly, must not put the whole palm of his hand on the lady's waist, and must not drag the lady around while spinning. The lady, on the other hand, should not put her hands around the man's neck or lean her head actively on the man's shoulder.
Five : poise
The ball can best reflect the gentlemanly demeanor of men. Invitation to dance partner, the man should be slightly bowed to the lady, at least a nod of the head, and in the appropriate language to send a clear signal of invitation, such as "Miss (Mrs.), can I ask you to dance?" After obtaining consent, the man can gently kiss the back of the lady's hand, and then *** with holding hands on the field **** dance. On the field, the man should let the lady walk in front, according to the rhythm of the music dance, pay attention to the dance step steady, coordinated movement. Spinning, found that the lady dizzy, men must fulfill the "flower protector" responsibility, the amplitude of the action to be smaller. At the end of the song, it is best for the man to return the woman to her original seat and express his gratitude. After thanking the original dance partner, then go to invite another partner. If two men invited the same partner, the "first come first served" as the order, accept the invitation of the first to arrive, while the later should sincerely apologize, can promise to dance in the next dance **** dance, and to try to fulfill their promise.
Six: Refusal
The ball is an occasion to make friends and meet friends through dancing, so when a lady refuses an invitation to a ball, she must be careful. For some reason, such as short and tall, fat and thin, feel bad, etc., the lady can refuse individual men's invitation, but pay attention to the proportion and polite language, the expression should be euphemistic, decent, do not make people down. The best refusal words are "I want to take a break for a while", "I don't know how to dance this song". After rejecting one person, do not immediately accept the invitation of others.
Seven: Taboos
Respect the host's arrangements for the dance, and do not openly express dissatisfaction with the organization of the dance. Do not ask to change the established procedures of the dance, do not rely on personal interest and desire, temporary request to change the dance music or extend the time of the dance. On the dance floor, behavior, speech should be elegant, not to the opposite sex of excessive courtesy, not with just met the opposite sex for a long time together. Into the dance floor, men should take the initiative to let the lady choose *** dance position, not in the dance song is not finished, a person hurriedly left first.