Treating everything in the world with a worldly attitude, no desire, indifferent to fame and fortune. In a sense, it is a kind of openness to life and inner openness. And this kind of no desire, empty mind, not strive to stand in the highest position. Not a pessimistic avoidance of the world, but a state of mind to see through life, life is a long and short journey, we embrace a calm and quiet state of mind, in time to do, in the time not to do not to force the chase. The kind of just as out and for is our state of mind dictated by the living, our life needs to be this kind of state of mind to make.
All the way through, through all the prosperity will eventually become empty, through the splendor of the end will fade, the pursuit of exhaustion will end up all empty. If the existence of life is too much pursuit of these flashy surface brought about by the thought of the good, then in the demise of life may be inside the sigh of life and the pathos of nothingness. This is because too much looking forward to life in the flashy and lost the life of the state of mind should have relied on. Then why not hold a calm out of the world state of mind and live, and for the life of the see-through is an empty word can be described, for the life of the walk is "nothing" can be tolerated.
"Laozi" in a sentence: "good as water, water is good for all things without competition." I can understand that this is a realm of the heart. That realm of inner peace is for good deeds can be like water gurgling through the quiet mood. That kind of inner character is one that flows into the world like water and ennobles all things without competing for fame and fortune. The world's water is always silent and quiet flow through, it moistens all things in the world, but always with the most quiet posture overlooking the world. And that kind of clean and transparent profound is also the purity of our direction and. This is a kind of heart above the earthly appearance, and for this earthly pay never ask for fame and fortune, is a kind of outside the world of the thin state of mind. And the greatest good deed in life is to trickle through like water. And there is no competition for fame and fortune, in fact, in a sense, this is also a high state of physical and mental cultivation. When we live in this posture, we will not have so much worry about living for fame and fortune and running around tired, the heart without a thing to give, will be indifferent to the state of mind, live a good life. Perhaps it can also be said that when a person has no desire, in the pay do not think to take the return, then there is no so-called gain and loss, there is no so-called brilliant and broken. This is one of the noblest virtues of the heart, and in the face of such virtues, this earthly scramble for fame and fortune is not worth mentioning.
There is a Buddhist saying: "Bodhi has no tree, the mirror is not a platform; there is nothing, where the dust." I think this is a kind of worldly attitude. In fact, if we think about it quietly, no matter how long we have traveled in life, when we look back, many things are gone. Those past events and memories are lost in the flood of time, and after the years have passed when we really want to take a good look at what our past life has given us, we realize that everything is empty. On another level, when we are born, we come into the world empty, and later walk through the world. In the meantime we have bitterness and joy, happiness and sorrow, splendor and despair. And at some point after we have experienced all these, we realize that they have all become void. So, at the moment of our death, is it not also what we call all existence is gone.
In fact, the essence of life is also so, are empty. Those who are chased by the world's success, by the world's pursuit of false fame, by the world's enthusiasm for comparison, are all empty. In a deeper sense everything in the world is empty
. And when we understand the essential meaning of this emptiness. Our hearts can also be empty, an emptiness in which the heart slowly vacates without leaving a trace of impurities. All of the world's fortunes and misfortunes, the splendor and the downfall of the world can not be entangled in our hearts. The temptations of the world will not have the opportunity to enter our hearts. Everything passes through the heart, and if the heart maintains this calmness and indifference, then everything that passes through the heart will leave no trace. This can perhaps be said to be the Buddhist enlightenment. And our life may be such a realm and state of mind, empty in all things, will not be entangled in all things. We can truly realize that everything flows through our hearts without leaving any traces. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the government.
Laozi's thought is fundamentally "nothing". "Wu Wei" is not to do nothing, not not for, but contains not to be presumptuous, not chaotic, in accordance with the objective nature, not to casually and recklessly for. In Lao Tzu, there is a saying: "There is nothing to do but nothing to be done", which means that if you do not act presumptuously, there is nothing that you can't do. In this context, "doing nothing" is a kind of attitude and method of living in the world, and "doing nothing" refers to the effect produced by not doing anything presumptuously. The meaning is similar to that of the other phrase: "To do nothing, but not to rule". The meaning of the phrase "to do nothing, but not to rule" is that we should adopt an attitude of "doing nothing" in life, and then everything will follow its own trajectory and move forward smoothly. Because everything in the world has its own laws, all we have to do is to go with the flow, with the pulse of the times, so as to promote its progress. If we go against the law, we become the so-called "have for", then it is chaotic and delusional. To "do nothing" is to do something from an attitude of "doing nothing". This is also in accordance with the laws of nature at the same time also want us to take the initiative to fight, to play the subjective initiative, to realize their own expectations.
Overall, Lao Tzu's "Wu Wei" is a warning not to fight, possess, covet, disobey the objective law, or act arbitrarily in life. From another point of view, this may be another kind of have for. It is a kind of doing without doing. The first thing to have is an attitude of inaction, is presented from the inside of the inaction, calm the mind, but not overly concerned about right and wrong, let nature take its course, treat everything in life to be in the inaction on the basis of the inaction.
This philosophical idea is also relatively a two-sided mutual existence and dependence. The essence of inaction is inaction with action. Life may be a relative contradiction and interdependence, just as the surface and the inner contrary, in a sense, is also closely related. It is because of the dependence that there is contradiction, and the contradiction itself is exactly the appearance that confirms the dependence. Zhuangzi said: "Cinnamon can be eaten, so cut it down; lacquer can be used, so cut it down. All people know the usefulness of usefulness, but do not know the uselessness of uselessness." The meaning of this sentence is that the trees on the mountain are all because of the material available to invite themselves to cut down, grease to light candles are all because they can be burned to illuminate their own melting and frying. The fragrant bark of the cinnamon tree is edible and therefore cut down, and the lacquer of the tree is cut down by the sword and axe because it can be put to good use. People know the usefulness of the useful, but they do not know the greater use of the useless. The most fundamental philosophy is revealed in the saying, "We all know the usefulness of the useful, but we do not know the uselessness of the useless". In the chaotic world we all see useful things, but these so-called useful things in the end are reduced to be utilized and slaughtered, and then the demise of the end. Those who seem to be really "useless" things but live in the free and easy.
In ancient times, those who were praised by all the useful people in the officialdom of how prosperous, how the life of luxury, scenery. But they are also gradually lost in the most essential nature of the heart, and later fell and then the death of countless people. This is often the world given by the "useful" harm. People live a life, the higher the place to stand, the faster the fall, which is also the ultimate theory that the opposite is true. This is also the ultimate theory that what goes around comes around. What is reflected in this is the position of "usefulness" in the world and its final destination. The world is often so, the world all thought "useful" to the abyss, but if we do not have greed, no vanity, no flashy. Then it will be very good "useless" life in this world.
Then overall, "useful" and "useless" may be a dialectical thought. There are two sides to a coin, and the choice may be in our own hands. This kind of "uselessness" is not a negative avoidance of the world, but the wisest kind of self-effacement. In a sense, this is actually a profound reflection of Zhuangzi's thought of doing nothing.
Ming Dynasty scholar Cui Mian's Six Ranges of Training: "Self-existence is transcendent, dealing with people amiably, something is chopped up, nothing is clarified, the intention of the light, the loss of the intention of the Thai Ran." This is an aphorism for dealing with people. The philosophy contained in it is to let us benefit a lot. This is more of a state of mind. A state of mind that is calm, calm and profound in the world of living. To have a tranquil and desireless state of mind, people live if there is no obsession then there will be more of their own nature of mind, then you can live easily and frankly. At this time, a sense of emptiness over the world will also be everyone's heart to reach the happy and comfortable. Perhaps there is too much in our lives that we are attached to and must give up. And when we walk a long way later may find that these memories of our life everywhere and give up are not important. Those with the flood of time and annihilation of the few remaining moods are only left to those things itself a kind of surface memorial. This is the nature of life, there is no tangled mess we are walking through, no complexity we think is difficult. Everything is empty, the world is empty. We come into this world with empty hands, we go back and forth in this world, and in the end we still die empty. This is a predestined cycle, and perhaps death exists for the sake of life. This is a dialectical thought, just like our joy and sorrow, fortunate and unfortunate, comfortable and fatigue we have to have a calm state of mind, the essence of these hidden in the world we have to calmly accept and follow.
And life itself is a state of mind can decide things. The first step is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in the world and what is going on in the world. Perhaps it can also be said that the world is in our state of mind. If we have the thought that everything in this world is empty, then our mind will no longer be burdened by the world. If we have the thought of "doing nothing", our life will not be wandering between give and take, and we will not aspire to splendor and then experience the decline after prosperity. We comply with our mood, comply with all things in the world to give us the idea, just want the years to be quiet, the world peace and quiet. We do not allow greed to expand, do not allow competition to take over our lives. Insisting on "doing nothing" is doing something. When we one day stand in their own position to look down on life with a smile, that smile can pay for all the world's futility and futility, is to annihilate all the earthly restlessness and pomposity. Our overlooking will be at the end of life with an empty and distant state of mind beautifully rising in the world that is nothing.
The significance of the state of mind for life [Article 2]
Summary: According to Shandong Youth Daily reported that a titled "bumpy experience has created my attitude to life," the news, as a dung digger, when the river workers, now he is a doctoral tutor; hungry five years old will only talk, tired once fainted in the construction site, he said That experience is the biggest treasure in his life, and the suffering has laid down and accomplished his optimistic, upward, open-minded and persistent attitude towards life. He is An Liguo, a young and middle-aged academic leader in Shandong Province, a doctoral supervisor, and the current dean of the School of Life Sciences of Shandong Normal University. He described in such detail his bitter experience and his attitude towards life, and he hoped that his experience could bring some enlightenment to his young friends.
In order to pursue a valuable life, we should establish a good attitude towards life and improve our own qualities; arm our brains with knowledge and enrich our hearts with virtues; cherish time, be brave to challenge and seize opportunities; live in harmony with others and enhance the sense of cooperation***win; love our motherland, work hard and be a useful person to the society and the people.
Keywords: life, positive, human attitude
A What is human attitude
The basic emotions of human beings are pain and pleasure, and even unconscious babies react instinctively. If you are in pain, you cry; if you are happy, you laugh. Human attitude can basically be described as a person's bitterness and optimism, or optimism and pessimism. Social psychology believes that attitude is a psychological tendency of people, is the state of readiness for behavior; line is the attitude of the outward appearance, is under the influence of people's attitudes manifested in the object of the specific response.
Life attitude, refers to the people in a certain social bad influence and education guide through life practice and their own experience of the formation of life issues of a stable psychological tendency and basic views. Human attitude reflects the basic position of people, views and behavior tendency. Human attitude is composed of three basic factors: cognition, emotion and intention. The road of life is tortuous, and we are bound to encounter all kinds of contradictions in our progress. For example, light and darkness, truth, goodness and beauty, falsehood and ugliness, life and death, bitterness and joy, gain and loss, tears and humiliation, good times and bad times, etc. The fundamental position and attitude towards these contradictions is the human attitude.
The attitude of life mainly includes people's overall intention of social life, the continuity of life, beliefs, and the way to respond to a variety of life situations, it is the formation of people in the practice of social life of life issues of the stability of the psychological tendency. As the main content of the outlook on life, human attitude is the most direct expression and reaction of the outlook on life. Human attitude is the mentality and attitude towards life, that is, what to regard life as, different attitudes produce different life and values. Is it a game of life? Is to make a difference? Is it listening to God's will? Is it treating everyone well? Or is it getting by? This is a variety of our human attitude.
Second, set up a positive attitude towards life
There are many different attitudes towards life, which can be divided into two types: negative and unproductive, unhelpful to the community and unhelpful to oneself, and optimistic and aggressive attitude towards life.
As the main factor of life outlook, life
attitude is also on the whole positive and progressive, healthy and upward trend, but there are still some wrong views and concepts of contemporary college students to bring a negative impact on their lives.
1, "Everything is pre-conditioned, not pre-conditioned", what kind of mentality and will we to look at the world, to treat life. Positive or negative personal attitude is directly related to our life value can be realized. Positive attitude towards life: it can ignite the fire of people's life, stimulate people's intelligence, and arouse people's spirit of upward mobility. Our life attitude is directly related to whether our ideals can be realized. Ideal is the goal of life and spiritual support, a person with a positive attitude, then, we established the ideal will be identified unswervingly into action, we will have a kind of will not stop until the goal. The power of our positive attitude is to go forward, indomitable spirit, is a kind of fearlessness in the face of death. With a positive attitude towards life, there is a spiritual pillar of life, we will create extraordinary achievements, will maintain high enthusiasm and unremitting courage in the difficult to move forward, will be in the motherland and the appointment of the need for life and death without hesitation to make a brave sacrifice. Negative attitude: personal interests in the first place, a matter of the current, the first for their own intentions, in order to their own self-interest, pulling strings, open the back door, false publicity for personal gain, using power for personal gain, favoritism, the pursuit of private gain; or for the vision of a better life for the struggle suffered setbacks, failed to get what they want, in the experience of life is not fun, they will see life as a pain, and thus the emergence of" See through the red dust" pessimistic attitude towards life; there are some who believe that life is naked, naked to go, the ideal value of life does not have much significance. Therefore, do a day monk hit a day clock, mediocrity, get by, nothing to worry about, numbness and emptiness drunkenness. These negative attitudes are not desirable.
2, the new era of the new era. The human attitude requires that we should have a contemporary pioneering, realistic and innovative, optimistic, helpful, hardworking, patriotic dedication to the good qualities. Hard work, the courage to forge ahead is human in the long-term social practice summarized and sublimated the excellent character. It is also the spirit of the times and the reality of today's society. To correctly recognize and understand the essence of the spirit of hard work. Some people believe that in the modern economic prosperity, scientific and technological progress, the people's material and cultural life greatly improved conditions, and then talk about the spirit of hard work is backward, anachronistic. This is a misunderstanding of hard work. When we speak of hardship, we are not advocating asceticism, but the necessary price to be paid for the realization of a noble goal. It is not an action of being - forced to suffer, but a conscious demand to rise up. In the relationship of hard work and struggle, hardship is relative and struggle is unconditional and absolute. The spirit of hard work will never go out of fashion. Starting from me, cultivate the spiritual quality of hard work and pioneering. In college students, with some students in the study of relaxation of their own requirements, can not do hard work seriously, they think that as long as the university, you can relax their own learning, "60 points on the line". This shows that, in some college students, there is indeed a lack of hard work, pioneering spirit of the problem. Young college students should be the growth of the individual and the development of society closely integrated, and actively participate in social practice,
a comprehensive understanding of society, the correct approach to life, out of the small world of personal life, to achieve the lofty goals of life.
3, we have to establish a correct attitude towards life, first of all, we have to learn how to face setbacks. If we can not stand the test of various setbacks, even if the talent is high, it is impossible to make a difference in the cause. Therefore, the desire of college students to achieve must be backed by a strong tolerance of setbacks, should encounter setbacks do not panic, turning resistance into motivation, prompting us to more vigorous. Full of confidence in the face of setbacks, firmly believe that their ideas are correct, believe that they will succeed, perseverance, perseverance, until the final realization of the goal. It can be said that frustration is a shining line of demarcation between the strong and the weak. Frustration for the strong instead of damage, on the contrary, is a good opportunity to exercise. In a way, setbacks have almost the same value as success. The only difference between the strong and the weak in life is that the weak after a setback and a few setbacks will be backward, do the coward; and the strong in the setbacks, through the cocoon of destiny, chrysalis into a butterfly, through all the obstacles, to achieve success and happiness.
On the road of life, we have to learn to correctly treat the gifts that life brings us, correctly treat the honor and disgrace, correctly treat the bitterness and happiness, correctly treat the good times and bad times. Life is not all good, if too much, will only feel frustrated. If we look at it with a positive attitude, these may be the small gravel that prevents us from succeeding, and maybe one day, these small gravel will become a big diamond that will make us succeed.
Third, the attitude determines success or failure
tired, tired, tired, desperate, such as the walking dead life, life can be as wild as weeds, "wildfire can not be eliminated, the spring breeze blows again"? The answer is "yes". Some people often say: "everything is fate", but they do not realize that fate is a helpless compromise and powerless struggle against reality. The life of all of us ordinary people can not be a pure tragedy or comedy, but a mixed tragedy and comedy. So we have to live warmly and happily with a positive attitude towards life.
Life is not a competitive race, but a test paper to test our attitude. We all know the saying "details determine success or failure", which is respected by millions of people, believed in, and favored. Facts have also proved that details are very important for a person's development. Attitude also determines the success or failure of people. A person, no matter what kind of profession he is in and no matter how capable he is, cannot always have a smooth sailing without touching any problems. There are always moments in life when we have to do something we don't want to do, because our work requires it, or in order to achieve success earlier. There are also moments in life when, even though we have put in a great deal of labor and spent a lot of time and energy, we are still unable to achieve our goals and end up in failure. If we encounter these situations, our hearts certainly can not accept, so what to do? Is it to let nature take its course, give up on ourselves and break the pot, or actively analyze the causes and immediately formulate practical countermeasures?
We have different answers in our minds. Some people may be depressed from now on, and never find the confidence to live life again, just get by. Some people, they can quickly adjust their mindset, from the shadow of failure to save, with greater confidence and enthusiasm into the new study and life, one step at a time. Down-to-earth, and finally achieved success. In the final analysis, the reason why there is such a big difference, the key lies in the mentality. In other words, what kind of mentality will have what kind of life.
Whether a person succeeds or fails in life is determined by a number of factors, such as differences in character, the amount of education, and the degree of diligence. In addition, a person's attitude is also very important, without a good mindset, even if the ability is good, to easily succeed is not too realistic, unlikely, no matter whether our life is smooth or thorns, suffering, we should work hard to struggle with an optimistic and positive attitude to face, even after their own unremitting efforts, and ultimately failed to achieve the success of life. Success in life, we do not have to be too sad, do not have to be too sorry, after all, we have worked hard, and struggled for, and in the pursuit of life, they have performed very well, so, the same is worthy of respect, but also proud.
Fourth, adjust the mentality, and the "enemy" hand
1, negative and positive generation, often with their own living environment and life experience has a great relationship. Some people have lost the warmth of their families since childhood, grown up in a bad job, unhappy marriage, experienced too many ups and downs and setbacks, so that they do not see the meaning of life, do not see the hope of survival. What is the purpose of living? They can't find their goal. In their eyes, everything in the world is dim, and even make people lose the courage to live. In the long run, their attitude towards life can not help but tend to be negative. And in the smooth growth of people, rarely experience setbacks, full of confidence and hope for life, no matter what they do feel meaningful, they show the efforts to forge ahead, from a positive attitude.
2, if the eagle does not have the tenacity of mind, there is no eagle strikes the myth of the sky; if the sea does not have the mentality of tolerance, there is no sea of the magnificence of the river; if the river does not have the mentality of enterprising, there is no it cascades of the majestic. It is the mentality that accomplishes their splendor. Attitude can determine one's approach to things. With a positive attitude to pursue, with a persistent attitude to wait, success is no longer an ethereal watch. Success requires a persistent mindset. Su Wu spent nineteen years in a barbaric place, all alone and hanging by a thread. He was accompanied by the cold wind and the cold moon, and the cold frost and snow, and how many nights he embraced with the cold stars, he ignited the flame of faith. Nineteen lonely spring and autumn, he was persistent in fulfilling his mission. It is his firm belief that let him endure the torment of despair, let him complete the mission to return to his hometown after a long time. Success requires a tenacious attitude. As a musician, Beethoven was deaf in both ears, and there is no greater sorrow in the world than this. But the silent world can not stop the notes of the beating, deafness, can not let the hero sink, Beethoven with tenacity to give the sadness of a powerful rebuff. He danced on the keyboard with his fingers, with both hands
Choreographed a magnificent symphony, a song of "fate", and a "hero", to show the world a soul that does not submit to fate. Success requires tolerance. Qi Huan Gong hired once wounded in his own arrow pipe Zhong, Cao Cao promoted once their ancestors three generations scolded Chen Lin, Tang Taizong appointed with their own sharpening of the tongue of Wei Zheng for the phase ------- Finally, Qi Huan Gong became the first of the five hegemons of the Spring and Autumn period, Cao Cao united the north, and Tang Taizong created the "rule of Zhen Guan". It was they who took a step out of their selfishness and forged their glorious lives. 3. Conceit or negative attitude will only meet with failure. When Xiang Yu was trapped in Jiu Li Mountain. When the decisive courage to break the cauldron in the sad song of Chu song on all sides began to collapse, the former air swallowed the mountains and rivers of the majesty of the Yu Ji crossed the knife of the moment began to shrivel up. Once powerful king but because of conceit lost Jingzhou, Napoleon because of conceit is trapped in Elba Island ------ such examples abound. Visible, attitude determines success. Only with a positive, sunny mindset to pursue, we can harvest success. The difference between successful people and failures is that successful people always control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience at their disposal. Failures, on the contrary, are guided by their past failures and doubts. Whether a person is happy or not depends on his attitude towards life. A happy person always looks towards hope and light, while an unhappy person always complains that he is not as good as others. A good attitude should be to pay hard and pursue hard. With a positive mindset it is easy to get happiness and easy to get success.
No matter what kind of situation we encounter, we should maintain that valuable positive attitude. No matter how many problems we face, we have a positive attitude to go all out, give yourself a strong reason to fail, with a positive attitude to ignite despair, give up on their own failure to complain, with a positive attitude to face any predicament, with the "enemy" hand in hand, set up a new life goals, choose a never-say-die road, break through the cocoon of life. The first thing you need to do is to get out of the cocoon of your life.