When I was a child, I wanted to go to the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. I must go as long as my body allows. Because I'm retired, I have a lot of off-peak hours. I will never compete with young people for resources in prime time. On the contrary, I can adopt anti-seasonal thinking.
For example, I want to see Hulunbeier's spring, summer, autumn and winter; Mohe in Xia Dong; Xi 'an in autumn; The Forbidden City in autumn and winter; Jiangnan in spring. . . . . My mouth is watering. I've been studying strategy for a long time, and I'm waiting for time to travel.
You can drive by car and backpack, you can play and you can have fun.
Second, "do"
Start the dusty electric sewing machine.
Strive to realize the design in my mind and notebook, make something I like, have applications and have characteristics, enjoy it by myself, send it to my friends when it is ready, and keep it for myself to play!
Various DIY walks, such as playing with wood, piecing together, and home improvement.
Third, "throw"
give
Subtract life, subtract troubles.
My son has his own son's life. When I retired, my son basically graduated from college. Later, he struggled on his own, and my cultivation process came to an end. Throw away things that don't suit you, make your home refreshing, don't hoard too much goods, reduce your shopping desire and make your life more and more comfortable. You don't have to think about good looks, face, identity and so on. Just like it and be happy. Don't worry about things that you can't control. If children want to listen, give them some advice. If they don't want to hear it, let them struggle by themselves.
Fourth, "control"
1, don't be an old man who smells like an old man.
I take the initiative to take a bath every week if I can move. The bathing culture in Northeast China is still good, and refreshing the brain is better than anything else.
2, do not do square dance to disturb the elderly.
It is not easy for young people. More tolerance and understanding. Can't you find a place to play by yourself?
Don't be an old man who lives with children.
We can't sleep, and the child can't get up. Don't live under one roof. Time has a different rhythm, so don't get yourself into trouble.
4. Old people who do nothing and don't study.
Keep learning and don't derail from society. Mobile phones are not only used to brush circles and praise blessings. You should apply what you have learned and learn from it. Try to have the same topic with young people, at least let the grandson feel that his milk is ok, but he can't, but he must understand.