As a 4-year north drifter, I look forward to the weekend at the beginning of the week, and dread the beginning of the week at the end! It's hard to go back and forth.
Our home is less than 70 kilometers from the unit, I go home as usual by train back. And it is the train reverse bus. No way, the long-distance bus is not as fast as the train, and the train is not jammed. Home in Zhangjiakou colleagues, and later thought of waiting for the opening of Beijing and Zhang high-speed rail, high-speed rail commuting every day
I insisted on taking the train 8 hours a week to work round trip for 30 years!
The experience is that it's great to be able to go home every week, even if it's a 300-kilometer ride.
The experience is that it's nice to be able to go home every week, even if it's a 300 kilometer ride.
A you go back every week, then certainly do not worry about the old man, daughter-in-law and children. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world!
Second, to ask you, why do not you put your parents, daughter-in-law, children to your work in the city a living ah! In fact, we all know, the work of the city housing prices, high prices, high cost of living, and your city on the third and fourth line of the city, what are not high, so the family is not willing to work in the city to buy a house to settle .
Third, there is another situation, that is, you have a high income, or even you are a company boss, in the work of the city has a car and a house, but also all the family members to live together, live for a period of time, the old man may not be accustomed to live. Both of you are busy with work during the day, what do the elderly do? Send children to school in the morning, in the go to the market to buy food, pick up children in the afternoon, make dinner and wait for you two mouths off work Around the neighbors have do not know, and will not practice the sword, and will not dance, week after week On the inappropriate, the old people go back. So you have to take the bus back to see them every week.
Put now is very normal, a lot of work in Shanghai, part of the Kunshan or Huaqiao Qiandeng live, most of the factors are too expensive rent in Shanghai 2000 yuan to rent a small room, the high cost of living, the wage can be less, most of the work in Shanghai is 9 o'clock, so live farther away, get up earlier in the morning is still possible, coupled with the road can also nap a little bit, part of the people can still accept. It's all a matter of what life throws at you!
It should be happier, the North spends an hour and a half every day to squeeze the subway to the company, after working overtime, and then spend an hour and a half to go home, which is 3 hours, every day on weekdays, countless North is so busy with the livelihood, life posture is not comfortable. The owner goes home once a week, in fact, is very happy.
Of course, the owner sent, certainly feel mixed feelings, but compare others, will find comfort in the soul.
300 kilometers per week by train to and from home and work. The two sets of data, every week and 300 kilometers, should not get too many people ****ing, especially for those who do not have a similar experience, may also feel like a vacation like comfortable. You also shouldn't be complaining about these two sets of data for the sake of it, when you bring it up, but rather the powerlessness and helplessness behind these two sets of data.
The joy of family life is a human desire, and the trivial matters of family life, clothing, food, housing and transportation, also need time and energy to take care of. Especially parents with children need to spend time with their children's growth. Moving away from home and working in another city. Both in pursuit of a better salary, better job prospects, better development platform, but also a kind of helpless choice, the fish and the bear can not get both ah!
I believe you are running between the two cities also have a certain number of years, at this time you raise this question, feel that you want to make a choice again! At the very least, you're tempted.
Do you know what it's like to commute to your home and workplace by train every week? It's less than 300 kilometers from home. You do not experience this well, but my unit is more than a thousand kilometers away from home, and every time I go home is also by train. So I also have a little bit of feeling. Thought I'd share.
1: distance is not a problem
When it comes to working far away from home, I think in many people's hearts are not acceptable, unless absolutely necessary. So when I first came to my unit to report, our leader asked me a question, saying that the distance from your home to this side is more than 1,000 kilometers, and you need about ten hours to go back and forth. May I ask how you came up with the idea of coming to work here? I don't know if you have come across similar questions. Guess how I answered? I said that I was in the transportation business, and if I was afraid of the distance, what about those who were not in the transportation business? In fact, it was just one sentence, that is, the nature of our work is nationwide, you can go to any place to look for a job, but it happens to find this side, that way it is better to say a little bit. It is also this sentence, let our leadership on the impression of better, he felt that this young man is still more motivated.
But what is the real idea in my heart? It just wasn't this. It's just that the nature of my job is really such that I chose him and I have to accept this reality. And I'm young, I don't care how far away from home I am. I can go to break through, so I chose to work in the field.
2: The feeling of going home from the unit
First of all, let's talk about going home from the unit: going home from the unit is a very luxurious thing. The subject's distance is only 300 kilometers, and he can go back on weekends. The distance from my home is more than 1000km, and I can only go back once every six months, or sometimes even once a year. So every time I find out from my organization that I can go home, I am especially excited. I prepare the train ticket in advance. It's worth mentioning that I have to get up and leave at 6:00 a.m. in the morning when I go home by train from my workplace in order to reach home in time for the night. The kind of motivation I feel when I go home is the kind of state I can't find in any other occasion at work. I was especially excited and motivated. Leaving after 6am, I was able to wake up naturally at 5am to pack up and head out the door.
Although the distance is long and it takes about ten hours to get home from the office, these ten hours on the way home I hardly feel it because I am in a state of exhilaration the whole time, I can look at the scenery from the window, and look at other people in the carriages. I all felt that the time passed very quickly, one moment, one hour, one moment, two hours, and in no time at all half of it was gone. Even sometimes when I get on the train, I think about what I'm going to eat when I get home. What time to sleep at night and so on a series of life at home in the brain first over again, because this life, I want too much.
3: From home to the unit
See the excitement of going home from the unit, that from home to the unit, it is a psychological struggle. How does this comparison manifest itself? I give an example, once I went home from the unit without a ticket, buy a standing ticket, the whole more than ten hours, I have been standing from the unit side to the home side, I never felt tired. On the way back, the ticket was more generous, so I took a sleeper ticket. I slept in the car until I got to the flat, but I felt very sleepy and even a little bit resistant sometimes. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this, and I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this.
4: The unit is my second home
After reading some of the descriptions above, some people may think that since they are so reluctant to work in the field, why don't they go back to their hometowns to work? I would like to say that although there is that kind of idea in, but in the comprehensive consideration and judgment, I am still more suitable to stay in this side of the development. Secondly, after I arrived at the organization, the organization also takes very good care of foreigners, because they know that it is not easy for us to come from abroad to work here, and we have to overcome a lot of psychological barriers. So there will be some compensation for us can not be regarded as compensation, but special care. As time passed, I slowly integrated into the life here, began to speak the dialect here, began to communicate with the people around me, and mingled with them. The same is equivalent to re-construct a my social circle, this time slowly I also regard the unit as my second home, these feelings and so on also have a better.
I don't know what kind of mindset we all have. I'm not sure if you're a fan of this.
What is this distance? Isn't it too much better than not having a job?