Retirement is free. No longer subject to the control of working hours, no longer be bound by the unit's trivialities, and no longer need to look at the face of the leadership, they can finally dominate their own time and life, can live out their own appearance.
What should I look like?
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "We were so eager for the waves of destiny, and in the end we found that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calmness and composure of the heart. We have been so looking forward to the recognition of the outside world, only to realize in the end that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others."
The past is in the past, even if the entanglement is not much change, or cherish the current life. What others think is theirs, and we don't live for their eyes at all.
Why do we live so tired? It is because our hearts are loaded with too many trivial things, such as fame and fortune, greed, and always want to be better than others. As a result, there is less and less happiness, and a lot of good time will be wasted by us.
Life is not bitter, bitter is too much desire; hearts are not tired, tired is too much demand.
The messy things from the inner clear out, put the heart empty, enrich themselves, return to a quiet heart, enjoy the inner calm and calm.
This kind of elegant and wise realization of life is precisely the attitude of the retirees.
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The end of the stressful life on time and on point, can finally slow down, in the slow rhythm to enjoy their own cozy leisure, quietly feel all the beauty of life.
The original rush to deal with the breakfast, now can be carefully prepared. Two eggs and scallions pancakes, adjust a parsley fungus, stir-fried plate chili leeks, and then casually get a soup. Then slowly taste, elegant taste, let the happy time in the lips and teeth flow.
Choose your favorite book, brew a cup of tea, savor the charm of the text, fully open the wings of their imagination, flying over the world's famous mountains and rivers, gently soothe the softness of the protagonist's heart, heaven and earth in the heart.
Feeling tired, a little bit of housework, beautify their own rooms, so that the interest is more elegant, so that the living more casual, so that the rhythm and then some of the slow, enjoy the joy of life.
The rest of his life has not been long, we do not know who comes first tomorrow and accident, then let us cherish the time in the rest of his life.
03
In the small square to stay a long time, always tired. The first thing you need to do is to choose a remote town with mountains, water and fresh air, rent a hut, and go to live in a period of clean days every year.
Change the environment, feel the flavor of the foreign environment, regulate their mood.
In the morning, along the winding mountain paths, or walking or jogging, feel the air and the past is very different, unknown flowers and wild grasses into your eyes, the soul is soothed by the softer, more calm.
In the afternoon, sitting alone under the pine tree in front of the door, looking up at the green mountains and white clouds, overlooking the trees and forests, and smelling the fragrance of the grass and soil, you can let yourself and the nature into one, and be happy.
In the evening by the clear brook, let the gurgling water accompanied by the sunset, feel the heart slowly calm down, experience the impatience a little bit dissipated, listen to your own heart, so that the heart becomes lighter.
Lao She said: life is a kind of rhythm, there must be light and shadow, there are left and right, there are sunny and rainy, the flavor is contained in this change and not fierce twists and turns.
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I've lived most of my life, and I've known many different types of people. When I was young, I had to think about everything, and even if I didn't want to, I had to socialize with some people.
Now it is not the same, as far as possible and a few like-minded good friends, idle together with a drink, sip tea, casual conversation, enjoy let each other emotionally communicating with the pleasure of time.
Some people are cheerful and optimistic, and can often make you happy and happy, so that your depressed mood instantly stretch; some people are very satisfied with life, even if the bumps can always see the sun, you will be infected, and feel that the people around you are angels, and you will be living in heaven.
You are bound to have a few heartfelt friends. They can understand your joy and sorrow, share your joy when you are happy, comfort you when you are sad, and accompany you when you are depressed, encouraging you to get out of the trough of life, and happily welcome the splendor of tomorrow.
To be with friends who like sports, there is a fixed time every day to run, play ball, play tai chi and square dance. Not only exercise the body, plump up the years, but also make our lifestyle healthier.
With such people, every day is positive, every day is full of joy, every day is healthy and lucky.
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Find a few old classmates, old colleagues and old friends, and take a trip. When I was young, I wanted to go to places I didn't have time to go, and now I have time to make up for that.
You just need to go out, you will feel a kind of freshness, and your mood will become cheerful. Going forward with your traveling companions, singing, dancing, laughing, and taking pictures will brighten up your life.
The most beautiful scenery is on the road, and the surprises along the way, your long-dormant curiosity is aroused, and your heart has renewed optimism, self-confidence and understanding.
You have seen the rough sea, you will find that the small winds and waves of life is not worth mentioning; you have seen the peaks of the clouds, you will feel that the original as big as a mountain of difficulties, is now simply a piece of foot can be kicked open the rotten brick.
The longer you have traveled, the more calm your temperament will be, and the broader your mind will be.
Now that you're retired, it's time to relax. The years are long, life is too short. Or let us enjoy the comfort of retirement and run the last good time!