1. The pressure of learning is too great to bear.
2. Family reasons.
3. Being bullied at school.
4. Early adolescent love struck.
I. Falling teen smashes innocent grandmother to death
This breathtaking and regrettable accident happened on April 13, when a suicidal teenager smashed a passing grandmother after falling from a building, and the two eventually died.
The suicidal teenager was in his teens when he climbed up to the 22nd floor of the neighborhood on the evening of the accident.
From the surveillance video, you can see that the teenager did not hesitate before jumping, and was very determined to commit suicide.
A downstairs in the same neighborhood, a sixtysomething woman happened to pass by, and the child fell right on the grandmother.
Someone then passed by the accident scene and rushed to call the police and 120 emergency services.
The accident was heartbreaking and regrettable, and the grandmother can be said to have suffered, and hopefully she will be able to rest in peace on the other side of the world.
At the same time teenagers choose to jump to their deaths, very shocking, but also let people have to once again attention to the problem of teenage suicide.
Two, teenage suicide cause analysisThe teenager did not leave a last word or suicide note before jumping off the building, no one knows the truth of his jump.
But combined with the previous causes of teenage suicide by jumping from a building, we can speculate that there are probably the following reasons:
1. Too much pressure to study
(1) heavy learning in school
According to the statistics and surveys, every year because of the pressure of learning to kill themselves The number of teenagers is quite large.
Among these suicidal teenagers, students in middle and high school especially account for the largest proportion.
The teenager who committed suicide in this accident was only a teenager and was in the middle and high school stage.
Not only was school workload heavy every day, they had to study seven to nine subjects.
The pressure of studying can be imagined to be very high as you have to complete a lot of test papers and other assignments at home after vacation.
(2) A lot of homework outside of school
And at the same time, the parents may have enrolled the child in other cramming classes and training courses.
So not only does the child have to complete the homework assigned by the school, but also the homework assigned by the tutor.
Under dual academic pressure, the teenager couldn't cope with the burden and may have chosen to commit suicide.
2. Family reasons
Besides the pressure of studying, family changes are also a major cause of teenage suicides.
Children whose parents frequently fight in front of the children in the house or whose parents are divorced are prone to psychological problems.
Adolescents at the stage of puberty are at an important stage of psychological development.
They are easy to be influenced by external factors to produce negative emotions, but lack the ability and experience to regulate themselves.
If the school and home fail to recognize the child's psychological problems and channel them in time, the child may choose to commit suicide.
3. Suffering from school bullying
In recent years, there have been frequent incidents of teenagers committing suicide because of bullying at school.
On the one hand, because of the Internet age, the Internet is full of all kinds of negative energy, and young people can easily be polluted and do the wrong thing.
On the other hand, because of the complexity of the social environment nowadays, teenagers generally mature earlier.
And after teenagers suffer from bullying in school, many children don't dare to take the initiative to ask their parents and school teachers for help.
On the one hand, it's because they are at an age when they want to save face, and feel that it's easy to be stigmatized by other students for snitching.
On the other hand, it's common for school bullies to threaten the bullied party with more serious retaliation if they tell their parents or school.
Long-term bullying makes teenagers prone to extreme emotions and choose to commit suicide.
4. Early love in adolescence is hit
Teenagers in adolescence are in the budding stage of love, and they are prone to early love.
The teenagers who fall in love early may be found out by the school or may be found out by their parents, and then the relationship is forced to end.
When one's pure and innocent love affair is interrupted by parents and school, because teenagers are in the rebellious stage, they are prone to think twice.
Children who are open-minded will gradually come out of the shadow of lost love and it will not affect their growth.
And some emotional extreme children, may be forced to lose love unable to think of suicide.
Three, how to prevent teenage suicide
Preventing teenage suicide requires not only the efforts of the teenagers themselves, but also the efforts of the society, schools and parents*** together.
1. Appropriate reduction of study pressure
Schools and parents should give teenagers reasonable study tasks, avoiding excessively heavy homework or giving children too much study pressure.
Some unnecessary classes or tutorials should not be enrolled, and more time should be given to the children themselves.
2. Preventing and stopping bullying in schools
If bullying is found in a school, the school should intervene in time to stop it from happening again.
Combat the school bullying culture by severely punishing the school bullying party.
Schools and parents need to control the child, give the child more love and care, as well as keep an eye on the child to see if the bullying continues.
3. Correctly dealing with early love
It is very normal for adolescents to fall in love early, and schools and parents should not intervene too much.
When a student is found to be in love, parents and schools can gently tell the student about the dangers of early love, and deal with the problem of early love through positive intervention.
4. Give your child a pleasant family environment
Parents should not argue too much in front of their children, especially when problems arise, parents should not blame the other party too much in front of the children.
Some mothers and fathers like to say bad things about the other party in front of the child after a conflict, and ask the child not to get close to the other party.
This will give the child a lot of psychological pressure, because for the parents, the child's love is the same, to make a choice itself is cruel.
Even if there is a conflict or divorce, parents should tell the child that it's not a big deal, and that mom and dad will always love him and won't abandon him.
5. Teenagers can work on their own to overcome negative emotions
Teenagers can strengthen their bodies by improving their physical fitness and mental fitness.
It is also possible to read more relevant books and learn how to get rid of negative emotions, and to be a person who can enlighten himself.
At the same time, teenagers need to spend more time with positive people and actively reject the influence of negative energy on the Internet.
When they have been hurt, they should tell their parents or teachers in a timely manner, and don't worry about losing face, knowing that their parents or teachers will always be their reliable guardians in their own growth.
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