Maybe I am old, and the old life of the characters in the play gives me hope. Maybe I have so many girlfriends, which leads to the bad singing of * * *.
In short, "old girlfriends" cannot be ignored. It presents us with a real and interesting old-age life and a bittersweet life experience.
The five protagonists are well-known old actors, and their acting skills are natural, which makes people feel very cordial, as if they were neighbors, colleagues and friends living around us.
0 1 When people are old, they should have friends if they have money.
The five girlfriends in the play, all in their sixties, have entered retirement.
They each have their own life experiences and different personalities.
Briefly introduce some ex-girlfriends.
Irene played by Pan Hong is the teacher of the old dance company. She is noble, fashionable and has personality. Both her sons have settled in America, and she is alone, but unfortunately she is terminally ill.
The actor played by Sun Di is honest and frank. After retirement, Suzhou went to his son, unwilling to be idle, and looked for a job everywhere.
Wang Fuli, known as the first eldest sister-in-law in China's film industry, plays a lonely old man Yi and runs a coffee shop left by her son. Beautiful, kind and profound.
Teacher Song played by Song Xiaoying is the happiest aunt in the play. Her husband and daughter * * * are the "old girls" who love each other. She wears pink, talks, and learns to drive in her sixties.
Wu Mian, the youngest of these actors, plays "Sister Hong" in the play. He was born as a bus conductor. He has a hot temper, keeps his word and takes good care of his family.
Birds of a feather flock together, birds of a feather flock together, and several strangers are attracted to each other, which must have its inherent * * *.
They are sincere and kind, with a sense of justice and responsibility.
A health care product fraud incident, they became the parties, all of them were brave.
From acquaintance to acquaintance, they soon became girlfriends who talked about everything. Help each other in the face of life difficulties.
Because of the girlfriends group, their lives are more interesting than ever.
Being old is not terrible, but loneliness is terrible.
Now that China has become an aging country, the problem of providing for the aged cannot be ignored. Holding a group for the elderly is a good choice.
In the few years when you can take care of yourself, try not to cause trouble to your children.
After entering the age of 70, most of them are only children, and even children may work and live in other places. Be sure to arrange the rest of your life.
An old lady in her seventies in our community comes from Baoding. My son got married and had children in our town, and she followed the children after retirement.
As a result, I was not happy with my children. Soon after, my son and daughter-in-law borrowed money to buy a house and went to live.
Besides, if you have children, you would rather hire a nanny than let your mother take care of them.
Whenever I meet this old man who lives alone in the community, I always feel pity.
The old man is withdrawn, living in a foreign land and having no relatives or friends.
Actually, why do you want to live with your son? I have relatives and friends in my hometown Baoding, and I also have my own house. Everything there is familiar.
The old man's 40-year-old son is a fortune. When his wife died early, the children became the only support for the elderly.
This is the reason why she refused to go back to her hometown anyway.
In fact, if she can make new friends, find her own joy in life and be mentally independent, she may have a better relationship with her children.
Therefore, when you are old, you must have a friend who can help each other wherever you are.
In the news, there have been many reports that the elderly living alone are sick and unattended, and even died for many days before being discovered. If there were such a group of caring old friends in the play, the evening scene would not be bleak.
Money is the guarantee of the life of the elderly, but to be honest, what the elderly lack most is not money. They don't spend much money.
Spiritual enrichment and emotional comfort are what they need most. Friends and girlfriends are the most comfortable spiritual support outside the family.
When you are old, you can't live without friends.
Life in old age can still be colorful.
The five old aunts in the play are well-off, whether they are the savings they worked hard to save when they were young or the conditions their children created for their parents.
The economic foundation without worries is only the background of life, and a positive attitude towards life and a rich spiritual world are the icing on the cake.
Besides taking care of the family's daily life, Sister Hong goes to the park to dance square dance every day. Irene is still in charge of the old model team because of illness. Dr. Liu continued to look for a job to exert his residual heat. Teacher Song took the driver's license test regardless of others' ridicule. Yimei insisted on Aiko's cafe and made a difference.
They have turned life into a mood of love after holding a group to support the elderly.
They drove to the town for a holiday, let colorful silk scarves fly with the wind on the picturesque grass, went to the online celebrity garden in the suburbs to enjoy flowers, embroidered a picture of the Riverside Scene at Qingming Festival made by their ex-girlfriend at Teacher Song's house, and made an appointment to go to Europe to see Leonardo da Vinci.
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I remember when I was a child, my mother and my aunts. They take care of their families, farm and go to work, rest all year round, work hard and have little space for themselves.
As far as I can remember, my mother was an old lady when she was forty or fifty years old, and her clothes were always blue, black and gray, with a unified conservative style.
The hairstyle is neck-length short hair. Although clean and tidy, it has not changed for many years.
When you are 70 or 80 years old, bask in the sun at the root of the wall every day. Chat with some old friends, chat.
This is related to the overall concept and social environment of that era.
Now our living conditions have generally improved, and the tolerance of society has also increased. Old people can still live a colorful life after retirement.
Travel and make friends, go to senior college, volunteer and learn what you like.
Some old people feel that they are old, weak and of little use. They tend to feel pessimistic, feeling that the best days are gone forever and life becomes meaningless.
In fact, this is the most terrible self-repression. Although people are going downhill in their old age, they never refuse anyone because of their age.
This is the inevitable trend of life, and everyone has to experience it. What is the meaning of life? Existence is meaning. Living in the present is the meaning.
Keep a young heart, enjoy the afterglow of old age, and look at the ups and downs of life with a mature attitude, then living is a kind of happiness.
Just like the five old girlfriends in the play, they are positive, love life and live a free and happy life in their own way.
Accompany each other and grow old bravely together.
Life is precious, love is more expensive, and friendship is indispensable.
There is a scene in the play that deeply touched me.
Aunt Mei's coffee shop is facing demolition, which is the only thought left by her dead son.
She once refused a visa, and the poor mother vowed to defend the castle of the soul.
At this time, the attitude of several girlfriends is to stick to it with Yimei.
Later, when Aunt Mei learned that the children's hospital in the city could not be expanded because of some "nail households" like her, and the problems of children's difficulty in seeing a doctor and hospitalization could not be solved, Aunt Mei compromised, but her heart was bleeding.
The ex-girlfriend looks in her eyes and hurts in her heart.
When Yimei came to the cafe demolition site in the middle of the night, girlfriends also quietly gathered together to accompany Yimei.
In the cold night, several old girlfriends held hands and looked up at the old building being demolished.
I believe that it is not only Yimei who is moved at this time, but also the audience.
Aunt Mei's broken heart was not scattered all over the floor. It was the understanding and love of her girlfriends that relieved her pain.
This is friendship. Maybe I can't do anything for you, or even feel the same way as you, but we can stand by your side and face the storm of life with you.
In this world, no one is not lonely, but the companionship of friendship can alleviate the anxiety caused by loneliness.
Several ex-girlfriends are also ordinary people. They don't have the power to cover the sky with one hand, and they don't have the support of lavish wealth, but they have more noble things to give each other.
It is sincere dedication, careful understanding and intimate company.
No matter which one of them is in trouble, the others will definitely drop everything and come.
Aunt Mei received a fraudulent phone call and everyone handled it together. When Dr. Liu met an unruly customer, everyone pretended to be a reporter and took revenge together. Sister Hong's grandson was "kidnapped" by her grandmother in Shanghai, and everyone drove to rob the child. ...
At this time, it is my business without you, and everyone's business is everyone's business. Maybe we old women don't have much strength, but we are invincible when we get together.
This is also the way to keep in touch with society when people get old. With the company of friends, life will be infinitely warm in the old age, and the weakening heart will become brave.