I met this woman at breakfast, and an old woman, they cut the firewood in the village department into cuts, and then stacked and arranged neatly.
The woman, who is 80 years old and skinny and bony, is the feeling inside the countryside like doing things too much, like doing things too much, during the Qingming Festival, she was doing tea in the old branch processing plant, picking tea leaves in her spare time, and she took over when the cook was not available.
After dinner, she danced with the old ladies in the square, only she was flexible.
I have a feeling that there is this class of hard-working women here in addition to some of the women who sell hemp batches. According to village cadres, there are many women here, because they did not go to school and their husbands work outside all year round, they planted their own fields, drove their own cultivators, pesticides, and did things on their own, and did things like a man.
This is a very small number of women.
More often than not, some women have a bunch of lovers and are selling hemp batches.
There are times when I even feel that women are the same as women, that is a different life.
One of my cousins, Sister Goose, did not go to school, married and gave birth to a son, her husband to do construction workers, specializing in building walls. She did not go out to earn a penny in her life, her husband earned all the money to her, she is also very lazy, home hygiene and other things do not engage in, her husband's four or five brothers, earlier, she and her sisters-in-law quarrelled, blaming the dead father-in-law, smashed the father-in-law's tombstone. Only this thing, her husband hit her once. She was born happy, take her husband's money, play down the small cards, to her parents spend money especially willing, because her husband earned all the money to her, her husband can also earn money, her mother, my aunt to buy clothes, eat all she bought, never care. Just such a woman, never went to work all her life, never earned a penny all her life, happy, carefree, she has a son, the year before the Xiangtan University key undergraduate. So we often sigh, women are life, life is good everything is good. Other people's children, training here and there, but also very naughty. And she can't read a few words, she doesn't even know what training is, she just does her husband's wife. The husband is good, the son is better, the husband does not spend a little effort, the son grew up to read even more without a little effort.
Her sister, my other cousin, my oldest sister, she is the pride of our whole family. She graduated from high school and worked for more than ten years, every year earned money to the aunts and uncles to build a house, and then more than thirty years old before finding a foreign marriage and children, have children in the mother's home to sit in the month, afraid of parents difficult to do, they spend money on their own to renovate the mother's home. In the early days of her husband's business, has been losing money, she has been taking her own salary to subsidize her husband, just like when she was young, the salary is all taken to her parents. At the beginning of her husband's business, she took all her salary to subsidize her husband. Because she was an accountant. Later, her husband's business got bigger and bigger and he had about ten million dollars in assets. Her husband thought that since she had only one daughter and was separated for many years, he had found a divorced mistress. She and her daughter then went back to her mother's house. Her husband called her daughter, who stood on the same side as her mother and refused to answer her father's phone calls, saying that she would disown him if he did not return to the family. Later, there was no other way, this brother-in-law still personally came to the aunt and uncle's house to take the big sister back home. Just business is doing so big, the man is dissatisfied with the desire, drove away the first mistress, and came to Zhangjiajie second mistress. But at that time, the big sister has resigned, officially in her husband's company as a financial, she would have been a senior accountant, the company's accounts, all through her hands. Zhangjiajie's junior, the car she took back. In Zhangjiajie to junior buy a house, junior also obediently transferred to the name of the big sister. Just brother-in-law transferred out of the money, the big sister also did not go after it again...... Big sister has always been the family's role model and honor, but it is her so capable people, can not escape the fate of the arrangement, the beginning of the business, their own wages all to the husband advances, after the success of the success of the family, can only be repeated again and again to beat the little three. Her husband while looking for a mistress at the same time, at the same time, perhaps taking into account years of affection, *** with the interests of the same, did not ask for a divorce. But brother-in-law does not look for a mistress, mistress also has been posting over one after another. Men have money, do not need to find his own, those juniors are forward and backward over. There are many people who say that the most important thing is that the eldest sister only had a daughter, her husband's family, the family, all think that her husband should have a son. Her husband is also full of desire and thinks he should have a son when he is rich.
Women's destiny is ultimately doomed to put. The cousin who is plainly lazy and abnormal has a good husband and a good son. She has never earned a penny in her life, and she lives off her husband.
Capable and beautiful hard-working big sister, early childhood for their parents, more than ten years of wages for their parents to build a house. Initially, for the husband's entrepreneurial advances, a handful of wages to their husbands. But when the success of the work, but always in the days of time and time again to beat the mistress of life. The good thing is that the big sister daughter is also still obedient, the cultivation of the daughter is not our small county second and third-tier cities can be compared. Big sister daughter was going to go to Cambridge to study abroad, on the international high school in Shanghai. But it happens to be a few years epidemic, more than 3 million tuition to come up with. So she had to settle for the next best thing, going to school at the University of Hong Kong.
I think the big sister has been paying for others all her life, for her parents for her mother's family at an early age. At the beginning of her career, for her husband. But after her success, she still wants to beat up her mistress. This is human nature.
And that sister, lazy, playing cards all her life, never said that her husband will betray her, all her life is well clothed and well fed, generous to her parents, her own head of the family. The old son is the best in the world. The son is obedient again.
I think this sister's life is the life that more people want.