Tao Yonglin and Huang Xiaoyun is an elementary school classmate, because Huang Xiaoyun young especially beautiful, so Tao Yonglin read the fifth grade when she secretly liked, as the goddess of him in the heart of the crush, but never dare to confess.
Later, because of changes in the world, Tao Yonglin has never seen the goddess, but he has always been in his heart her position, more than 30 years still occupy a place.
Tao Yonglin was 18 years old when he was introduced to his ex-wife and married, but also had a relatively happy time, he repaired motorcycles, and later sold bicycles, the business is getting bigger and bigger, up to the time, the annual income of one or two million.
Who knows, four years ago, his business failed debt, and his ex-wife's father had cancer, really the house leaks and rain, he felt miserable, one day in the street wandering Tao Yonglin actually met his first love, Huang Xiaoyun, they have been 30 years have not met.
The unexpected meeting, so that Tao Yonglin very happy, he really did not think that this life can still see his first love, when he knew that Huang Xiaoyun has been divorced, a person with a child, he felt heart broken: he has been placed in the love of the tip of the person, how can a person with a child life? No, this time I must no longer miss her, must love her well, give her a home.
In order to be with his first love, Tao Yonglin defied the opposition of his wife and already grown daughter, soon divorced his ex-wife, and with Huang Xiaoyun.
But Tao Yonglin, who was overwhelmed by excitement, forgot the fatal point: he had no money at the time, very poor, not even and Huang Xiaoyun 9 yuan to pull the marriage license, his ex-wife gave him money to pull the license.
While Huang Xiaoyun is completely different, because although she is divorced, she has always earned her own money and spent it on herself, no matter before or after marriage, and she still has some savings because she is competent and pretty and can speak well.
So when the beautiful love is realized to eat, sleep and such trivial life above, the contradiction began to come: because Tao Yonglin did not have the money to buy a house, so he could only himself and his daughter together to rent a house to live, and Huang Xiaoyun has been living in the ex-husband stayed in the house.
Just because the couple did not live together, is living in different places, so Tao Yonglin is always worried about his wife to his hat, so they have strict rules.
In order to constrain the first love, Tao Yonglin and Huang Xiaoyun signed the so-called "trial divorce agreement", which specifies in detail what Xiaoyun can do, can not do anything, the time is one year, if Xiaoyun violated one of them, they will divorce unconditionally.
All the terms of this agreement are aimed at Huang Xiaoyun, for example, no matter what time, as long as the Tao Yonglin to Huang Xiaoyun call or video, must be replied to within 5 minutes, otherwise Tao Yonglin will be angry, and Tao Yonglin also does not allow Huang Xiaoyun to go out to sing, dance and other recreational activities.
To this end they quarreled many times, but Tao Yonglin said: he for Huang Xiaoyun has been divorced, so she must be fully responsible for him, or else he will have to die with her, because Tao Yonglin is with life to love her!
And in order to monitor Huang Xiaoyun, who has more clients in the clothing business, Tao Yonglin went out of his way to ask someone to follow Huang Xiaoyun and record more than 100 audio recordings of her talking to men on the phone, which he felt was the best evidence of Huang Xiaoyun's mind-bending relationship with other men.
Hearing this, Huang Xiaoyun smiled: as a businesswoman, how could she not deal with male clients? Tao Yonglin's love suffocated her.
While Tao Yonglin believes that Huang Xiaoyun just do not take him as a husband, otherwise they have obviously registered marriage, but she never let him send his and Huang Xiaoyun together with the circle of friends, she also do not send, as the "invisible husband", which is in order to make it easier for her to date other men, so that others think she is still single.
Tao Yonglin had no choice but to ask a reporter from the Love Group, who said he could forgive his wife for her affair with another man, as long as she could go home, and Huang Xiaoyun said that it was the most normal friendships, and that Tao Yonglin was insulting her.
Once a classmate, now a couple but therefore argued to the end, finally, they in Huang Xiaoyun's insistence on divorce, the most let feel ridiculous, Tao Yonglin a divorce, immediately went to find his ex-wife remarriage, the result is obvious, his ex-wife refused to even see the face of the last only left him alone.
Love is to give, is to give, is not possession,, more is not a prisoner, just because Tao Yonglin has a strong desire to possess, so when he saw his first love again, he wanted to take possession of his own, but he forgot, after many years, they have long been not the year of the schoolchildren, their respective trajectory of life has been too many changes, the two to be together again, need to carry a lot of things there are a lot more.
And he went out of his way to betray his marriage in order to be able to marry his first love, which is the most fundamental reason why Huang Xiaoyun and his ex-wife, and even his children, can't forgive him.
In fact, many times, the best first love can only be treasured in the heart, treasured in the memories, otherwise everything is completely different.
It is said that Japan was once a very popular activity, called the search for "looking for the first love", some people like Tao Yonglin, in order to realize that year's unresolved matters of the heart, and the first love of the marriage of the effort, the result is to find that, when the goddess of Goddess, long ago turned into today's vulgar intolerable aunt, and when the Prince Charming, but also The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was so happy to see you.
Because there are some things that are really only suitable for memories, only suitable for it quietly stay in the deepest part of their hearts, rather than letting it see the sunshine, and can not be harmed by others, or else the last hurt is their own body, and not others.
In this life, love you, fortunately; once have you, enough!