Elderly people without grandchildren are happier in their old age.
Because the old people's life has become richer and they have their own ideas. Some of them think, "The world is so big, I want to go and see it." Some want to get up in the morning to go shopping and buy groceries, and dance in the evening; some stay at home, raise flowers, practice writing, watch TV, and pursue an inner peace and stability. In short, they can freely dispose of their old age, no longer around the children.
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1) Don't count too much between family members, what model is not important, the important thing is that the elderly and the young people should communicate with each other well.
Some young people like to bring up their own children, they do not like the old man to interfere, do not want to intergenerational education, but their own hands, because many old people are easy to spoil the child, but also like to use the previous outdated set of ideas to educate the child.
If the old man wants to help, he can subsidize some of the money, so that the young man's pressure will be slowed down a bit, and he will be grateful to his parents. In this way, the old man does not have to contribute himself and can have his own free life without any mother-in-law-daughter-in-law conflicts. And the children will be educated to be better, more in line with the trend of the times and closer to their parents.
2) If the young people want the old people to come and help, then the old people will try to come and help.
After all, it's not easy for young couples to earn money, and if you unload one, one less income, that's even more stressful. Parents, is just thinking of children and grandchildren have a good time, if the child is too busy to work, but also to take care of children, the pressure can be imagined. So if you're a parent, you should try to help out as much as you can.
3) The harmony of a family is the feng shui of a home.
Family members only get along with each other courteously, laughter home, will bring blessings and good luck, will make the family live more happy and well-being.