What does the relationship rely on to maintain

I, maintain the relationship is the most important love, especially to maintain the woman's feelings for men is the most important love, women and men together is the most important love this man, may be a part of not, but do not love that man and his together certainly will not last long, just for the sake of a moment in the material conditions and together, right Second, maintain the relationship rely on the children, because of the family, there are children, the family will be attached to the Together, so the feelings have crystallized to be more secure. Between husband and wife with children, is a little contradiction will go more reasonable solution, through communication basically can reach a harmonious no good, so as to achieve emotional stability.　 Third, mutual interests between ordinary friends, relatives, because there is *** with the same interests, so the feelings will be strong, if there is not much interest, feelings may one day go far away. Just like friends, there are mutual interests to interact with more, the feelings will naturally be much better, if there is no *** with the same interests, you interact with a lot less, will only be to recognize it.　 Fourth, the mutual emotion to see more walking to maintain If very good friends, not together for a long time, less contact, natural feelings will fade, if more contact, is not together with the feelings are also very good, so only more walking, there are things to help each other inch, so the feelings will be better and better.　People's lives are getting better and better, but the feelings between each other more and more light, is to move around each other less, no *** with the same interests as a bridge so slowly far, so to want to and other people to the relationship is good, we have to go *** with the same interests and more to move around, and only in this way the feelings will be more and more good. I hope that everyone's love life colorful, but also blessed everyone's life happy and full, but also believe that everyone's future will be more and more beautiful, interpersonal feelings sincere and permanent. That's all, we all work together to build this beautiful home.　Feelings rely on what to maintain 2 1, understanding and recognition Understanding each other and mutual recognition is the foundation of two people together. Only when two people understand each other, understand each other, and to each other's words and deeds and position, then two people may be together. If even this basic ****iness is not there, then it is impossible for two people to come together and live their lives or **** things together.　Getting to know someone well enough is the process of getting to know someone. In getting to know someone, there are two possibilities of understanding and not understanding the other person. If the other person is on the same page as you, then you will be able to understand what he is doing. If one is not on the same path as the other person, then it will be difficult to understand the other person.　There are many factors that determine whether a person is on the same page or not. Often there are many determining factors. It is possible that one's own and the other person's origin and location is similar, then the other person then do some things, one will be easier to understand, because people who have the same experience, the formation of the behavior of most of the way have **** commonality.　It is precisely for this reason that we will find that people from poor families, for those around them this thrifty behavior is very agreeable; working and part-time workers are generally the same front, while the boss and the boss is mostly collusion.　Sometimes they and the other side of the same circle, then the other side then do something, they are also easier to understand each other. As the saying goes, people are divided into groups, what kind of people will generally get together with what kind of a piece.　For example, if you are engaged in music, your friends are mostly art players; square dancers can always get together because of the circle.　Understand a person, his behavior, then two people two people in a piece will not have so much sense of incompatibility, which is the basis of two people together in the foundation, but also two people feelings of long-term maintenance of the foundation.　In life, we often find that the object of the teacher is more teachers, or educators; showbiz mix of stars, the other half of most of them are also mixed showbiz; arts and culture workers, the object of the handover is also engaged in the arts and culture work of the people.　These all stem from the same circle of people have **** sex, many times to communicate with very few barriers, each other on the other's many ideas and positions will be more in favor.　Speaking of which, some people must have questions? If so, then why there are so many people break up, they are not **** sex it?　There are generally two main reasons for this situation. One reason is because they're in a circle, so it's easier for people to identify with each other. But a lot of times, we see the real external attributes of the label, and in the real get along, *** after the matter, sometimes will realize, and they imagine that identify with the label attributes and not the same, then at this time, it is likely to go their separate ways.　For example, Yoshiko is a teacher, and David is also a teacher, so I thought we are teachers, there should be a topic, the results after getting along with the realization that many of David's faults are unacceptable to himself, so this time will most likely go their separate ways.　Another reason is because people will change, or the economic situation has changed, or status changes, or because the two people cross a certain cross between the terrain can not be passed.　A lot of couples in life, the beginning of the time can get along, but later due to the occurrence of a number of things, one of the people, or two people have changed their hearts, so, it is also difficult to continue to maintain the relationship. Similarly, and their own **** things siblings, relatives, coworkers also have this situation.　Through the above I believe we can basically understand, understanding and sense of identity in, then the relationship between the two people in, if this understanding and sense of identity is missing or destroyed, then the relationship will be difficult to continue to maintain a long time.　 2, there is a consistency of behavior If the understanding and identity is the cornerstone of the two people's feelings for a long time, then the two people have a certain necessary consistency of behavior is to maintain the feelings of a long time of the activities of the force.　Said some abstract, a little more concrete. A couple that is emotionally compatible is the foundation for two people to be together. But if after being together, two people rarely have two people *** with **** in the space, one to do their own things, rarely have intersections. Then such a relationship is difficult to long.　Only under the assumption that both sides are able to understand and agree with each other enough basis, the feelings between the two people activities, more intersection, then this way the two people will get along more and more harmonious, of course, the feelings are also more easy to maintain for a long time.　Let's say, because of the same occupation, or feel that the concept of similar, two people came together. This is a good foundation. But in the next time, if the two people do things separately, you do not care about me, I do not care about you.　Usually seldom do some things together, or their own kind of single when the individualist style and posture, or ignore each other, focus on their own things. Then a long time, such a relationship is not long gone.　There are so many examples of breakups in life for this reason. After marriage, long-term in this kind of mindless cold violence state, for the party who cares is undoubtedly a painful destruction. Imagine, why two people together, is not a figure of mutual comfort, mutual help.　Two people do some consistency of things, in fact, is also two people further mutual communication and understanding of the process. In this process, each other can further deep understanding of each other's nature, each other's behavior, style of action and so on.　This way, if the time is long, there will be a tacit understanding, to do things is also more comfortable.　Life we will find that those who are older, the more the two couples, with the more tacit understanding, and sometimes communicate with just a look, or a micro-expression action, the other side will also understand. Why is this? The result of a lifetime together and a lifetime of bonding. Often, the more this kind of see the secret without sparse feelings, the more solid, but also will be more long-lasting.　In fact, when you look at it, you will realize that two people in a piece of **** things or life, maintain the relationship is like making a dish. How to make this dish have flavorful, fully combined in one piece, and not seem so scattered, and even made after each is the taste of each? That is constantly stirring, so that each other as far as possible together, the flavor of your full to him, his flavor fully absorbed to you, then when the time comes out of the pot, it is a perfect one of a kind. The life **** thing is actually like this.　A lot of couples are quite good at the beginning, but then walk around to the loose, not because of anything else, is because of the mingling of things is too little, do not pay attention to care for each other, and each other and melt, and even think that the marriage is a family, but also will no longer to the previous as affectionate and sticky.　Or time is long, tired of not pay attention to maintain the relationship between each other.　In this way, over and over, found that the feelings between each other faded, did not start that time so much **** with the topic, did not start that time of love. When the feelings are too pale, then the love will do nothing, will only face the destruction.　When we can not figure out why feelings will go to the pale step, and even turn against each other, I hope to remember once, not to live up to the favor. Love a person is very simple, enough to understand and agree with him (her), at the same time can be willing to give up and each other heart to heart, there is consistency in behavior, to do heart to heart.　Feelings rely on what to maintain 3 One, couples rely on two hearts to maintain feelings Li Huihui, female, 30 years old, married. She said: I have been married for seven years, I personally believe that couples rely on two hearts to maintain feelings for each other to "heart" to operate, like the heart to operate their own 'business.　Because, seriously can only do a thing right, for this perfunctory; and heart will only do a thing well, for this try their best, the relationship between husband and wife is the same.　Feelings, couples need to be sent from the heart of love and care, in fact, couples do not need gorgeous words, not to mention the need for claptrap action, only in the dribs and drabs and words and deeds, each other can feel each other's good, so real, so responsible, so firm.　On the contrary, the so-called sweet words, full of flying oaths, enough to show the uncertainty of feelings between each other, never believe that those who do not meet the actual "kan dakong".　Manage a relationship with the heart, each other will naturally pay attention to every detail of life, always for each other's sake, can give each other endless warmth, so that each other always have a sense of comfort, security and happiness.　Between husband and wife, if the deep feelings, will naturally be transformed into a kind of happiness, happiness is actually very simple, does not lie in how much you have, but lies in the ability to put down how much.　Happiness, is a feeling in the depths of the heart, is a state of mind; and love a person with all your heart, is a kind of happiness, the person who is loved will also feel happy, the feelings between each other will continue to heat up, more long-lasting.　As long as you treat each other with all your heart, many simple scenery in marriage, will become more charming, waiting for you to appreciate with all your heart, to feel, warm sunshine will be sprinkled all over your heart ...... In short, the feelings as long as you operate with all your heart, with all your heart, even if it is a simple scenery in the marital life, will be with you at all times, the The feelings will naturally be able to maintain.　 Second, couples rely on loyalty to maintain feelings Sun Haoran, male, 35 years old, married. He said: I have been married for eleven years, I personally believe that couples rely on loyalty and dedication to maintain feelings, each other's feelings as long as the loyalty and dedication, feelings can be long.　In marriage, women want men to be loyal and dedicated to their feelings, and men also want their other half, loyal and dedicated to their feelings enough, loyalty and dedication is the most basic requirements of the couple's feelings.　In this fickle society, especially in those red wine and green environment, breeding too much temptation, and more and more people just can't stand the temptation, the mouth said on the feelings of loyalty and fidelity, but on the action of the feelings of the different, on the feelings of each other, not at all loyal and dedicated.　In the feelings, the most intolerable is betrayal. Husband and wife feelings loyal and dedicated, is to maintain the cornerstone of the relationship. Because for the relationship to maintain absolute loyalty, not only is a responsibility, but also the basic code of conduct; and for the relationship to maintain absolute dedication, is a person on the feelings of single-mindedness, whether on the body, or on the spirit, are from one to the end, will never change.　In a marriage, we all hope that each other's feelings can be absolutely loyal, absolutely dedicated, husband and wife do not cheat, do not hide, and this kind of honesty, mutual trust, are to be built on the basis of willingness, rather than the so-called "forced to force".　Loyalty to the feelings of dedicated people, will naturally put all their love, unreservedly devoted to their loved ones. Even some men do not fear the gossip of others, that he is "rake ears" or "wife", as long as their wives live a very happy, feel very happy, her face every day with a smile like a spring breeze, such a man, it is true love. Undoubtedly on the feelings of absolute loyalty and dedication, the feelings between each other, naturally, will last.　 Third, couples rely on respect to maintain feelings Xu Xiaoqin, female, 40 years old, married. She said: I have been married for seventeen years, I personally believe that couples rely on respect to maintain feelings, although it is said that marriage is the sum of love, home and husband and wife relationship, as a family way of existence, the need for each other, never leave each other a spirit, the need for an equal treatment.　But in the reality of marriage, and can not follow the heart, or even simply not satisfactory, so that people are disheartened, especially in economically developed cities and regions, the divorce rate continues to soar, always high, simply incredible, but after all, this is the truth.　In the reality of marriage, many couples before marriage, in fact, have a certain emotional foundation, but after marriage, simply can not stand the marriage in the wood, rice, oil, salt, vinegar and tea, as well as the marriage of trivialities of the toss and test, feelings will slowly fade, shortcomings are all exposed in front of each other, the couple also gradually become very strange, naturally, no respect for each other, couples, once a lack of respect, and the ensuing: then it is Will begin to do what I do, only care about themselves; each other are not home as a home, just a stopover hotel, began to sleep in separate rooms; on the small things also began to be calculating, frequent quarrels, the marriage is almost full of gunpowder flavor, over time, a good marriage ruined, and even tossed to the bruises, exhaustion.　In marriage, I think the feelings between husband and wife, not only rely on understanding, trust, tolerance and care to maintain, the most important thing is still rely on respect, if even the most basic respect between husband and wife are not there, there is what feelings can be talked about, how can feelings be maintained?　Couples rely on respect to maintain feelings, will let the other side feel, you painstakingly embodied in the strong love, so as to double the love to return you.　Marriage seems to be a pair of shoes, fit only know; and feelings seem to be a kind of secret, who can crack the mystery, who can dominate the feelings, who can have happiness.