What is a couple? Husband and wife is no matter how much noise, no matter how much trouble, in the end, who still can not leave who, or to a heart to go on, this is a husband and wife. Those who live with you, play with children, a lifetime of women, is your most cherished, and those who think of your ticket sitting in your car thinking of your house, just want to mix with you for a while of women, is your most should be guarded.
The reality and these seemingly simple and a little bit of truth, often contrary to the majority of men in the marriage of the gentleman on the beam, would rather betray his wife at home, but also to covet those outside the marriage of the "ugly lover", why would you do this? There are three reasons.
1, can not survive the blandness of marriage
Happy marriage, not in a moment of passion and happiness, it should be a long time of stability and solidity, but many people are used to being pampered by others, slightly less than desired, will be complaining about the sky, any eventual love and happiness of couples will go through purgatory and torment, do not go through the life of the sweet and sour, how will there be a lifetime of romantic hand in hand? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
Some couples are happy permanently, some couples in the middle of the "get off", it is just can't survive the blandness of marriage, enjoy the bitterness of bitterness in order to taste the sweetness in the sweetness, no pay where to come to the return? Emotionally, it is so, only to live with the blandness of the moment, only to experience the love of a long stream, but many men would rather give up the moment of suffering to be greedy for a moment of passion, and in the end to pay a lifetime of misery!
2, can not bear the responsibility of life
It is not difficult to find a point, the more incapable men, the more they dislike the wife of gold material, can not afford the responsibility of life, on the contrary, those who have the ability of men, never because of the money, and his wife look at the other way, the love of the home of the man, depending on the home as a kind of belonging to the man who loves people, depending on the home of the man, even if the home of the virtuous wife, also want to keep the ugly lover.
What is love? There is a jittery friend said, a man with 6 dollars on the body, willing to spend 100 dollars to invite her to dinner, willing to spend 3,000 dollars to buy her a bag, this is love! But in my opinion, this kind of argument is completely nonsense, a man only has 6 dollars, but also talk about what love marriage with a woman? Even the minimum responsibility of life can not bear, this has love? Why is it that some men, unable to spend money for their wives, have to borrow money to please their lovers outside of marriage? The reason is that he cannot bear the responsibility of life.
3, can not keep the feelings of a dedicated
All cheating men, will describe their own marriages miserable and unfortunate, that is in order to be able to conquer the "prey", if it is really unfortunate, why not divorce? Even dare not file for divorce, even during the divorce, the mood is frustrated and gray, which mood and other women talk about love, do not need some time to lick the wounds? Years of feelings are about to disintegrate, years of bed *** pillow lover is about to be separated, not sad?
If not, it can only be said that he is an emotional indifference, thinly veiled, unable to keep the feelings of a dedicated man! Love is easy to keep each other difficult, intimate husband and wife in the relationship, loyal and dedicated, is the necessary condition of happiness for a long time.
Summary: I hope that those who walk on the edge of the marriage of male friends, when you try to find a reason for their own derailment, inner ask yourself, still love her? Still love the wife with whom they have been together for many years? If love, then put away your covetous tail, if not love, good separation, in people in their own are a kind of respect.