Why did Lin Daiyu's grandmother send her to her grandmother's house instead of raising her by herself?

There are so beautiful people in the world that I just met them today! And this perfect style is not like the grandson of our ancestors, but actually the granddaughter of our first relative. ? Wang Xifeng, an artist in A Dream of Red Mansions, spoke highly of Lin Daiyu when she first met her.

Who is Daiyu? The granddaughter of Lao Taijun, the ancestor of Jiafu, is also the only blood left by Lao Taijun's daughter.

Sister Lin, fairy princess

Who is Lin Daiyu? Bai enjoys a good reputation in the field of fiction. Her father is Lin Ruhai, an imperial salt supervisor appointed by the emperor, and her mother is the eldest daughter of the Jia family in A Dream of Red Mansions and the favorite daughter of the Jia family. She was born in Lin family, and her father was a very rich salt official. Her mother is deeply loved by her grandmother, and the dowry is even more indispensable.

Noble and elegant, rich and unparalleled. Sister Lin grew up in this family, so she is outstanding in talent and temperament. Besides,? Two bends seem to frown, and a pair of eyes seem to be happy. The state has two sorrows, and it is sick. Tears a little, breath slightly. Laziness shines on the water like a beautiful flower and acts like a weak willow. The heart knows better than the stem, and the disease is not as good as the west. ? If it looks like a fairy princess, it arouses everyone's desire for protection. Who can not love it?

But how can Bai, who lives in the plot of the novel like this, become the heroine of the novel without experiencing any growth setbacks?

So, at the age of ten, before she reached adulthood, her mother left her forever. After that, the father negotiated with her mother-in-law, and the girl was sent to her grandmother's house for raising. The problem came. Why was Lin Daiyu not raised by her grandmother's family?

The dilemma of entering the government

Daiyu is still young, still immersed in the pain of losing her mother. When she first heard that she was going to be sent to her grandmother's house, she naturally didn't want to leave, but she even cried to her father. Lin Ruhai didn't want to leave either, but? Your father is over 500 years old and has no intention of continuing the family. Besides, you are sick and very young, without the support of your mother and your sister. Visiting grandma, uncles and sisters today can just reduce my worries about internal care. Why not go? ? .

I'm over 50 years old, and I don't have any plans for a second wife. Besides, you are an only child. Without a good mother and brothers and sisters to support each other, what future do you have in the future? ? Obviously, Lin Ruhai didn't give up her daughter either, but she had to be separated for her future. He said that he was over half a hundred years old, but in fact he was terminally ill and knew that he would not live for a few years.

Let grandma raise girls, not only to give Daiyu a better future, but also to support orphans. Lin Ruhai hopes that Sister Lin will still be taken good care of after she leaves. According to Lin's information, I can't tell. Just to stop her father from worrying about herself, she embarked on that strange road. ? Parents love their children deeply? In fact, children, too, want to do their part for their father.

If Daiyu chooses not to go, she can really enjoy herself on her knees, but her father's worry about her future may become more and more serious. If you choose to leave, leave yourself alone in a strange environment, and your distant father will feel at ease. It is a difficult choice for her to go or stay. For her father's sake, she finally entered Jia's house.

Full of absurd words, a bitter tear.

In this way, Daiyu entered the Jia family, met Baoyu, and began her life of crying to death. Some people will inevitably think that the Lin family is also a scholarly family. Why not send Daiyu to her grandmother's house to raise her, but to her grandparents' house far away?

There are two reasons.

One is? Poor support, limited children and grandchildren? Speaking of it, the population of the Lin clan is not rich, with only a few families, and Gaotang County is long gone, let alone being sent to grandma's house to raise it, and even being sent to siblings' house to raise it can't be done. If she is sent to her own home to raise, it is conceivable that Sister Lin will be just an ordinary woman without a mother to take care of and a brother to rely on, and it is likely that even marriage will be a problem.