Seriously, with Japan's previous generation in the "delicate with children" is related to the child from childhood to give him more satisfaction, he naturally do not want to fight for their own.
It has always been reproduced in the Japanese with children very independent chicken soup, but the fact is really so?I believe that many people have swiped the following pictures of Japanese children:
These pictures are accompanied by text in which the Japanese children are praised for their hands-on work, and none of them are praised.
But nowadays Japanese young people have moved towards a low desire group, with no dreams, no motivation, and no desire to get married. The Japanese top brass are desperate to get Japanese young people to have babies, so is it really healthy for society as a whole to bring up children like this? Does this really not foster selfishness?
It is important to realize that a child's independence is not about being alone and doing everything, but about being able to take responsibility when it is time for him to do so.
2. Japan is an extremely aging country and has the largest number of elderly people, how in the world do you teach them?Travelers who have been to Japan will know that Japan is in fact extremely serious aging, our cab drivers, may be forty or fifty years old uncle, and their cab drivers, is sixty or seventy years old man.
Originally, this age group of old people, in our country, is to bring grandchildren, square dancing, but theirs is struggling to support themselves. Many of us are importing foreigners' parenting experience, everything has to be done by the mother, no intergenerational parenting, children left behind have to "spend a lifetime to cure", the elderly with children are rejected, while the young people are getting more and more tired.
Aren't we heading in that direction? Children actually know everything and can learn everything. The children left behind, they will look forward to reunion and phone calls with their parents, but in order to "bring the child around", let him experience their parents' quarrels, running around for money, and even more experienced rent collection, debt collection, do you think that behind closed doors they do not understand? When such children grow up, will they dare to get married and have children?
Our generation will struggle to honor our parents and children because our grandparents taught us so. But our children were raised by our own hands. What did we teach them, do you not know?
Three, think around the overly spoiled or overly let him independent children now look like, you should understand the "delicate with children" bad.We actually have a lot of delicate children around us, although they behave well, polite, talented, but really let them suffer, let them share, let them help others, they hesitated, I believe that these are not all parents with children have a problem, but under the pressure of the young people they watched and learned.
When intergenerationally bringing up children, because the grandparents' generation is not under much pressure, they can come very dryly when their neighbors to the east run out of oil and their neighbors to the west run out of noodles: "I have it at home! Take it first!"
While children in the city have to spend every penny they can get their hands on, and neighbors knocking on the door have to look out of the keyhole with fear, the "security" that we all take for granted is not a kind of yoke on the children
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Overall, Japan's current aging and low desire among young people is actually very similar to ours, and may be gradually replicated. Just think of the question: do you dare to get married? It makes sense.