Confucius said, fifty and know the fate of heaven, when we passed the age of 50, is already more than a hundred years old, life is also gone a big part of it, in fact, a lot of things, we have figured it out.
But we are not as vigorous as when we were young, and not as energetic as when we were in our prime, many times, so at this age we want to take a back seat.
It is said that the waves of the Yangtze River push forward the waves of the past, people over half a hundred years old, in many ways really not as young as young people, the body is not as strong as young people; vision is not as good as a child, the ability to act slowly towards old age, become slow.
Memory began to decline; hair also began to turn gray ...... are saying that the older the person is the more unconvincing, but in many ways, we have to admit that the old, really not the same.
Over 50 years old, married life, men are most afraid of women what? Three men told the truth.
One, Mr. Jiang said, in the conjugal life, more and more power.
Men want to face to a lifetime, in the conjugal life is more, it is about men's dignity. But the year to 50, we do not serve the old really can not. Mr. Jiang said, before did not feel old, until in bed with his wife said he was not as good as before, only to find that he really old.
Previously, when he was young, Mr. Jiang also pay attention to the exercise of a person, since the marriage, his wife can not eat in the month, their own package; usually his wife to eat things do not like, their own package; coupled with a busy work schedule, but also to take care of the family, and there is no private time, and gradually exercise is also put on hold.
But time has come with some drawbacks, for example, they slowly began to blossom, before a year will not see a cold, and now there are always a few times a year, especially in recent years, it always hurts that uncomfortable, go to the hospital is also diligent.
In fact, health is more important than anything else, we always want to be able to live a long life, but if you do not have a good body, even if you can live a long life, not necessarily how happy. It is said that there is no filial son before the bed of a long illness, when the time comes, no matter whether it is a child, even their own will be disgusted with their own drag on the family.
Second, Mr. Gan said, after 50 years of age, really afraid to cope with women
Mr. Gan said that when he was young, he would do a lot of things in order to make his wife happy, even if it is against his will. When he was in love, he would wait for his girlfriend to put on makeup for an hour or two outside the campus in winter.
Will be in order to buy the sweetheart like breakfast, get up early and then run two streets to queue up to buy; will also be in order to send a gift to his girlfriend on Memorial Day, gnawing steamed buns, eating noodles through two months; will be in the wife's physiological period, the contracting of all the housework ......
Waiting until now at this age, he has instead become selfish, and even want to be a little better for himself. Wife is always accusing himself of not loving her anymore, in fact, it is not that he does not love his wife anymore, but he knows better to love himself.
After all, who is the first time to be a man, a lifetime of a shake are over half, and then do not treat yourself a little better, this life is over, then lying in the hospital bed is on the deathbed, they must regret that they did not have a little bit of good to themselves, to fulfill some of their own small wishes.
Three, Mr. Yang said, the most afraid of their daughter-in-law to let themselves with grandchildren
Some parents especially like children, but also willing to give their sons and daughters to bring children. Many elderly people are retired, all of a sudden idle, very uncomfortable, if there is a small child with them, babbling is very cute, and time passes quickly.
Some of the elderly with a partner, nothing can be done with the old partner shopping, walking together, or together with a square dance is also quite good, but some elderly, the other half of the death, or with the other half of the divorce, in the aftermath of the retirement will be very lonely, especially the kind of separation with the children over.
But not every old man likes to give himself a child in his next life, they think that they are not easy to survive to retirement, the children are also older, do not have to worry about their own, they and their other half should start to enjoy the retirement life, travel around travel, drink tea, play chess ...... There are a lot of people who think so.
I know a Yang uncle, the family is quite good, now retired, every day with the community inside the same age of the square dance, but also participated in the community to run the program, the days of taste.
I asked him, "Other old people bring their grandchildren, why don't you? Hasn't your son ever said anything about you?"
He said, "I'd rather give them money than take care of their children. The reason they want us old people to take care of their children is so they can go to work.
My retirement salary is quite a lot, I would rather give them to take some, and then daughter-in-law to bring up their own children, in fact, parents bring up their own children, than our generation to bring up the child is still better, I fell into a relaxed one. The old partner actually also want to bring grandchildren, but I stopped, now I am afraid of the old partner suddenly rise to bring grandchildren, that easy retirement life is over."
In fact, we can understand Uncle Yang's thinking, after all, have been busy for most of his life, he would certainly prefer to live an easy old age, children and grandchildren only children and grandchildren, do not have to care, and do not want to care.
Men after 50 years of age are most afraid of what women, a couple of life, their own strength, the body is not as good as it used to be; the second is too lazy to deal with their wives, the old man and wife, but also every day to be forced to ask if they love her, do not love her, can be with her for life?
Lastly, I am afraid of my wife because she likes children, to help bring grandchildren, if there is a small child to take care of, surely to do their duty, now unlike in the past, and now raise a child is very expensive, if there is a child in the side, then their own life in old age shall not be clean.