About Respect Speech
Part 1: Learn to Respect Speech
Respect is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not dazzling light. Tiring sound. In ancient times, respect has always been praised by people. Corporal Liu Bei visited the thatched cottage three times and asked Wolong to come out of the mountain to discuss the world's big plans. This is respect. Yang Shi and Cheng Meng stood up in the snow just so that the teacher would not be disturbed. This is also respect.
To learn to respect others, you must first learn to respect yourself. Just think about it, how can people respect others if they don't even respect themselves? Tao Yuanming showed his self-respect by not bowing down for five buckets of rice. Learning to respect yourself, doing things seriously and responsibly, and behaving in compliance with norms are manifestations of self-esteem.
In modern society, respect is also essential. When we face teachers who "preach, accept karma, and resolve doubts", have we ever considered respecting them? Teachers are hardworking gardeners and selfless spring silkworms. When we lose our way on the road of learning, teachers guide us. When we achieve gratifying results, the teacher is proud of us. Respect them! Listen carefully during class and complete homework carefully and independently after class. Respect for the teacher is reflected in these simple behaviors, which is also the most basic quality that a qualified middle school student should have.
As children, we should respect our parents. Parents are our first teachers. They gave us life and gave us their love. Under their careful care, we grew up healthily. But over time, we take our parents’ love for granted. So, we learned to be rebellious. Sometimes, when you don't do well in an exam and your parents want to talk to you, they only hear a "bang", 1
The door is kicked shut, and they are blocked out by a door. When the door closed, their hearts instantly became cold. Respect them! Listen when they come to talk to you; offer them a warm cup of tea when they come home from work after a busy day. Maybe it was just these simple actions, but their hearts were greatly comforted.
Classmates also need to respect each other. We face each other day and night on campus, and it is inevitable that some unpleasantness will arise. At this time, we must learn to respect our classmates, understand him, and be considerate of him. Patient explanation when classmates ask questions, warm applause after classmates’ wonderful speeches. With such a small amount of respect, the flower of friendship between us will bloom with the most brilliant colors again.
“Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others.” Respect is also a virtue. However, respect is being ignored and forgotten by more and more people. As teenagers, as members of the provincial community, we should carry forward this virtue. I believe that with respect, the sky will become bluer, the sunshine will become brighter, and the mood will become happier!
Part 2: Speech on Respect
Dear leaders, brothers and sisters, and dear classmates:
A greeting, a smile, or even an action, A look can bring us a happy mood, and even generate great motivation, change the direction of life, achieve classics, and create brilliance. Today we will talk about respect.
Everyone present, no one will think that respect is superfluous, and no one will exclude or refuse respect from others. This is because everyone knows the correct standards of right and wrong, has correct moral concepts and value orientations, and has a strong need to be respected.
There is a phenomenon that some teachers present have really experienced. Every year we send students to Xinzheng to take the college entrance examination and college entrance examination. In order to avoid being too high-profile, the school recommends students to wear their own clothes during the examination. Except for some students who may have a soft spot for school uniforms, the rest of the students wear casual clothes. There are hundreds or even thousands of students from various schools scattered in each examination room. Except for a few students who may have been taught by themselves, Beifu teachers can almost accurately determine which ones are from Beifu. Even the students who were accurately recognized by the teacher were puzzled. why is that? This is because of your image and temperament, especially your eyes and expressions when you see the teachers from Beijing Fuzhou who are taking exams, and even your unconscious words of "Hello, teacher". These have clearly told each of our teachers who are taking exams. You are a student from Beijing Affiliated School of Medicine.
Even though some students were delayed due to buying something, as soon as they heard the teachers' urging, they kept saying "Okay, it's almost time" and then got on the bus with a smile on their face. What's this? This is respect that is built into your behavior.
A successful businessman saw a very poor pencil seller on the street. He immediately felt pity and decided to help him. He handed him some money, but after walking a few steps, he suddenly felt something was wrong. He hurried back and said to him apologetically, "I'm sorry, I forgot to pick up the pen. I hope you don't mind." Then he put his hand on the salesman again. The businessman said: "You are a businessman just like me." A year later, at an important social occasion, a personable salesman took the businessman's hand and said, "You gave me Be confident, otherwise I will always think of myself as a beggar.”
“You are a businessman like me.” This simple and ordinary sentence has infinite power. This sentence helped a person who had lost his self-confidence and thought he was a beggar regain his self-confidence. If no one encouraged him in the first place, would he still be able to see a personable salesman in a social setting? This is the power of respect.
The Henan Branch of the High School Affiliated to Peking University can stand tall in the Central Plains of China because we have trained a large number of students with both academic and moral integrity. If the North Affiliated School were full of foul language, flying paper scraps, sewage water flowing across the walls, and graffiti on the walls, and students would scold each other with harsh words or punch each other at worst, we could become the "Tsinghua-Peking University Dream Factory" "The reputation? Can we send thousands of people to key universities at home and abroad? Would everyone here still want to be here?
In 2008, I came to Beijing Affiliated School of Engineering and Technology. From the comrade at the door to the teacher Zhang Jichao from the school office, to Cui Baochao and Liu Dongmei who attended my class, to the then Principal Xu, and after completing the interview, I walked around the campus under the lights. The old man who cleaned up the garbage I met at the golf course was all friendly; and during the two years of living in the North Affiliated School of Medicine, I felt that there was always a harmonious relationship between classmates, teachers and students, colleagues, and superiors and subordinates. Demonstrate kindness and respect.
Of course, the students and even teachers present may have doubts. Yes, although we have continued to create miracles and pass on miracles, there are still phenomena around us that do not respect others and ourselves.
Our principal Ren has said more than once: "It is easy to run a school with excellent college entrance examination scores, but it is better to run a campus where civilized language is used everywhere, people are always treated politely, there are no scraps of confetti, and there is no graffiti on the walls. The school is difficult.”
On the evening of November 12, the school organized high school students to watch the opening ceremony of the Asian Games in the open air. After two and a half hours, the venue was in a mess. If time were frozen at that moment, no one would believe that this was the legendary Henan Branch of the High School Affiliated to Peking University that created miracles. When announcing the students to leave, Principal Wang said two words: "The first-year students will stay to clean up the place, and the senior-year students will do the finishing work." As soon as he finished speaking, every student present picked up the garbage around them. When the students left, After the venue, the huge square was already clean. This is our North Affiliated campus. While I was pleased, I was also thinking, if Principal Wang had not requested it, would we have cleared the place so quickly? Regardless of whether the cleaning is timely or not, one problem cannot be avoided: we have ruined the fruits of the cleaning staff's work and littered the originally clean square with garbage.
Respect is more of a habit than a kind of cultivation or a kind of conduct. When you get along with others, everything you say and do shows how much respect you have for others. Maybe some students will say that when I meet the principal and leaders, my own teachers and classmates will naturally respect them. So-and-so is not my teacher and has no direct relationship with me, so why should I respect them! All the students and teachers present, do we respect everyone around us equally? Occasionally, I saw or heard about classmates having conflicts with comrades in the security department, restaurant chefs, and life teachers, and even hurting others with their words. Students, of course you should respect school leaders, teachers and classmates who you get along with day and night, but those who you think have no direct relationship with you should be more worthy of your respect.
Some of the comrades in the security department and the restaurant are about the same age as some of our high school classmates. You live a life without worries about food and clothing, but their young shoulders have already shouldered the burden of life, including school cleaning. The staff and garbage cleaning staff, all year round, no matter what the weather, clean the whole school without affecting our study and rest time. When we are still sleeping, they are already cleaning silently, even now At this moment, they are cleaning and clearing away garbage on various floors. Look at their hands and their figures. Can you still throw away the garbage you throw away? The life teacher urged us to get up and go to bed, but some students were very impatient with him and even insulted him. In terms of daily life, they have exceeded the care of your parents, but they have not received basic respect, let alone gratitude.
If. If the security department at the High School Affiliated to Peking University were more careless and lazy; if the cleaning staff were more negligent and cleaned up the garbage later, the chefs in the restaurant would spend less time and the food would be a little rawer; if they would sleep more in daily life; if the classmates would be more lazy. I believe that what the North Attachment would look like with a more violent temper and less restraint has been sketched in everyone's mind.
Everyone of us here is very lucky, because we will celebrate the tenth anniversary of our school. What will we dedicate to our alma mater? I advocate: respect yourself, respect others, and respect everyone around you.
Respect does not require us to be generous, just a greeting, a smile, an action, a look, an understanding, and a tolerance. I hope:
Warm and harmonious, civilized language is everywhere, and the school is always fragrant.
Respect, understanding, and politeness are always treated. Peking University Affiliated High School is a gentleman everywhere.
Thank you all.
Chapter 3: Learn to Respect - Beauty and Respect Peer Speech
I once heard a story like this:
An expert saw a shirt The ragged pencil salesman felt a sudden pity. Without thinking, he put 10 yuan into the hand of the pencil seller, and then walked away without looking back. After walking a few steps, he suddenly felt that this was inappropriate. So he hurried back and explained apologetically that he had forgotten to pick up the pen, hoping that the other party would not mind. Finally, he solemnly said: "You are a businessman like me."
A year later , in a warm and solemn occasion where businessmen gathered, a handsome salesman in a suit and leather shoes greeted the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me. And I don't know who you are. name, but I will never forget you. You are the one who gave me my self-esteem and confidence again. I always felt like a beggar selling pencils until you told me that I am a businessman just like you." < /p>
I didn’t expect that such a simple sentence could help a person with low self-esteem regain his self-esteem and build up his self-confidence in a person who is in an embarrassing situation. It is because of this
With such self-esteem and confidence, he saw his own value and advantages, and finally achieved success through hard work. It is not difficult to imagine that if there was no such words of respect and encouragement at the beginning, even if he was given tens of millions, it would not help, and he would not be willing to be a beggar. To a huge change in self-confidence and self-improvement, this is the power of respect.
Respect is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, a kind of equal treatment of others that is neither humble nor arrogant, neither condescending nor condescending, a kind of full affirmation of the personality and value of others, which is impossible for anyone Perfect and flawless, we have no reason to look at others with a high gaze, nor are we qualified to laugh at others with a dismissive look. If others are not as good as ourselves in some aspects, we cannot use arrogance and respect to hurt others. self-esteem; if we are not as good as others in some places, we do not need to replace the respect we deserve with inferiority or jealousy. A person who truly knows how to respect others must face his career with an equal attitude, a normal mood, and a calm mind. The strong and the weak in life, the lucky and the unlucky in life.
Respect is a ray of spring breeze, a clear spring, a heart-warming pill, and an inspiring elixir.
Respect is often associated with sincerity, humility, Praise, kindness, and friendship complement each other and are bound to be in trouble with hypocrisy, arrogance, harshness, and ridicule. Giving respect to successful people shows one's admiration and praise for the success of others. Giving respect to losers shows one's sympathy and comfort for others' failures. and encouragement, as long as there is respect, there will be true love in the world, there will be hope for the future, there will be winners who will continue to forge ahead, and there will be losers who will make a comeback.
Respect is not blind worship, it is not flattery in the heart, it is not cheap flattery without principles, and it is not meanness without self-esteem. Knowing the importance of respecting others does not mean learning how to respect others. From this In a sense, respect is also a science. If you learn to respect others, you will learn to respect yourself, and you will also learn and master the key points of life.
Let us slowly experience and explore on the road of life!
Part 4: "Respect Others" Speech
Psychologist Robert said: "If a person leaves the environment, there will be no behavior." Innovative education aims to use a free and harmonious humanistic concept in education to scientifically provide an environment for the burst of creativity and create an educational atmosphere. Education is not giving, but awakening. It is just like the sunshine and air in life, providing good conditions for the germination and blooming of potential seeds of creativity. The educational atmosphere is an important part of the educational environment. It has a subtle effect on people's growth and development, especially on people's creative consciousness and behavior. Therefore, we educators must learn to respect, learn to tolerate, learn to praise during the education process, and create a good educational atmosphere for students.
1. Learn to respect.
Teacher Yu Yongzheng has a famous saying: "Squat down and look at the children." "Squatting down to look at the children" means that our teachers put down their "tall" image in front of the students, and look at the students with their heart, understand the students, and respect the students. In the students' eyes (mou), the world is a poem, and everything is new to them. There is a student in our class who is called a "garbage picker" by his classmates. He likes to pick up some bottles and cans on the road every day before and after school. Everyone thinks that he is selling waste products to earn some pocket money. When I found him and asked him about this, he just smiled. Looking at his expression and thinking about his poor financial situation, he proposed to visit his home. When I stepped into his room, I was immediately attracted by some very "expensive" decorations, such as flower baskets made of Sprite bottles, and lifelike characters made of yogurt bottles... In an instant, I understood that each of them was... What people regard as waste products magically become works of art in his hands. What a rich creativity and imagination!
In the ever-changing world, a ray of sunshine, a green leaf, or a bird will arouse students' imagination, and they will discover, think, explore, and innovate. Their bodies are filled with endless vitality, creativity and imagination, and they are full of wisdom and enthusiasm for life. Because of respect, we discover; because of discovery, we encourage. The world of children is a wonderful and dreamy world. Small creative behaviors can sprout in every corner of life because of instant discovery and encouragement. Innovation is the nature of children. Children are full of curiosity about new things and love to explore and innovate. As teachers, "squatting down" will make us let go of our authority and bend down. It will make us always one of the children and be their Close friends, show understanding and respect, talk to them on the basis of complete equality, listen and discover with the eyes and hearts of children, integrate into their world with a sincere smile, enter their hearts, and capture the creativity of children The spark of thinking encourages children to explore, guides them to think independently, and works with them to climb and trek hand in hand to tap the gurgling spring of knowledge and gain the joy of innovation.
2. Learn to be tolerant.
Tolerance means allowing others freedom of action and judgment, and patient and fair tolerance of opinions that are different from one's own or traditional views. Tolerance is the prerequisite for freedom, and freedom is the prerequisite for creation.
Gibran said: "You can give your love to your children, but you cannot give your thoughts to your children, because the child has his own thoughts." Innovative education must stimulate children's creativity. Give children full freedom of heart and mind.
One time in a Chinese class, I found a student who was drawing something with his head down. When I walked over to him, I saw that he was drawing a sketch of me, which was a bit exaggerated. When he suddenly discovered it, he was frightened and covered it up with his hands. I didn't get angry, I just gave him a look to tell him to put it down. Since then, that student has never drawn again in class. He has done well in all subjects and won many awards for his paintings. After I entered middle school, he sent me a painting every semester. This seemingly "showing weakness" move effectively "conquers" the students and has an unexpected effect, which is tolerance. Tolerance can have the effect of "conquering hardness with softness" and "silence is better than sound at this time".
Einstein once said: "Being good at tolerance is also an emotional issue of education and cultivation. The understanding, trust, and waiting contained in tolerance show that education has a profound impact on oneself and the objects of education. He has gained enough confidence and is also imbued with a sincere love for his career and children. "It is impossible for all of our students to "understand everything once they hear it" or "know it with just a few words", and it is also impossible for every student to "pay full attention". "Concentrate". For some unsatisfactory performances in students' learning, we should think more from the perspectives of psychology, education, etc., learn to understand and guide them scientifically, and not let them be exposed to the "should" and "shouldn't" of the world of adult experience. "Should", excessive severity will stifle children's lively nature, constrain children's creative talents, leaving children at a loss as to what to do and without their own opinions. Their creative consciousness will be annihilated in various worries and constant experiences of failure. "Free the child's mind so that he can think; liberate the child's eyes so that he can talk; liberate the child's hands so that he can do; liberate the child's mouth so that he can talk; liberate the child's space so that he can contact the world. Naturally, free up children's time so that they can learn what they want to learn. "Only when educators have a tolerant attitude can the educational ideal of liberating students be realized. Because in the process of liberation, children will make many mistakes that require our tolerance. Therefore, if we treat students' occasional mistakes with a kind attitude and a tactful and implicit way to achieve our educational goals and prevent students from suffering serious harm, then we might as well be more tolerant and less punishing. Maybe more perfect.
3. Learn to praise.
Pedagogy tells us that students need teachers’ praise, and praise is an expression of teacher’s love. Without a teacher's love for students, there would be no words of praise from the heart. Only when teachers carefully capture the sparks that flash in students can they speak concise and profound words of praise. There is a student in my class who is naughty, active and performs very poorly. Every class gives the teacher a headache. Once when I was writing calligraphy with calligraphy, when I was writing the character "Yong", I talked about some knowledge about the eight methods of writing the character "Yong". Other students couldn't write well, but he could write somewhat like it. I even took the opportunity to praise and encourage him in front of everyone. He was very proud at that time. In the future, whenever he makes a little progress, I will encourage him in time. Gradually, I got rid of some bad habits, and I was able to draw parallels to others in calligraphy, which was very successful. A few seemingly ordinary words from a teacher can have a subtle effect. A teacher encourages and praises students. He is first of all a discoverer of beauty and can see the advantages of students. We all know that everyone has strengths and weaknesses. People have many abilities. If they are not good at this aspect, they may be better than others in other aspects. Even the worst people have advantages, and even the perfect people have shortcomings. Whatever your eyes focus on, you will definitely see. If you look at a person with appreciation and praise, and with an aesthetic mood, you will definitely be able to find beautiful things in him. This is just as Rodin said: "Beauty is everywhere. For our eyes, It’s not a lack of beauty, it’s a lack of discovery.”
Praise is the spring breeze that warms and moves people. Praise is an incentive, and it can fully reflect the beautiful longings and ideals in students' hearts. Life and life need praise, and children need enthusiastic encouragement. We should learn to praise. A teacher who is good at dedicating praise to every student must be a happy and happy person all the time.
If respect is to discover the creativity in children, then tolerance is to protect, and praise is to encourage; if respect is to enter the bridge of students' creative soul, then tolerance is to give him space, And praise is the stage given to him. Innovation comes first, innovation is the truth.
Teachers learn to respect, learn to tolerate, learn to praise, and create a relaxed, free, and democratic atmosphere for students so that they can think freely and imagine boldly.
Part 5: Learn to Respect_Speech
Everyone has a certain level of self-esteem. If you want others to respect you, you must first respect others. A person who does not know how to respect others will never gain respect from others. In our study and life, our own attitude towards others often determines others' attitude towards us, just like a person standing in front of a mirror, when you smile, the people in the mirror also smile; when you shout at the mirror, the mirror People inside will also yell at you. Therefore, if we want to gain the favor and respect of others, we must first respect others. Only by respecting others can you be praised and respected by others. Students, when we interact and communicate with others, we must not hurt the other person's self-esteem, otherwise, you will only suffer the loss. Next, I will tell you a true story that happened in Manhattan, New York, USA.
One day, a middle-aged woman in her 40s led a little boy into the garden downstairs of the headquarters building of the famous American company "Juxiang Group" and sat down on a bench. She was talking to the boy nonchalantly, and seemed very angry. Not far away, an old man with gray hair was pruning bushes.
Suddenly, the middle-aged woman pulled out a ball of white paper towels from her handbag and threw it on top of the shrub that the old man had just pruned. The old man turned his head and glanced at the middle-aged woman in surprise. The middle-aged woman looked at him nonchalantly. The old man didn't say anything. He walked over, picked up the tissue and threw it into the trash basket nearby.
After a while, the middle-aged woman pulled out another ball of tissues and threw it over. The old man walked over again, picked up the ball of paper towels, threw it into the basket, and then returned to the original place to continue working. However, as soon as the old man picked up the scissors, the third ball of paper towels fell on the bush in front of him... In this way, the old man picked up six or seven balls of paper thrown by the middle-aged woman, but he never showed any dissatisfaction or anger. A bored look.
"You saw it!" The middle-aged woman pointed to the old man pruning the bushes and said loudly to the boy: "I hope you understand that if you don't go to school well now, you will be as useless as him in the future. I can only do these menial and menial jobs!"
After hearing this, the old man put down his scissors and walked over, and said to the middle-aged woman in a pleasant manner: "Madam, this is the group's private garden. According to the regulations, only group employees can enter. . ”
“Of course, I am the department manager of a company belonging to the Juxiang Group, and I work in this building!” The middle-aged woman said proudly, while taking out a certificate and showing it to her. The old man shook his head.
"Can I borrow your mobile phone?" The old man said after being silent for a while.
The middle-aged woman reluctantly handed the phone to the old man, and at the same time, she lost no time in educating her son: "Look at these poor people, they can't even afford a mobile phone at such an old age. You must work hard in the future. !”
The old man returned the phone to the woman after finishing the call. Soon a man hurried over and stood respectfully in front of the old man. The old man said to the visitor: "I now propose to remove this lady from her position in the Juxiang Group!" "Yes, I will follow your instructions immediately!" the man responded repeatedly.
After the old man finished his instructions, he walked straight towards the little boy. He reached out and stroked the boy's head, and said meaningfully: "I hope you understand that the most important thing in this world is to learn to respect everyone." One person..." After saying that, the old man left the three of them and walked away slowly. The middle-aged woman was stunned by what suddenly happened in front of her. She knew the man. He was a senior employee of Juxiang Group who was in charge of appointing and dismissing employees at all levels. "You...why do you respect this old gardener so much?" she asked in confusion. "What did you say? Old gardener? He is Mr. James, the president of the group!" The middle-aged woman suddenly slumped down on the bench.
This middle-aged woman paid the price for her disrespect. Not only did she not respect the old man, she also failed to respect herself.
What about you? When you face your parents who have worked hard to raise you, do you respect them? When you face a teacher who "preaches, accepts karma, and resolves doubts", do you respect him? When facing the classmates who accompany you to grow and study together, do you respect them? In fact, what I want to say most is, do you respect yourself? You are students, what is a student? Students are people whose main task is to learn. Do you take your studies seriously? You will reap beans if you sow beans, and you will reap melons if you sow melons. You will definitely pay for your actions today. Students, please learn to respect yourself, and I hope you can strive for a regret-free youth for yourself in this youthful season.