Is meticulousness character
Is meticulousness character, take care of people is often very thoughtful, can think of other people can not think of the place, pay attention to other people can not notice the details, this is delicate, then you are a meticulous person? If so, is meticulous character, or habit
is meticulous character 101
meticulous, this thing may be said to be a character. Because some people are naturally meticulous. However, some people's meticulousness can be said to be cultivated later in life. A fidgety person suddenly calm down when, often his work efficiency is very fast. So what, fine minded people are generally very calm.
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A few days ago, on the way to work, I met a middle-aged man in his 50s, who was taking pictures of a plastic bag in the company's park.
At that time, it was quite puzzling, he was wearing a white professional dress, squatting on the ground to look around the garbage. There were a lot of people coming and going at the time, and some of them just looked sideways for a second, and then walked straight ahead.
At first I was curious about what he was up to, and kept my eyes on him. Then after about a couple dozen seconds, he called an auntie who was cleaning up the trash next to him and asked her to clear this away.
At the time, he was quite the leader and said something to the aunt. He said that he was very close to her, and he said that we must pay attention to these small garbage, even if it is just a leaf, to clean it up, and to maintain the environment of the park clean and tidy.
When I heard this, I looked left and right to observe the ground, and found that the park is indeed very clean. On the road I walked, palm trees occupy both sides of the road, vehicles are parked according to the rules, and there is no garbage on the ground, giving people a feeling of comfort and coziness.
At that time, I was thinking that this kind of behavior belongs to a very careful behavior. Although sometimes I don't praise him with my mouth, or I just look at him as a tourist, I feel like I'm being hit by something in my heart.
For this kind of careful people, there is a kind of admiration in my heart. Since I was in the service industry before, I feel it y.
I think people who have this quality in life are really valuable. Because he understands how to take care of others from some small things, serve others, and create a sense of comfort for people.
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Some time ago, I went to a party with a few coworkers to have dinner, and I found a barbecue restaurant to have something to eat.
The store's business is okay, placed more tables, may be the location of the street, so this store will appear to be a little more lively, and do not want to go through the streets to find.
The city is very windy, the hustle and bustle grows in the night, and this store puts the stranger and the outsider together nicely, coming together as fate.
As the food was being served, I heard people across the street spouting off about how the service over here is really bad, and how they dare to give customers food without even baking the ingredients or something like that.
So, called the waiter over and asked to do it again. Who knows, the waiter said, you are here to nitpick, right, others are good how in your taste changed.
One of the women could not see past, said a few words, they also do not want to make the atmosphere too awkward, itself, they are a few people at that table.
Later, their manager came over, and quickly said that the waiter how do not understand, to they do not mind. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get it right, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get it right," he said.
I heard the people at the opposite table say, that's fine, but you really need to change the attitude of this service, too careless.
I heard the people across the table say, "That's fine, but you really need to change your attitude.
By the time we served, ordered a few barbecue, but found that the tofu and squid, randomly put a little salt and pepper, feel like they are not baked, I ate half of them thrown.
But in the beginning we have eaten enough, the only barbecue is not satisfied, feel is very perfunctory grilled a few times.
At that time, I smiled helplessly and said, this next time do not dare to come back. At that time, I thought, if they spend a little time with a little thought, others will not be bad. If they are careful to do things, then the repeat business is certainly more.
I found that many people now buy anything or not, the main thing is to go around the user to start.
If you want to get a good review, you have to go deeper into the customer, and the product. Too careless and perfunctory work, then, how can go with the customer to produce a second exchange.
After all, what makes a customer happy or willing to shell out money is nothing more than, look at your product and how good the service is.
If the careful point of doing things, in-depth to the customer, as sometimes we will go to some fashionable restaurant. Although the portion of their dishes is not much, but they are the most valuable is careful, even if sometimes need to queue, but also people are willing to go to wait, a big reason is also good reputation, good service.
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In life, people often hear people say that so-and-so is very careful and so on the praise, which is also a kind of praise for others.
Carefulness is a valuable quality, we have a cliché saying that "the details are doomed to failure".
Especially in the service industry, you want to do excellent, in this industry has a place. Then, the most important thing you can do is to start with the little things, think more, and do them well.
To do a thing, go to the minimum requirement is to be fully committed. And don't be so-called time-saving things to work on the content of the hasty solution, which often does not achieve good results.
Why do we hear that this person is very good, very powerful, strong work ability. In fact, the main reason is that they do things are very focused, attentive, attention to detail.
Just like when you go to dinner, when you find that the service and food are not very good, then you will go to the second time? If a cell phone is missing its internal chip, do you think it will still run?
In fact, when you go very carefully to solve some things, as long as constantly to insist. You'll find that being careful sneaks up on you and brings you a lot of rewards.
Including the guy I met at work the other day, to be honest, I think he's really very careful. At the very least, sometimes when you walk on the road and see a clean and tidy floor, you feel very comfortable in your heart.
Sometimes do things, you just need to be careful to do, as long as you can go to insist, then there will always be unexpected gains.
Carelessness is the character of 2
Carelessness and inattentiveness is not an excuse for poor grades
At the beginning of the new semester, it is time to analyze the reasons for the results of the final exams, to find the shortcomings, and to write a reflection of the time. Every time this time, I heard the child said the most reasons for failure is "I was careless, 69 read 96", "I will do, but copy the wrong symbols", "I'm not careful enough, the next time I must be serious and careful! "...... parents also said: alas, this child of mine will obviously do, but just not careful.
Carelessness, inattentiveness, etc. seems to have become a communal excuse for unsatisfactory test results, parents, children each take for granted that carelessness, inattentiveness is an accidental phenomenon, as long as the next time to pay attention to, can be avoided, you can achieve the desired good results.
Shangdao experts have been afraid to agree with this idea. We think carefully about the child in the examination process, does he not want to test all right? The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California at Berkeley. Is it possible that he intentionally did not do the questions carefully? Definitely not! Think about the final exam, in fact, we often teach children to be careful, to be serious, children also want ah! It is not that they do not want to be careful, is not able to be careful.
Carefulness is not just a habit, but a very important ability
Parents and children must fully realize that carefulness is not just a habit, but a very important ability! Think about it: no matter how smart the child, but due to carelessness and negligence, always in some should not make a mistake in the place to commit some very low-level, should not have the error, then, even if even the simplest problem are not good. The same is true of doing things, not careful enough, things are not done perfectly.
Why do you see 69 as 96, why do you see the numbers add up, and why do you see the numbers not line up? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right kind of information, and you'll be able to get the right kind of information. Sangdo experts tell you: carelessness and sloppiness are closely related to visual attention. Students with poor visual attention, when the information received is transmitted to the brain for analysis through visual perception, the information will be interfered with, and it will be easy to make mistakes, omissions or losses, which will lead to the emergence of carelessness problems.
Insufficient visual attention is the root problem of carelessness in exams
Visual attention includes visual tracking ability - whether the eyes can make a fixed point, moving point tracking, visual discrimination ability - whether they can clearly recognize two similar characters, visual memory ability - whether they can clearly recognize two similar characters, visual memory ability - whether they can clearly recognize two similar characters, visual memory ability - whether they can clearly recognize two similar characters. characters, visual memory - can quickly remember the number just seen, hand-eye coordination - whether the hand-eye coordination when writing, and so on. Each student's visual attention is different. If a student's visual attention is not at the same level as his or her peers, he or she is bound to be careless and sloppy.
Many parents think that children will naturally be more attentive at a certain age. This is not the case. If there is no daily regulation and training, no accumulation of accumulation, carelessness will only become more and more serious impact on the child's learning and life. When carelessness becomes a way of behavior, it will bring endless troubles to the child. Carefulness is definitely an ability, not just a habit, and it requires deliberate training and cultivation.
How can parents cultivate their children's ability to be attentive
But as a parent, have you specialized in training and cultivating your children's ability to be attentive? How to do it? Parents can do the following three aspects:
First, strengthen the child's sense of responsibility. Parents should be physically active, personally do the demonstration, strict requirements for themselves, require students to do things, parents themselves must be the first to do.
Second, cultivate the good habit of concentration. The first is to focus on the immediate future. The Buddhists have a phrase, "live in the present moment a moment". Emphasis on focusing on one thing at a time, to let the child understand that concentration is a prerequisite for doing anything well.
Third, stabilize your emotions and remain patient. Parents of children carelessness to maintain a normal heart and enough patience, not to accommodate, not rude. Do a good job of giving timely encouragement, not enough to do not angry and not complain. Day by day, you will find that the student's carelessness gradually reduced.
So give up the "careless" such a statement!
It's only after we give up this idea that we'll be able to find out what's going on, make a plan for training, and get real improvement.
Of course, professional attention training can quickly improve your child's visual attention and reduce sloppiness.
Improvement, never just performance, but ability, action and will quality.
Judging the 8 details of a man's attentiveness
Trivial love is the right thing to do
"What's wrong? I don't feel well?" The first time I came home, I saw Zhang Nan lazily leaning on the bed, my husband suspected that a bit of cold whether she was in a low fever, and wanted to measure her body temperature to decide whether to go to the hospital, he first gently put his hand on her forehead to cover a moment, and then and his own forehead temperature to do comparisons, then folded his body in the home of the medicine chest in a hurry to look for a thermometer to measure her. Before leaving the house, he put on a coat for her to protect her from the cold: "Be careful, pay attention to your feet, don't fall." Watching a big man care for himself like a child, that delicate care y moved Zhang Nan.
Voiceover: a thoughtful husband, he cares about his wife's behavior is not hanging on his lips, or used to "show off", but should be reflected in the details of the kind of silent: sometimes just a soft greeting in your illness, sometimes a woman like to ask you why there is no smile on your face, or wordlessly will be coat on your shoulders in the cold ......
Whisper: the wife needs care, in fact, exists in the life of some of the subtle and trivial, a look, an action, seemingly insignificant, but how many men will and do so?
Doing something other than romantic
Valentine's Day, Xu Ling and Mr. shopping supermarket back, bought two bags full of daily necessities. After handing over the money and packing, Mr. took all the weighty things over, letting her lift those goods that don't take up any weight. He used an empty hand, gently put his arm around Xu Ling's waist, with the kind of love when the "pressure road" speed, that rarely romantic to make her a heart palpitation, in the envious eyes of others slowly walking home, he walked a few steps closer to grab the door, give her shoes, give her water to wash their hands. Although she did not receive roses and chocolates from her husband, Xu Ling felt happier on that Valentine's Day.
Voiceover: although the love of romance is a common problem for women, birthday gifts, Valentine's Day roses can make her happy for a while, but the real help and care for a long time to warm her heart: for example, to put her bath water may be just a handful of labor, if you occasionally, both to develop their patience, but also to make his wife feel that you love her a little more than ever before.
Whisper: tie an apron shuttle in the pots and pans, although the appearance looks a little mediocre, there is a kind of "obnoxious" around the pots and pans around the "no good" kind, but the care jumped between them, more able to make people feel real! The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the actual situation, and you'll be able to see how it's going to be.
The beauty of the sky is not as beautiful as the beauty of love
In the winter, Yang Dan and her husband went out together, although she wore a hat, wearing a thick cotton coat, walking in the north wind, snowflakes flying on the street, the bone-chilling cold is still making her hands cold and lose consciousness. Husband pulled her cold little hand from the glove, put in his own hand and gently rubbed, but also to her palms with hot air, that kind of heartache that relationship to make her blush: "Don't get it, people are watching it." But her husband did not let go: "What are you afraid of, you are my wife." She saw many women similarly stomping their feet while walking, saying, "My hands are so cold," while their men perfunctorily said, "Hurry up and buy a pair of thick gloves tomorrow." She felt herself, though mediocre, the most beautiful and touching and far happier wife at that time.
Voiceover: He said with a sly grin, "Tonight you are especially charming." This kind of praise, whether it comes from the heart or not, but it is more pleasant to listen to than any sweet words. "The food smells so good today!" Although the man wants to be lazy when saying this has obvious "intention", but I believe that every knowingly wife will not pull his pigtails at this time.
Whisper: lover's eyes out of the West, the fairy is not as beautiful as the people in love, a "wife, you're beautiful!" An unintentional small details of the action, showing that he is still full of the old love of the old days.
Lovely wolves at home
The sound of water coming from the bathroom, Zhu Yuan packed up her pajamas just into the bathroom door, a stumble, the whole person flung in the body of her husband. Lotus head of water pouring down, clothes are soaked, style hidden ...... look like a special thing like Zhu Yuan, husband eyes appeared "to eat people" eager: "Dear, in the past, you are a delicate beauty, now, you are simply the bathroom demon. You are simply the bathroom of the siren ......"
Voiceover: "show color" this dish, I believe that many men are very interested in. If in the ambiguous time, he can use a kind of bad look at you, your heart will be inexplicably happy. If he is looking at you, in the eyes of the "color" element, you can make your eyebrows flutter - this condiment is also a love of the incendiary bomb.
Whisper: outside the grass is bleak wildflowers enchanting, women are most afraid of their own old age, men are no longer looking at their own, not to mention this kind of soul-capturing trick?
Little Rascal
Cong Yu'e and her husband had a reprimand, and after a few words, her husband took the initiative to retreat to the study, and Cong Yu'e, who was angry, ignored him. After the shower just lie down, the husband rubbed over, reached out to her, see his wife, although pushed a little, and did not obviously refused, began to hold her tightly. Cong Yu'e made a gesture to push him away: "Hate, don't ......""Wife, I'm going to be your annoying sticker candy, wrapped around you for life." Husband dead begging, a small rascal phase. Cong Yu'e "giggle" a laugh, so, just now the unpleasantness disappears ......
Voice: under the same roof, there will inevitably be such and such friction. Love you, he will show the childish rascal, vainly looking around for excuses, lurking behind all this, is that he really cares about you. Then look at his ass with you behind the wife wife called so sweet, anyone's heart is soft.
Whisper: This is a family comedy, there are laughter and unhappiness, if he loves you, in the accidentally stroke your "tiger's whiskers" after he will always find an opportunity to show his "rascal", to win your understanding, and so, in the end, more than easy The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
The most real is the most human
Hubby came home from work on the face of unhappiness, to see him wilted and wilted sitting on the sofa, Chen Qin know that he would have to be met with a bad thing. She quietly poured a cup of tea for her, gently wrapped him, he will rely on her head in front of her chest, eyes full of helpless: "Alas, the boss is difficult to serve ah." Chen Qin with their own warmth to persuade him, looking at his heart a little bit of depression dissipated, feel a special sense of accomplishment. Husband showed the "weak" side, she not only did not half a point of contempt, but let her feel that this usually consistent to the pressure can not be crushed by the tough guy, busy not to take into account their own big man, in fact, still sincerely care about her, at the moment, he is not as the only rest of their own harbor can be rested?
Voiceover: "the child who will cry has someone to love", a secret of the man's favor is what words do not stifle in the heart, even if your expression of pity, in the eyes of his wife is also lovely. Hungry, he has to call, there is something not "boring". I believe that a wife does not like to take her husband's face as a "rainy day" to guess,
Whisper: Anyone who hates hypocrisy, as a husband and wife, his true expression than the disguise more intoxicated you.
Put your heart at home at all times
At night, Ning Mei has just gone to bed, and her husband, who is on a business trip, called, in fact, there is no big deal, but on the phone, he was tired of urging her to pay the property tax, pay attention to their own bodies, and remember to close the door at night. Although all the mother-in-law things, Ning Mei is not necessarily according to his requirements to do, but her heart is sweet and solid, but also added to the thought of him.
Voiceover: out of the house, after settling down, the man's first idea should be to call home, one to report safety, two also shows that he put home in the heart at all times. Even if it is just a word, it also shows that he will always remember his wife, remembering that someone is waiting for him to come home.
Whisper: the man's attachment to the home, is the outpouring of true love, perhaps his words can not quench the thirst of the near water, but through the silk into the words of concern, no matter whether the poverty and wealth, disease and hardship, no matter how far away, he is willing to accompany you through the minutes and seconds.