Your lover,
your children,
your classmates,
your coworkers,
your enemies,
........
Everything around you,
including yourself,
are all molded and shaped by your own hands.
Don't believe it? See.
Professor Rosenthal came to an ordinary high school, walked casually through a class, and then circled a few names on a list of students, telling their teacher that these students had high IQs and were very bright. After some time, the professor came back to this middle school, and by some miracle, those few students he had selected were now really at the top of the class (when it was just a few randomly selected students!) . Why did this happen? It was the magic of "suggestion" that worked. Those randomly selected students were hinted by the professor that they had a "high IQ" and accepted the hint, and went in the direction of the hint. Everyone receives one kind of suggestion or another in their lives, and some of these suggestions are positive and some are negative.
So thinking out of the box, we can also apply psychological hints to our loved ones. For example, to their loved ones, they should always say things like, "You're the best person I've ever met," "You're the best," "With a wife like this, what more could a man ask for!" "I have prayed sincerely in front of the Bodhisattva, and I have finally found such a good person as you" and other words of praise, affirmation, and sincerity. Then over time, you will realize that the other person really becomes the best person you have ever met! It turns out to be your most satisfying masterpiece! In fact, our significant others really do carve themselves out, don't they?
A little more diffuse, we can also to colleagues, to subordinates also positive, positive energy mental suggestion. "Wow, you are excellent!" And so on from the heart of sincere words of praise, over time, we will find that students, colleagues, really become what we say! This is the powerful force of psychological suggestion! It can be said that life, is a hint! That's why the Buddha said, "As the mind is pure, the land is pure. Everything is only the mind, only the consciousness." And there is a deep truth in telling us to remember the Buddha's name "Namo Amitabha Buddha" at all times, and over time we will be able to reach the world of bliss.
South Amitabha Buddha