There are a lot of popular but incorrect values in China. This kind of thing, in fact, not only in China, but also in foreign countries, such as the very hot "political correctness". In the final analysis, this kind of popular but incorrect values, or one-sided in order to what looks good, sounds good, obviously we all know that there are problems unwilling to do things, but also have to come out to fill the facade to pretend that they seem to be the conscience of a great deal of good things. For example, like under the banner of respect for the elderly intentionally condone the improper behavior of the elderly, such as playing the card of gratitude in what public **** place to get what children to wash the feet of their mothers, daughter-in-law to wash the feet of their mothers-in-law. Or it is to put aside all the modern human society should have the idea of progress, naked material supremacy. Like what women do better than marrying well.
Beating filial piety to condone the harboring of the elderly misbehavior, or even unlawful behavior of things, in fact, can be said to be everywhere, such as the recent hot like the elderly subway molestation of girls, such as the elderly bus on the people who do not allow the seat of the fight, such as the elderly in the basketball court square dance still do not allow people to play basketball, such as... ...Respect for the elderly and filial piety is the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but the tradition of justice and selflessness, cynicism and hatred is not also an important treasure in our traditional Chinese culture? Respect for the elderly and filial piety is right, but we can not condone their improper, illegal behavior. On a more serious note, during the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, several of the biggest traitors in North China, Qi Xieyuan, Wang Kemin, which is not in his old age, shamelessly defected to the Japanese invaders, and became the nation's sinner. Is it because they are old and old people, but also to honor and filial piety to the elderly?
As for the so-called gratitude, it is even more ridiculous. Gratitude is very important, parents and relatives, not owe their children what is in debt. Rather, it is a kind of dedication. This is no excuse. But when heavily engaged in what thanksgiving foot washing comb hair and other tricks, what is this? Does gratitude still have to get people to go before the fanfare of publicity is not? This is thanksgiving? Or is it a show? I think it is a show. For the children, it conveys the wrong idea that doing good is for show. Some people say I'm being alarmist, but I think I'm making light of the situation. What is it, something for outsiders to see, or something for the people involved? If it is not for show but for the person concerned, then may I ask which elders are willing to wash their feet and comb their hair in the piazza at 9 o'clock in the morning? This is one of them. Second, the obvious moral abduction, ask if any unit or community organization of such activities, Zhang's son of a broken foot, Li's daughter-in-law to aunt, they are to go or not to go, not to go, that is simply unfilial to the home ah, go? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.
Then to say this popular and unimaginable marrying as good as doing well, from school to the workplace, from the family to the community, it seems to be talking to the girls so similar to say, "You go on like this, turn back and later married out". It seems that the most valuable thing in life for girls is to get married. It seems that everything is in the service of marriage. What personal interests, you like this kind of thing later can not get married how to do? What career development, you continue to work so hard to get married later how to do? What the pursuit of value, you listen to those who believe in that nonsense later married how to do? Girl is not to marry and exist ah, so many years of school, read so many years of books, is to be a person to live well ah. What is even more strange is that there is a version of the media there to urge girls to marry and have children to have two children, the latter version of the complained about how many years China's employment population is not enough to have more children, but also cited what Japan's example. This is really just bullshit, Japan if you can let more than the average woman married after not squatting at home as a housewife, there is still a labor shortage problem? If you try to keep half of the population of women at home, can human resources do it?