And the fact is that this is exactly the case, when you want to avoid certain topics, the more people want to find out. Because in March only changed the work, is a completely new field, really do not want to explain more with them, seems to understand why many people are most afraid of the kind of reunion and so on. The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of your car, and you'll be able to get the best out of your car.
The other day, I didn't have any contact with my college classmate, but I suddenly asked him on WeChat: "Juan, are you there? I don't know why, but I subconsciously felt that it was not a good thing to see such a message. She said that last year she studied in the UK and came back early from her defense without attending the school's graduation ceremony, and now the school is giving Chinese students a chance to make up for their graduation ceremonies in Beijing and Shanghai. She is from Chongqing and naturally chose Shanghai, and said that many of her classmates in Shanghai, especially me, must be met.
So I made an appointment with her and invited her to dinner on the Saturday she came. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it. The two of them are hometown plus high school classmates, I and the sports committee is not very familiar with, also do not know she in Shanghai so basically did not contact.
Thinking about their Chongqing all day to eat hot pot, I deliberately in the popular commentary to find a good evaluation of Jiangsu and Zhejiang cuisine restaurant. When eating, they asked about my work, I have never liked to talk to others about work, just roughly said. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to afford to pay for this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to afford to pay for it.
Our class president, after graduation, worked as a teacher in an IELTS training center, and a year later went to the UK to study, and the tuition fee was 20 tens of thousands of dollars. She said at home to play for half a year, last September to return to the country to work in September this year. At the beginning of the year just set the job, one of the four key high schools directly under the Chongqing Municipality, salary to 7K +, and other benefits, this salary in Chongqing really can be considered. According to her, she had previously decided on another noble private school, the treatment is better, but thought that after all, there is no preparation or a little uneasy.
Besides, our culture and sports committee, graduated directly to Australia to study, see her circle of friends around the world to run, sunshine all kinds of brand-name bags, lipstick, a lot of brand I do not recognize.
One day last month, after graduation, no contact with the university table suddenly sent me a message on WeChat. We have always felt that she has disappeared, never sent a circle of friends, never give classmates a nod of approval, do not know what this person is busy, our classmates chatting in doubt that this person is not disappeared. It's the same old story again: Sister Juan, are you there? She said she was in Shanghai, and the company sent her here for a two-week training program. I said: Wow, it's been a long time since I've seen you. I'll treat you to dinner on the weekend.
This time, I found a Netflix store on the Internet, and we queued up for two hours to have dinner. Her hometown is Deyang, Sichuan, now working in Chengdu, Chengdu to their home high-speed rail 10 minutes, but she rarely go home. Listen to her say I still do not know what she is doing now, probably what is related to the loan, said the original boss left the new company, she and many of her original colleagues followed together, everything is very familiar with so do a handy.
She said that early last year in Chengdu to buy a house, down payment mom and dad support, and now their monthly repayment of about 3,000, next year on the delivery of the house. I'm so envious, the mortgage is actually as little as 3K, in Shanghai to rent a good point of the house to this price. She said that she will stay in Chengdu in the future, anyway, close to home, and Chengdu is now developing very well. This is one of the few girls around me who has bought a house, and it's incredible.
At the end of August last year, my college roommate sent me a message saying that she was coming to Shanghai, and that she would be staying in Shanghai, asking when she would be free to get together. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product. Later, she found a job as an English teacher at a training institute and had to attend classes on weekends, so we never got together. This year, I changed my job and moved to a new place, and we are both close to each other, just one subway station away. Taking advantage of a time when we were both on vacation, I cooked at home and invited her to dinner and a movie.
My roommate is a journalism major with an English minor. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product. Later, we are preparing for the eight exam, she is still busy with Taobao chasing drama, the last seems to be 61 points over the risk. After graduation, she went to Shenzhen to work as a teacher in an educational institution, stayed almost three years to come to Shanghai, said she wanted to be closer to her family. Her hometown is Inner Mongolia's parents are retired at home, nothing and old classmates get together to drink an afternoon tea, square dancing (her original words are this way), and sometimes come over to help her brother's family with children. My brother has settled down in Shanghai. It seems that a few years ago in Hongkou bought a duplex, more than 8 million. Her brother went to college in Shanghai and is now an executive at Yili, and her sister-in-law is from Shanghai and runs her own piano store.
A few days ago, she said she resigned, I asked how good suddenly, this job did not do how long ah. She said she had a new offer and was still considering it. Then Friday night she would have said about me to go out for a walk, I was outside and friends dinner, we made an appointment Sunday night in the Tongji playground skating. I've always felt that the job salary these belong to personal privacy also did not think to ask and also afraid that she does not want to say, but she said a lot. Her current salary seems to be about the same as mine, said the first to set that 15k, and then her current supervisor to see that she is determined to go, there just happened to be a good opportunity to recommend to her, or training institutions. She said so, but also lucky, people directly with her to talk about the annual salary, 25W, gosh, I heard too shocked.
On Sunday night, I was a little sleepless, not only thinking about my roommate, but also about the students in front of me. I don't know why the gap between us is so big a few years after graduation, and I think I've worked harder than any of them since college.
It was late that day, I couldn't help but find a friend to chat with, my friend said you are jealous, I said yes. I think I'm jealous because I feel that I'm working very hard, but in the end it seems that I can't compare with them, on the contrary, the gap between us seems to be getting bigger and bigger. My friend told me that everyone is in a different environment, she grew up with a lot of small friends on the side of the play all day, but a test are the top few. Classmates did not get a university diploma, now the salary of 30-40w more. She said she had already looked down on these, because society is unfair, why some people have a good family, since childhood, some people are not enough to eat. All we have to do is to do a good job at the moment, do not and others to compare.
Indeed, do not compare with others, or you will be very unhappy, the rhythm of their own life to grasp.
My class president in college, studying abroad back at home for half a year, said that I have always wanted to go out, I said that go ah, take advantage of so much time now. She said a person do not know where to go, and stay at home to get used to it seems to want to go, she said that thinking about September to go to work are a little worried about ......
The physical culture and sports commissioner, all the body is a big brand, the circle of friends are all kinds of tanning brand, our classmates do not have a point to her comments, because she always give people the feeling of floating in the air, not many people in the university. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
My former college classmate, a 10-minute drive from home, almost never comes home on weekends and vacations. I asked her what she does on weekends, and she said that she still stays up late with the same games as the university, and goes to bed at a good time in the morning, and sleeps even later on weekends, and then wakes up basically in the afternoon. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't think I'm going to be able to do that, but I think I'm going to be able to do that," he said.
My roommate, who was fine when I was in college, seems to be a bit ungrounded now. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the right one, but I'm sure you're going to be able to find the right one, and I'm sure you're going to be able to find the right one. She felt in her brother's house is not convenient, last year to Shanghai not long to rent their own house, monthly salary is not high, but willing to rent more than 3,000 houses, a person living in a spacious house of more than 40 square feet. Sunday night she took me to her home to see the last time she came to my house, see her house I said I feel that we can not compare, she said that is to be better for themselves. The words are so, look at her table piled up with garbage, not yet in the door she gave me a warning that the house is a little messy, open the door full of snack bags and used napkins not lost, the ground shoes thrown in a mess, I joked that I want to find a complete pair of a few minutes to spend, why not buy a shoe rack it.
Thinking about these, I don't seem to be so envious of them. I think I'm very happy now, I'm slowly getting on with my work, and I can find time to run and do yoga, read books, and participate in various activities to meet interesting people.
My friend said, "There are a lot of people who are very busy these days, so don't compare yourself with others, just do your best".
Yes, no one can upset the rhythm of your life, according to their own pace of determination to go on.
PS: Yesterday, after reading a book "change your clothes, change your life", very wonderful, recommended to you ~
Just now also in writing this article, the university of a very good small partners WeChat told me to get married on Dragon Boat Festival. We are the same from the rural families, once she was very worried, said her family is not good, looks ordinary, thought that never meet the right person, last year to see her circle of friends finally found that Prince Charming, bless her. I don't know where my TA is, I'm waiting for you on the way to become good, okay?