Chinese parents seem to have an almost maddening obsession with their children's clothing, always feeling that their children will freeze, and will make them wear more and more clothes. There is no parent who doesn't want their grandchildren/grandchildren to be well, but good intentions can do bad things if they are ignorant.
One of the netizens said: "My grandma practiced the policy of "children should wear more clothes because they are afraid of cold" on my baby, and the first thing I do when I come home every day is to undress my child. Last night, when I took my kids out to play, my grandma had to put my baby in a long coat and long pants in 27 degree weather.
Another netizen said: today 23 degrees, my mother-in-law to the child wore three pieces of clothing, give him a thick quilt cover, the bottom of the pad towel, he was hot and cried, and then I gave the child to remove some of the results came back to ask me how to give the child cover so little, I said he was hot and cried all the time, she did not listen to the child to cover a little bit more, said that will be cooled, I know that she is for the sake of the child's well being, but I see that the child cover heat syndrome a lot, I don't even know what to say, but the child is a little bit of the child's heat, I'm not sure if the child can do anything. I'm not sure what to say, but I've seen a lot of kids with heat exhaustion syndrome, and I don't know what to say.
The old man in the family always give the child more clothes this can do? In the old man to help in bringing up the child, we do not want to cause family conflicts due to the child's clothing problems, so in the case of this kind of situation, the young parents of persuasion will need some skills.
1,? Let the old man personally experience. For example: my mother-in-law likes to wear no gloves in winter, I often "accidentally" touch her hand, and then surprised to say "Oops, your hand how so cold ah, is not wearing less, do you want to put my coat on?" Generally, grannies would say, "It's not cold, it's not cold." When your mother-in-law finishes her square dance, you can also say, "It's quite cold today, aren't you cold in your jacket?" Then she will say, "It's a little cold at first, but as I dance, it's not cold anymore."
When the child wears less, the mother-in-law said to avoid letting wear a little, you can say this "we do not move, XuanXuan flopping a night can top you dancing all night, he designated not cold.
2, let the husband do some of the mother-in-law's thought work. After all, what the daughter-in-law said and then the mother-in-law seems to be aimed at her as a person, not for this matter, so the best way is to give the husband popularized how to give the child the correct clothing, by the husband to persuade is the best.
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