? First, parents' orders matchmaker's words
Mom is 60, then still continue the Chinese tradition, children marry follow the "parents' orders matchmaker's words", so, mom at the age of 21, the family arranged a blind date, and finally granddaddy made the decision to let mom married dad.
According to the mom, it was a blind date at the grandfather's house. On the day of the blind date, mom and grandpa entered the house and saw dad standing next to the standing cabinet, thin, short, first time to meet with mom, still a little shy, stammered, awkwardly said a few words of greeting.
After the first meeting, mom did not look at dad this person from the bottom of her heart. The first time I saw him, I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him, and I was so happy to see him. Mom thought about it and said, "I don't like him, but he's good at his trade." Grandpa said, "That's it. In the absence of love, mom married dad.
Second, the married life is very bad
Married together, mom realized that dad is a very stubborn person, do not listen to advice, and do not know how to do things, a road to black, the two people often because of some trivial quarrels.
Later, with our three siblings, the family often can not open the pot, under the pressure of life, mom and dad quarrel more and more often. Any marriage can not withstand the test of frequent quarrels, originally two people are in love after marriage, originally there is little affection, plus quarrels, is more fuel to the fire.
? Since ancient times, has never changed is "who earns more money in the family, who will have the right to speak and decision-making. That's why every time mom and dad have a fight, dad is always on the winning side. I remember one time, mom went to grandpa's house to visit the two old people, when she left the two old people left 200 yuan, mom came back, dad interrogated mom about the money, mom said, said the two people quarreled, the reason is that dad suspected that mom left too much money for the two old people. Mom was so angry that she cried all night. The reason for this is that my mom was angry and cried all night.
In my memory, every time my father and my mother argued, my mother would cry and say, "I can't live with your father, I don't listen to my advice on anything, and if it wasn't for my heartache for the three of you, I would have divorced him." In this way, mom stayed up to our siblings to start their own families, and then ended this stifled Ba Qu's 32 years of life, and dad divorced.
Third, after the divorce, the life into a poem
After the divorce, mom was very happy, she defected to my second aunt, came to the capital city, began to live for themselves. With the help of my second aunt, I bought a tricycle, and my mom never drove a tricycle in the city, but she was soon able to drive a tricycle on the road, and then my mom learned to enter the vegetables, sell vegetables, and later had her own fixed vegetable store.
Although, selling vegetables is very hard, need to get up early in the morning to go to the wholesale market into the vegetables, in summer, in addition to operating a vegetable store, but also out of the morning market, but the inner release, life is very happy, earn their own money to spend, no longer need to be subjected to the control of the father. The complete realization of economic independence, personality independence, can also be said to be "turn over the serf to sing", this is what a great sense of achievement.
Mom now has her own hobbies, such as listening to music, dancing, and shooting videos when she's not doing anything.
Conclusion:
I thank my mom for the sacrifices she made, enduring 32 years of living with my dad in order to take care of us three siblings.
I admire the courage of my mom, who was brave enough to file for divorce and make her way to the capital city.
I admire my mom's spirit of struggle, no matter how tired she is, she insists on getting up early every day to sell vegetables.
I appreciate my mom's attitude towards life, always optimistic about the tiredness and suffering of life, and still full of love for life. Please enter the picture description