How long does it take to get tired of each other when you're married?

The boredom starts after three years of marriage, I think usually around three or four years, especially after having kids, everyone gets bored of married life and each other quickly.

We married not long after the baby, due to malnutrition, but also because I do not know how to cook, my husband did not have time to take care of me,

So I can only a moment to go to my mother-in-law a moment to go to my mother's home, then I feel that I and my husband slowly began to appear disconnected, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is not possible to be like my mother, but he does not want to be like my mother. I've told him many times that his mother is not my mother, it's impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says his parents are very good, how how, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, cooks on time, my father-in-law smokes every day in the house, and it's useless to talk about it, and that's when he always says that I don't know what's wrong with me, etc., and I slowly find that I don't want to call him to talk about these things.

Then I went back to my mother's home, by my mother to take care of me, she has a lot of things to be busy, but is also dedicated to take care of me, because I am pregnant vomit too much, appetite is really not good, very picky kind of, so I can feel the heartache of my parents, and then give birth to a child, my in-laws did not say that they would come to help take care of the month, and did not say that they would come to help care for the child, in short, I month is taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother had a bad back and couldn't come I had to be considerate.

And then we I can't bring the baby alone, it is true that a person will not take care of, so I took the baby back to my mother's home,

His parents phone did not play a, at first I will be a day with him a phone call, and then slowly I don't want to pick up the phone, and not willing to talk to him too much, we are separated for about ten months I went back, I feel that the two people can't be The first time I saw this is when I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was so happy to see that I was able to get back to my life.