Blood is thicker than water is used to describe the relationship between parents and children, the relationship between relatives is very close. Some old people are very fond of their grandchildren, the so-called intergenerational relatives may be so, they like their grandchildren very much, but on the contrary, their son generation of the cross-eyed.
But there is a class of grandparents is the most annoying, they just superficially like their grandchildren, but not the slightest invisible action, which we often mention in our daily lives and those empty gloves? Scummy men? This is somewhat similar to those empty-glove men we often talk about in our daily lives. Their love for their grandchildren only exists in their mouths, where they speak beautifully but don't see the slightest hint of action.
If we see the elders have the following two manifestations in life, we can responsibly say that their hearts really do not have grandchildren.
Loving children is only limited to? In their mouths?
My friend once told me that she and her mother-in-law had been in a bad mood, not only because her mother-in-law was not nice to her and did not take care of her when she was pregnant, but also because her mother-in-law was a hypocrite, which was especially obvious in the treatment of her grandchildren.
Her mother-in-law is a? She has a very good mouth. The woman's mother-in-law is a very good person, everything said very beautiful, every time to their son called to say that they want their grandchildren, said that they want to all can not, every night to sleep can dream, but wait until this side of the son said to take the grandchildren to her to see the time is always excused their own lack of time, that side of the work is busy this and that.
The most obvious is that once she took her son to her mother-in-law's home, her mother-in-law on the surface of the performance of the very warm and miss, but the words are always saying how much they how difficult it is, if it is not because of their own is always sick, surely to the child to take some money away, but the good words said a whole lot of money until their grandchildren to go a penny did not see.
On the contrary, the child's grandmother is a relatively? The first time I've seen this, I've seen it in my own life. The person, grandma always talk a lot, live in the countryside, every time the family has eggs or their own chickens to sell money, grandma will not come far to the city to the child to get eggs, before leaving will definitely buy their own livestock money to the child to stay, said the most words are, ? For the child, for the child, the child must eat and drink well?
While the daughter-in-law said the mother-in-law is not good, but things are like this, the general mouth said very good, do it is a thousand different people are really not much to be seen, if you meet such elders, then you do not have any expectations of him, everything goes with the flow.
Whether to take care of the children, take up their own time to play
Likewise, for most of the old people with grandchildren, they have reached the age of retirement, but also to enjoy the age of family life, to see if they are really love their own grandchildren, but also from the point of view of whether they take care of the children to take up their own time to play.
Nowadays, most of the old people's retirement time is fuller than their own working time, without all the troubles in the unit, the old man what time to get up, what time to eat breakfast, what time to morning exercise, what time to dance square dance are all the arrangements for their own day well organized full of Dengdeng.
I have heard my colleague say such a thing, this colleague recently to give birth to a second child, the whole family is busy in the hospital, the older son is still in elementary school, no one to take care of, this time the colleague thought of sending the child to the mother-in-law's home, it!
My mother-in-law, who is retired and has nothing to do at home, has her own mother and father, so she sent her eldest son to her mother-in-law's home, intending to let her mother-in-law take care of him for a couple of days.
But the mother-in-law's approach really makes a big difference, the mother-in-law is busy every day with her own? friends? Formation of the elderly choir and participate in various choir competitions, thus forgetting to cook for the child, and so colleagues side of the second child was born, found their eldest son has been hungry and thin a few pounds, which can be given to my colleague gas finished, so from then on will rarely give the child to the child's grandmother to bring.
While it is said that blood is thicker than water, but the matter of bringing a child more of the child's own parents' responsibility, all the other people with children for the child has a feeling of being a fence, in fact, regardless of whether the child's grandparents grandma and grandpa really love their grandchildren, we only need to use all our strength to give their own children enough parental love is enough to be a parent, the child's parents are still to on the The child's parents still have to be on the heart ah.